Vera Fleischer

Vera Fleischer

CA Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

95 € / session

120 € / Couples session

Only taking on new local clients in Cologne.

Offers Online Sessions

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Mon Sep 27
Tue Sep 28
Wed Sep 29

The therapists timezone is Europe/Berlin

95 € / session

Vera Fleischer

CA Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Cologne

As a therapist working with communication, patterns and insecurities, I like to focus on making good use of the choices that are available to you or to your relationship(s). Let's get your emotional ducks in a row.

Mühlenbach 42 50676 Cologne Mühlenbach 42 50676 Cologne

About Vera

From a young age I have been fascinated by what drives people. I have been curious about people’s deepest desires and insecurities and how they affect a person’s personality and behavior. Due to my shame about my own personal challenges, it took me a while to realize how helpful psychotherapy can be. Once I embraced and accepted help for myself, I realized that I wanted to be a psychotherapist. As I stepped into that role, it became clear that this work meets me in the areas of authentic communication, emotional bonding, relational repair, and creative expression.

I graduated with a Master of Arts in Integral Counseling Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS) in 2014. I received training in depth-oriented psychotherapy and Gestalt therapy at the Church Street Integral Counseling Center in San Francisco for two years. Then I was a member of the Bay Area Gestalt Institute (BAGI) for four years. As of 2016, I am licensed in California as a Marriage and Family Therapist. I had a private practice in the Mission District of San Francisco until the end of 2019.

I grew up in Germany and lived in the United States from 1996 to 2019, seventeen of those years in San Francisco. A lot of my personal growth work has been around processing the guilt and shame associated with the history of Germany.

My Approach

My approach is client-centered and relational. I strive to meet you where you are and as you are. I place great emphasis on the client-therapist relationship, as I believe it often parallels your experiences in real life.

With compassion and curiosity I use a logical approach to help you meet your soul’s needs and live your favorite life. I worked in the software industry for many years. Because of this experience I bring a strongly developed logical, problem-solving side to my work. As a former software debugger, I now see myself as a soul debugger. Together we can figure out what you want and how you are interrupting yourself from getting there.

Moment-to-moment tracking
In terms of psychological approaches, I identify as a Gestalt therapist first and foremost. In our sessions I like to start with awareness in the here and now. Out of this awareness emerge sensations, thoughts and feelings which need to be experienced, digested and integrated into the whole of one’s being. Sometimes integration means not digesting a particular byte of information. Accepting this refusal can also contribute to greater wholeness.

A lot of times a sense of well-being can come from making a clear decision about what you want to do with a particular sensation, thought or feeling. You learn to be and accept who you are, with your likes and dislikes, preferences and resistances. Sometimes, owning the unknown or confusion can be part of this. We can become clear about being confused and make a choice based on this clarity, and that feels good.

Parts work
Another big part of my work is parts work. In parts work, we identify and communicate with different parts of your psyche or personality that may or may not be in conflict with each other. Common parts are the inner critic, judge, protector, or fighter. We explore what a dominant part needs. We explore what a hidden part is afraid of. Insights, relief and freedom can emerge from this work.

Qualifications And Experience


2020 Externship in EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples), Berlin

2020 License as a Heilpraktiker for Psychotherapy by the City of Cologne

2019 Basic training in EMDR, San Francisco

2016 License as a California Marriage and Family Therapist (#97057)

2014 Master of Arts in Integral Counseling Psychology from California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS), San Francisco

2013-2015 Training in Gestalt therapy at the Church Street Integral Counseling Center, San Francisco


Therapist & Couples Counselor, Cologne, Germany, December 2019 – present: Provide couples therapy and individual counseling in German and English as well as remote psychotherapy for clients residing in California.

Psychotherapist in Private Practice, Bay Area Gestalt Institute, San Francisco, CA, USA, September 2015 – December 2019: Saw individuals and couples as a psychotherapist in private practice, focused on communication skills, relationships, shame, self-esteem, grief, loneliness, childhood emotional neglect, etc.

Primary Therapist, Cielo House, Moss Beach, CA, USA, September 2015 – August 2017: Saw individual clients, couples and families in a residential / PHP treatment facility for eating disorders and co-occurring substance use disorders, including assessment and crisis intervention. Facilitated therapy groups on topics such as Body Image, CBT, DBT, Interpersonal, and Process.

Psychotherapist Intern, Church Street Integral Counseling Center, San Francisco, CA, USA, September 2014 – present: Saw individuals and couples as a psychotherapist in a private practice setting. Facilitate trainings and exercises with trainees.

Psychotherapist Trainee, Church Street Integral Counseling Center, San Francisco, CA, USA, September 2013 – September 2014: Saw individuals and couples as a psychotherapist in a private practice setting.


English, German


Private Pay, Private Insurance