It's Complicated

Mikko Karhulahti

(he/him)

Clinical Psychologist & Gestalt Therapist

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I am an accredited clinical psychologist, Gestalt therapist and sex counsellor, specialized in attachment theory, working with individuals and couples. I also offer supervision for therapists.

I specialise in:

At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 7 years on It's Complicated
Note from MikkoPractice currently full. Next availability spring 2026. Only private pay (no insurance). Only afternoon availability (no morning/evening).
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
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About me

I have lived most of my adult life abroad and have personally experienced many of the challenges that come with living as a foreigner—questions of belonging, language, culture, and identity. Studying, training and working in various European countries has shaped a culturally sensitive and relational mindset, which I aim to bring into my therapeutic work. I have experience working with people of different backgrounds, nationalities, and ages, and I am particularly attentive to how cultural, relational, and contextual factors shape individual experience. I completed my psychologist residency in a closed prison setting, where I worked with male inmates. I am currently in-training to become an EAGT accredited supervisor (2025-2027) and I offer during my training supervision with a reduced fee (75 EUR / 45min). Recent specializations in sex therapy (Helsinki, Finland) and in Phenomenological Psychopathology and Field Theory (Torino, Italy).

I speak:

EnglishFinnish

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Location:

Friedelstraße 40, 12047 Berlin, Germany

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
Clinical psychologyRecommended for those who need help with diagnosing and treating more complex mental health issues, often involving assessments and evidence-based treatments.
Gestalt therapyRecommended for those who want to focus on the present and take responsibility for their feelings and actions to promote personal growth.
Sex therapyRecommended for individuals or couples who want help improving their sex life, intimacy, or overcoming sexual issues in a supportive environment.
I view “symptoms” and “disorders” as meaningful and creative adjustments to a person’s environment and life context. Rather than pathologising these patterns, my work focuses on becoming aware of how they develop and take shape in the relational field, within the therapeutic encounter. This awareness can open space for choice, integration, and change. Areas of interest: - attachment, relationship and family dynamics - anxiety, burnout, and panic attacks - depression, isolation, and addiction - autism spectrum and ADHD/ADD - sexuality and gender - altered states of consciousness and psychedelic experiences My Master’s thesis in Clinical Psychology focused on psychotherapy treatment outcomes and feedback systems with adult clients. My final thesis in Gestalt therapy training explored attachment theory and the manifestation of attachment patterns in adult close relationships. My final thesis in sex therapy training examined the clinical use of five structured written exercises across therapeutic processes, supporting work on individual sexual satisfaction, relationship style preferences, and communication in intimate relationships. Gestalt therapy Gestalt therapy is a humanistic and integrative form of psychotherapy that focuses on a person’s experience in the present moment. It emerged in the mid-20th century from a convergence of clinical, intellectual, and philosophical traditions, including psychoanalysis, psychodrama, Gestalt psychology, existentialism, phenomenology, and field theory. This holistic approach emphasises awareness of what is happening here and now—one’s perceptions, bodily sensations, emotions, and thoughts. The aim of therapy is to support awareness as it unfolds within an authentic, dialogical relationship between client and therapist. The term “Gestalt” comes from German and refers to a figure or form—the way something takes shape as a whole, including its character and embodied presence.

Experience

10 years in practiceAbout 7 years at It's Complicated
2023-> Clinical psychologist & Gestalt therapist & sex counsellor at Counselling Kollektiv Berlin, Friedelstrasse 40, Berlin 2018-2022 Clinical psychologist & Gestalt therapist at Mittelweg 50 in Berlin 2017-2018 Clinical psychologist & Gestalt therapist at private practice in Paris 2016-2017 Prison psychologist at Riihimäki prison in Finland 2015 Voluntary worker at the Finnish Red Cross at Emergency Youth Shelter in Turku, Finland

Education

2025-2027 in-training: Gestalt Therapy Training for Supervisors, at International Institute of Gestalt Therapy and Psychopathology, Torino, Italy and Prague, Czech Republic. 2022-2023 Sex therapist (NACS-accreditation in process) at Sexpo Foundation in Helsinki, Finland 2021-2023 basic & advanced training in Phenomenological Psychopathology and Field Theory (Turin, Italy) 2014-2018 Training and certificate in Gestalt psychotherapy at Gestalt Institute of Scandinavia in Denmark 2021 post-graduate training in Sex counselling at Sexpo Foundation in Helsinki, Finland 2015-2017 Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology at University of Leiden in the Netherlands 2014-2015 Master studies in Psychology at University of Copenhagen in Denmark 2013-2014 Master of Science Research in Cognition and Behavior at University of Barcelona in Spain 2015 Master of Science in Economic Sociology at University of Turku in Finland

Services

Individual Session

€100 45 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€80 45 min Online & In-person
Low income / students / unemployed

Supervision session

€75 45 min Online & In-person

Couples Session

€130 50 min In-person

Couples Session

€170 1 hr 30 min In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 7 years on It's Complicated
Note from MikkoPractice currently full. Next availability spring 2026. Only private pay (no insurance). Only afternoon availability (no morning/evening).
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds after 24 hours
Usually responds after 24 hours