What happens in a session very much depends on the approach of the counsellor and the style of therapy. In other words, there isn’t really a typical counselling session. Your counsellor will be trained in listening and in asking questions to make you reflect around certain themes, and of course in providing a safe environment in which to explore your issues. With most types of therapy you are free to discuss what you wish, from everyday events, dilemmas, feelings, and thoughts, to regrets, aspirations, memories and dreams.
Often, shorter-term forms of therapy, like cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and solution-focused therapy, can be more structured and provide practical exercises to help you understand your thoughts and actions. Psychodynamic therapies and psychoanalysis explore how childhood experiences and trauma affect patterns of behaviors today. By a process that often also includes working with the unconscious (such as dreams, fantasy, play) a person can help to gain access to their feeling life as well as finding an ethical compass in life. This process is often longer and can involve a year of work or more.
So you want to find a compassionate and genuine therapist in Copenhagen who cares about the difficulties you’re facing and who is qualified to explore what you bring to the chair. However, you’ve found that the journey to choosing a therapist is long, and fraught with considerations you didn’t quite premeditate before you started the
Did you know that it is more common to have a lower mood after giving birth than to feel ecstatic? Around 80% of mothers experience what is commonly known as the ‘baby blues’. Symptoms include irritability, sadness, mood swings, increased crying, and anxiety about their baby. While these feelings are uncomfortable, they are the norm
It was winter 1979 in Edinburgh, Scotland and as usual the wind off the North Sea cut to the bone as my future wife, Orianne and I knocked on Winifred’s front door. Upstairs a group of eight to ten of us huddled in a circle around an electric bar heater in Winifred’s front room drinking