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Find a therapist who can provide affirming and culturally competent therapy to address the unique stressors, discrimination, and identity-related concerns experienced by people who identify as LGBTQI; one who can implement an intersectional approach and advocate for social change.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Abraham Jiménez
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Abraham Jiménez

Abraham Jiménez

Accredited Psychologist
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Counselling • Depression • Health anxiety • LGBTQI • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Counselling • Depression • Health anxiety • LGBTQI • Stress
55 / session55
Berlin
Online only
Elena Kareva
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Elena Kareva

Elena Kareva

EMDR Psychotherapist
Anxiety • EMDR • LGBTQI • PTSD • Therapists for Ukraine • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • EMDR • LGBTQI • PTSD • Therapists for Ukraine • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
50 / session50
Playa del Carmen
Online and Text
Alessia Carrano
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Alessia Carrano

Alessia Carrano

Relationship and Sex Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
70 / session70
Berlin
Online only
Tamara
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Tamara

Tamara

Somatic Counsellor & Therapist. Integrative Body - Mind - Relational Approach
Anxiety • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships • Somatic Experiencing • Stress • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships • Somatic Experiencing • Stress • Trauma
95 / session95
Berlin
In-person and Online
Kate Zoltak
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Kate Zoltak

Kate Zoltak

Sexologist
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Solution-focused therapy
£50 / session50
Wolverhampton
Online only
Annina Tonkov
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Annina Tonkov

Annina Tonkov

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.), Systemic counselor for individuals and couples, Couples and sex counselor, Queer and non-monogamy friendly
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Therapy for Expats
90 / session90
Berlin
Online only
Sadie Smith
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Sadie Smith

Sadie Smith

Counsellor
Addictions • Harm reduction • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Music Therapy • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Addictions • Harm reduction • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Music Therapy • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Trauma Informed Care
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person and Online
Garima Narwani
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Garima Narwani

Garima Narwani

Registered (MBACP) Counseling Psychologist
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Grief & Loss • Integrative therapy • LGBTQI • Narrative therapy • Online therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Grief & Loss • Integrative therapy • LGBTQI • Narrative therapy • Online therapy
90 / session90
Amsterdam
Online only
Vera Yung
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Vera Yung

Vera Yung

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Academic or educational problems • Activism • Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transgenerational
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • Activism • Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transgenerational
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
Chelsey McGovern
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Chelsey McGovern

Chelsey McGovern

Psychological Counselor, Childhood Development Support Specialist, Mindfulness, Trauma Informed, Somatic Practices, ASD, ADHD, LGBTQIA+
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Autism spectrum • Burnout • Children • LGBTQI • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Autism spectrum • Burnout • Children • LGBTQI • Trauma Informed Care
70 / session70
Berlin
Online only
Ozan Erkovan
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Ozan Erkovan

Ozan Erkovan

Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Anxiety • LGBTQI • Parenthood • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anxiety • LGBTQI • Parenthood • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
60 / session60
Paris
In-person and Online
ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Adolescent • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Counselling • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Adolescent • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Counselling • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • LGBTQI
45 / session45
Athens
Online only
Daniel Fryer
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Daniel Fryer

Daniel Fryer

Psychotherapist & Clinical Hypnotherapist
Anger • Anxiety • Coaching • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Sex therapy • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anger • Anxiety • Coaching • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Sex therapy • Stress
80 / session80
Bristol
Online only
Clara Becker
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Clara Becker

Clara Becker

Systemic Counselor
Academic or educational problems • Career • Female empowerment • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • Career • Female empowerment • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
60 / session60
Nantes
In-person and Online
Traianos Panagiotidis
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Traianos Panagiotidis

Traianos Panagiotidis

M.Sc Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Mindfulness • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Mindfulness • Self-confidence
50 / session50
Amsterdam
Online only
Ana Schmidt
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Ana Schmidt

Ana Schmidt

Psychologist & Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist (in-training)
Depression • LGBTQI • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Sexuality • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Depression • LGBTQI • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Sexuality • Trauma
70 / session70
Ljubljana
In-person and Online
Larisa Kharlanova
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Larisa Kharlanova

Larisa Kharlanova

Accreditated Psychotherapist and Jungian Analyst
Active Imagination • Couples therapy • Eating disorders • Jungian analysis • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Self-harm
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Active Imagination • Couples therapy • Eating disorders • Jungian analysis • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Self-harm
$60 / session60
Phnom Penh
Online only
Fernanda Rios
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Fernanda Rios

Fernanda Rios

Psychoanalyst
Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
Dr. Patrick Diemling
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dr. Patrick Diemling

Dr. Patrick Diemling

Systemic Counsellor
Depression • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Supervision for therapists • Therapists for Ukraine
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Depression • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Supervision for therapists • Therapists for Ukraine
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Nefeli Louizou
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Nefeli Louizou

Nefeli Louizou

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • Depression • LGBTQI • Personality disorders
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • Depression • LGBTQI • Personality disorders
60 / session60
Berlin
Online only
Nicole Hoxha, PhDc.
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Nicole Hoxha, PhDc.

Nicole Hoxha, PhDc.

Psychotherapist
Adolescent • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Adolescent • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats
100 / session100
Vienna
In-person and Online
Axinya Salnitskaya
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Axinya Salnitskaya

Axinya Salnitskaya

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Counsellor
Addictions • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Chronic Illness • LGBTQI • Personality disorders • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Addictions • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Chronic Illness • LGBTQI • Personality disorders • Trauma
40 / session40
Lisbon
Online only
Erin Wilmanns
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Erin Wilmanns

Erin Wilmanns

Clinical Counselor & Mental Health Coach
Anxiety • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Depression • Holistic approach • LGBTQI • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Depression • Holistic approach • LGBTQI • Relationships • Trauma
70 / session70
Berlin
In-person and Online
Pablo Corbalan
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Pablo Corbalan

Pablo Corbalan

Individual & Couple Therapist
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person and Online
Zehra Bekişoğlu
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Zehra Bekişoğlu

Zehra Bekişoğlu

M.Sc. Psychologist
Anxiety • Counselling • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Counselling • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
70 / session70
Dortmund
Online and Text
Pedro Carapeto
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Pedro Carapeto

Pedro Carapeto

Psychological Counsellor
Attachment • Crisis Response • Depression • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapists for Ukraine
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Attachment • Crisis Response • Depression • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapists for Ukraine
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists who can help with LGBTQI

What is LGBTQI aware therapy?

LGBTQI aware therapy, also known as LGBTQI affirmative therapy or LGBTQI-inclusive therapy, is a specialised form of counselling or psychotherapy that respects and addresses the unique needs and experiences of individuals who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, or intersex (LGBTQI). Therapists who offer LGBTQI aware therapy undergo training to understand the complexities of gender and sexual diversity and to create a safe and affirming space for clients to explore their identities, navigate challenges, and work towards personal growth and well-being.

 

Effective support for LGBTQI matters

Effective therapeutic support for those who identify as LGBTQI+ involves providing access to therapists who are knowledgeable and affirming of all identities and experiences. These therapists offer a non-judgmental and supportive environment where clients can explore issues such as identity development, coming out, discrimination, relationship dynamics, and mental health concerns. A practitioner offering support in this way may have lived experience as an LGBTQI person, received specific training for LGBTQI-related challenges, and may practice any form of counselling or psychotherapy.

 

Find the right therapist on It’s Complicated

It may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, It's Complicated operates in nearly 100 languages, offering both online and in-person sessions. With a diverse network of over 1,500 mental health professionals spanning 80+ countries, you can easily connect with accredited psychologists who can support you.

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