It's Complicated
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Aranja Berkmüller (she/they)

Psychological Counsellor

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Unconventional coaching for creatives, deep thinkers, expats, migrants, queerdos, people of color, kinksters, neurodivergent unicorns, psychonauts, scanners, visionaries, misfits...you are all welcome here.
  • €80 / session
  • 10-session package (€80/session)/ - €80 / session
  • 5-session package (€100/session)/ - €100 / session
  • Single session - €115 / session
  • 5-session package relationship/couples counseling (€100/session)/ - €110 / session
  • Single session relationship/couples counseling/ - €130 / session
Based inBerlin
Available in-person
Available online
Mondays I do sessions on the It's Complicated platform. Sessions on other days can be booked at https://calendly.com/aranjab

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About me

Telegram: @AmplifiedHumanity Whatsapp: +4917687885929 Email: hello[at]amplified-humanity.com www.amplified-humanity.com Despite my formal certifications I believe my most important qualifications are my life experience, my ability to see core issues quickly, and my irreverent sense of humour. I haven't lived life on the straight and narrow and that's probably a good thing. I grew up internationally in some of the world's most disadvantaged regions, began my career in international development, before quitting to build a creative business centred around kink and body-positivity, with the result that I realised I really didn't want to spend my working life selling "stuff". I became a death doula, volunteered in psychedelic crisis support, obtained my coaching certification and trained in somatic emotional trauma integration. As a trauma therapist, systemic coach and psychological counsellor, I specialise in supporting people who live outside of the norm and/or feel somehow different or left behind. Some other topics I specialise in include burnout, psychedelic preparation and integration, relationships (incl. queer, poly and kinky), narcissistic abuse, grief and death work, relocating to a different country, issues of belonging and identity, dealing with profound shame, and addressing stubborn issues that just don't seem to go away. A large proportion of my clients identify as non-binary and many of them are BIPOC. You can find out more about me at www.amplified-humanity.com

My approach

I operate from the belief that healing is a natural process that takes place when we feel safe enough to do so. My job is to support you to reach that space and to be there with you as you navigate the mess. My sessions are an invitation to examine an issue and experiment with it to see what changes. We can try out creative, visual, somatic or thought-based exercises and see how your system responds. This helps you understand what you need in order to set yourself up for the changes you want in your life. It is an open, non-linear process and is effective because we remove the pressure of achieving a certain result. Instead, we work with an intention, but stay away from "treatment goals" because it divides results into "success" and "failure". We're not here to judge, but to gently test things out at the end of our comfort zone. I don't believe that mental health is an individual issue, especially if you are dealing with structural injustice and find yourself in situations of limited choice. Excessive focus on personal responsibility and resources can be damaging rather than empowering if you feel unheard and alone. Together we find a balance between what is your responsibility and what is not. You can talk to me about sensitive topics such as kink, poly relationships, sex work, death and dying, psychedelics etc. You can also address things with me that you may feel deep shame around such as sex, disordered eating, money, compulsive habits, or things you did that you regret or are embarrassed about. To find out if we're a fit, I invite you to send me a message (I also have Telegram: @AmplifiedHumanity) and hop on a free 15-minute online call with me. I am based in Berlin but I travel regularly, which means my working hours change. If the listed hours don't work for you, feel free to let me know and we will figure something out.

Where I practice

Qualifications and experience

Education
2022 - 2023: Recognising and Healing Developmental Trauma and Early Injuries - Relationship and Safety with Clients, Dami Charf 2022 - 2023: Psychological and Systemic Coach and Counsellor, Verbund freier Trainer und Coaches 2020: Death Doula training (Sterbebegleitung), Hospizdienst Horizont 2010: Postgraduate program in International Development, Humboldt University Berlin 2006 - 2007: Master of Science in International Development Studies, University Utrecht 2003 - 2006: Bachelor of Arts in Social Science, University College Utrecht
Experience
2023 - current: systemic and psychological counsellor and coach at amplified-humanity.com 2019 - 2023: counsellor for queer and trans* people of colour at Casa Kuà 2019 - current: volunteer in psychedelic crisis support at eclipse e.V. 2016 - current: kink coach, lingerie designer and founder at Pique Lingerie 2016: full-time caregiver to terminally ill family member 2015: sabbatical to establish new direction personally and professionally 2006 - 2014: international development and aid work specialising in human rights, gender, and poverty reduction
Languages
English
German
Thai
Insurances
Private Pay
  • €80 / session
  • 10-session package (€80/session)/ - €80 / session
  • 5-session package (€100/session)/ - €100 / session
  • Single session - €115 / session
  • 5-session package relationship/couples counseling (€100/session)/ - €110 / session
  • Single session relationship/couples counseling/ - €130 / session
Based inBerlin
Available in-person
Available online
Mondays I do sessions on the It's Complicated platform. Sessions on other days can be booked at https://calendly.com/aranjab
Usually responds within one day

Availability

Usually responds within one day