Boris Herzberg
Couples Psychotherapist
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I help long-term couples resolve conflicts, overcome destructive cycles and rebuild connection.
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Über mich
Personally - not just professionally - I put utmost importance on the value of relationships, being married myself and having raised three kids (well, and two cats, though they’ve grown pretty independently).
In our work, we'll explore what doesn't work out, rediscover what keeps you connected, what your realistic expectations from one another can be, what you agree on, and what you can respectfully disagree on while maintaining understanding and communication. I will encourage honest dialogue between you without pushing or forcing you, generally adhering to the principles of psychoanalytic psychodynamic therapy: following the subjects you raise, analyzing your here-and-now, focusing on emotions, and discussing what is important to you, both in your present and your past.
With over a decade of professional experience, I hold therapy as a unifying experience, therefore it's important for me to create a safe, accommodating and non-judgmental space where you can talk openly about what matters to you most.
I work with couples worldwide, online. Having lived in multiple countries, I understand very well the cultural challenges of expats, immigrants, as well as people afflicted by war.
You can get a sense of how I work through my Psychology Today blog, where I share useful insights about couples' psychology and emotional regulation: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/contributors/boris-herzberg.
In our work, we'll explore what doesn't work out, rediscover what keeps you connected, what your realistic expectations from one another can be, what you agree on, and what you can respectfully disagree on while maintaining understanding and communication. I will encourage honest dialogue between you without pushing or forcing you, generally adhering to the principles of psychoanalytic psychodynamic therapy: following the subjects you raise, analyzing your here-and-now, focusing on emotions, and discussing what is important to you, both in your present and your past.
With over a decade of professional experience, I hold therapy as a unifying experience, therefore it's important for me to create a safe, accommodating and non-judgmental space where you can talk openly about what matters to you most.
I work with couples worldwide, online. Having lived in multiple countries, I understand very well the cultural challenges of expats, immigrants, as well as people afflicted by war.
You can get a sense of how I work through my Psychology Today blog, where I share useful insights about couples' psychology and emotional regulation: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/contributors/boris-herzberg.
Ich spreche:
EnglischHebräischRussisch
Standort:
Valencia, Spanien
Mediengalerie
Ansatz
Behandlungsansätze
BeratungEmpfohlen für diejenigen, die ihre Sorgen und Probleme mit einer ausgebildeten Fachkraft in einer sicheren, unterstützenden Umgebung behandeln möchten.
FamilientherapieEmpfohlen für Familien, die Konflikte lösen, ihre Kommunikation verbessern und einander in der Familiendynamik besser verstehen wollen.
Psychodynamische TherapieEmpfohlen für diejenigen, die ihre Gefühle tiefgründig erforschen wollen und verstehen möchten, wie frühe Erfahrungen ihr gegenwärtiges Leben prägen.
Feeling misunderstood can be exhausting and frustrating - especially when you put your hopes in your partner to be the one who understands and accepts you. As with most couples, it was probably different at the beginning of your relationship, but something got lost or forgotten along the way. The intimacy diminished, the satisfaction subsided, the anger is growing, and so is the distance.
Now you're unsure not just of what to do about it, but even how to start talking about it - and whether it will be helpful at all. It's even harder to talk as your patience dwindles, and you might question whether you need this relationship at all, even though leaving is painful. The good news? Many couples feel this way before finding a path back to one another - and I feel lucky and rewarded to accompany couples as they make changes.
I help long-term couples who:
-Feel stuck in arguments but still want to make it work
-Miss the closeness they once had and want it back
-Have come to a communication dead-end
-Deal with stressful events or significant life changes
-Experience overwhelming emotional reactions or suppress their emotions
-Have lost emotional closeness and sexual intimacy
-Are considering separation but want to be sure they've tried everything
-Want to stay on peaceful and friendly terms when children are involved
Feel free to contact me with any questions you might have or to schedule a session, here or at herzberg.boris (at) gmail(dot)com.
Now you're unsure not just of what to do about it, but even how to start talking about it - and whether it will be helpful at all. It's even harder to talk as your patience dwindles, and you might question whether you need this relationship at all, even though leaving is painful. The good news? Many couples feel this way before finding a path back to one another - and I feel lucky and rewarded to accompany couples as they make changes.
I help long-term couples who:
-Feel stuck in arguments but still want to make it work
-Miss the closeness they once had and want it back
-Have come to a communication dead-end
-Deal with stressful events or significant life changes
-Experience overwhelming emotional reactions or suppress their emotions
-Have lost emotional closeness and sexual intimacy
-Are considering separation but want to be sure they've tried everything
-Want to stay on peaceful and friendly terms when children are involved
Feel free to contact me with any questions you might have or to schedule a session, here or at herzberg.boris (at) gmail(dot)com.
Erfahrung
2014 - onwards: Counsellor & Coach working with adults on relationship & career issues
2019 - onwards: Counsellor & Therapist working with adults (individuals, couples and groups) on emotional, relationship & self-actualization issues
2019 - onwards: Counsellor & Therapist working with adults (individuals, couples and groups) on emotional, relationship & self-actualization issues
Ausbildung
2022-2023: Therapy for Couples in Crisis, Eastern-European Institute of Psychoanalysis
2018-2021: Moscow Institute for Supervision and Group Therapy (Counseling psychologist);
Eastern-European Institute of Psychoanalysis, St-Petersburg (Psychoanalytic therapist)
2014: Master Coach MCI, Coaching Association of Israel, ICF
2002: BA Social Sciences, Ben Gurion University
Additional Professional Development Courses (2021-2024):
-Therapy of Loss
-Traumatic and Normative Crises in Family and Marriage
-Dependent Behavior and the Phenomenon of Codependency in the Family
-Love Triangles
-Children's Fears
-Family and Adolescent Crisis
-Adolescent Self-Destructive Behavior
-Child in Divorce Situation: Loyalty Conflict
Kosten
Kostenloses 20-minütiges Erstgespräch
Einzelsitzung
100 € (50 Minuten)
Paartherapie Sitzung
125 € (55 Minuten)
Couples prolonged
155 € (70 Minuten)
Versicherungen
SelbstzahlenPrivate Krankenversicherungen
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Bietet ein kostenloses 20-minütiges Erstgespräch anDieser Anbieter bietet ein kostenloses Erstgespräch an
Deine Geschichte ist wichtig.Du glaubst, dass wir ein guter Match wären? Dann melde dich hier bei mir!
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Meine Publikationen
Finding Your First Therapist: Starting Strong and Overcoming Challengescomplicated.life
6 Strategies for Preventing Separation in Relationshipscomplicated.life
4 Types of Relationship Silence and the Trouble They CausePsychology Today
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