Ellis Graham
(she/they)
Counsellor & Psychological Counsellor
Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients
My clients are queer, neurodivergent people who often feel like they’ve had to translate themselves to be understood in a world that wasn’t built with them in mind. I am kink-aware and consensual non-monogamy informed.
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At a glance
€75-100 per session
Valencia, SpainAvailable online and via textLast active
Note from EllisSpecializing in LGBTQIA+, neurodivergence, and ethical non-monogamy.
Usually responds after 24 hours
About me
My clients are queer, neurodivergent people who often feel like they’ve had to translate themselves to be understood in a world that wasn’t built with them in mind. Many identify as autistic, ADHD, or otherwise neurodivergent, and are navigating intersecting identities around gender, sexuality, culture, and mental health. They may be high-masking, deeply self-aware, and exhausted from trying to meet expectations that don’t fit. They’re often thoughtful, creative, and resilient, even if they don’t always feel that way.
I speak:
English
Location:
Valencia, Spain
Approach
Treatment Approaches
CFT: Compassion-Focused TherapyRecommended for those who want to be kinder to themselves and reduce negative self-talk, often using mindfulness techniques.
GSRD (Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity) TherapyRecommended for those seeking affirmative support and guidance while navigating the complexities of identity, sexuality, and relationships.
Person-centered approachRecommended for those looking for a supportive, non-judgmental space where they can lead the conversation and explore their feelings at their own pace.
We work collaboratively and affirmatively, centering your lived experience as valid and important. Our approach is neurodivergent-affirming, queer-affirming, and grounded in curiosity rather than judgment. Clients usually come to me when something isn’t working anymore—burnout, identity confusion, relationship struggles, or a sense of disconnection from themselves. That might include redefining productivity, setting boundaries, processing trauma, or experimenting with new ways of relating to self and others.
Experience
Inclusive Intimacy and Wellness, LLC (Owner) 2024-present
Talkspace (National Provider) 2021-2024
Private Practice (Clinician) 2012-2021
Communicare (Community Mental Health) 2007-2012
Education
Master of Science degree in Counseling from Campbellsville University in 2007
Bachelor of Art degree in Psychology from Wright State University in 1993
Services
Individual Session
€75 • 1 hr • Online & Text
Couples Session
€100 • 1 hr • Online & Text
Insurances
Private Pay
At a glance
€75-100 per session
Valencia, SpainAvailable online and via textLast active
Note from EllisSpecializing in LGBTQIA+, neurodivergence, and ethical non-monogamy.
Usually responds after 24 hours
Next available: Jun 15