Yulia Bondar

(she/her)

Relational Counsellor & Gestalt Therapist

Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients

I’m a human being just like you — and I like to keep it real. I have a "no bullshit" policy towards my work as well. I deeply believe we meet first as humans at the core, and then build our therapeutic connection.

I specialise in:

At a glance
Amsterdam, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 1 year and 240+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from YuliaYou can always send me a DM to check the availability or if you have any other questibefore making a decision
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 24 hours

About me

We don’t experience our lives alone.

We experience ourselves in relationships — with partners, family, friends, work, the places we live and the lives we thought we would have.

Sometimes these relationships become difficult. We find ourselves having the same argument with a partner, repeating patterns we promised ourselves we would never repeat, feeling disconnected from others or unsure of who we are becoming.

Sometimes nothing is obviously “wrong” — yet something no longer feels right.

I am a psychologist and Gestalt therapist working with individuals and couples. My work is centred around relationships, patterns and change: understanding what is happening within us, what happens between us and how we can create new possibilities when old ways of relating no longer work.

I offer a warm, open and non-judgemental space where we can slow down, become curious about your experience and explore what might need to change.

I speak:

EnglishRussianUkrainian

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Location:

Amsterdam, Netherlands

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
Gestalt therapyRecommended for those who want to focus on the present and take responsibility for their feelings and actions to promote personal growth.
Person-centred approachRecommended for those looking for a supportive, non-judgmental space where they can lead the conversation and explore their feelings at their own pace.
Trauma informed careRecommended for those who have experienced trauma and need a safe, supportive space to heal at their own pace.

My approach

My approach is based primarily on Gestalt therapy & trauma-sensitive communication. This means we pay attention not only to the stories we tell about our lives, but also to what we are experiencing in the present moment—emotionally, physically, and in our relationships with others.

Together, we become curious about the patterns that may be repeating in your life and explore new possibilities for responding to yourself, others, and difficult situations.

I do not believe there is one “right” way to live. Therapy is not about fixing you or telling you what to do. Instead, it is a collaborative process of developing greater awareness, understanding yourself more deeply and finding ways of living that feel more authentic and supportive.

Coaching and personal development

Alongside my therapeutic work, I have more than ten years of experience in psychology, coaching, organisational development and conflict resolution.

I also work with people navigating professional transitions, difficult decisions, questions about career and direction, leadership challenges, or a general sense of being stuck.

Coaching may be particularly suitable if you are looking for a structured space to reflect, gain clarity and move towards meaningful change.

Living between worlds

I have a particular interest in working with people who are navigating life between cultures, countries or different identities.

Moving to another country or building a life between different worlds can bring opportunity and growth, but it can also raise questions about belonging, identity, relationships and home.

I welcome people from different cultural backgrounds and aim to create a space where your individual experiences and the wider context of your life can both be explored.

What to expect

You don’t need to know exactly what you want to talk about before coming to a session.

In our first meeting, we will start with what brings you here now and what you hope might change. We will also have an opportunity to get a sense of each other and see whether working together feels like a good fit.

Therapy is a collaborative process, and I believe that a trusting relationship between therapist and client is an important part of the work.

I offer sessions in English and Ukrainian, both online and in person in Amsterdam. I also speak russian.

I look forward to meeting you.

Experience

6 years in practice240+ sessions on It's ComplicatedOver 1 year at It's Complicated
  • Psychologist & Trainer The Peoplicious, Amsterdam & Remote April 2018 – Present
  • Mental Health Advisor & Mediator at Empatia by Opora - November 2024 - Present
  • Online Therapy Practice via Mindly.ua - Remote, August 5, 2024 – Present
  • Psychologist, Anti-Crisis Chat "How Are You?" - Remote - February 2022 – June 2022

Education

  • Working with Grief and Loss, 2025-ongoing
  • Gestalt Trainer, Nederlandse Stichting Gestalt, 2025-2026
  • Gestalt Therapist, Nederlandse Stichting Gestalt, 2021-2025
    Master's degree, Organisational Psychology, Taras Shevchenko National University of Kyiv ,2007-2014
  • Transformational Coaching, ACC, 2020-2021

Services

Intro Call

Free 20 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

€85 50 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

€85 50 min Online & In-person

Couples Session

€100 1 hr Online & In-person

Conflict mediation

€100 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private PayPrivate Insurance
At a glance
Amsterdam, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 1 year and 240+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from YuliaYou can always send me a DM to check the availability or if you have any other questibefore making a decision
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 24 hours

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