It was winter 1979 in Edinburgh, Scotland and as usual the wind off the North Sea cut to the bone as my future wife, Orianne and I knocked on Winifred’s front door. Upstairs a group of eight to ten of us huddled in a circle around an electric bar heater in Winifred’s front room drinking
What do you do when you feel lost and stressed? Do you go for a run and activate your body? Do you go and meet your friends for lunch? Or do you, like me, sometimes try to crack a joke at your own misery? Expressive arts like comedy writing, story telling, or drawing, are activities
Recently, I was asked one of the most common questions in sex- and couples therapy: “After x years[1] of relationship I find myself wanting more (or different) sex than my partner does. I still love them. But I already started engaging with someone else to get my needs met. Do I have to separate from