Ben Kates

(he/him)

Clinical Social Worker & Psychological Counsellor

Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients

I work from radical genuineness, a non-judgemental stance and a hopeful attitude using a holistic toolbox of methods to help my clients learn how to put out their fires and achieve the lives they want to live.

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At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Last active
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About me

I am a licensed clinical social worker providing online counseling services. I have experience with people from all walks of life including high acuity patients who have dealt with suicidality and psychosis and domestic violence

I specialized in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy(DBT) and am a certified DBT Skills Trainer from Behavioral Tech. I also recieved training in Radically Open Dialectical Behavioral Therapy(RO‑DBT) for disorders of over control like anxiety and autism and Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) for the treatment of chronic pain. I also pull from Rogerian Therapy, Adlerian Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, Strengths Perspective, Attachment‑Based Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Geek Therapy for a holistic approach to solution focused therapy.

In our first call, we'll just chat. No pressure. It's just a chance for you tell me what you're looking for and see if we'll fit.

If you decide you like me and we get into the therapy room, it's still just more talking.

When clients begin therapy, I focus on meeting clients where they are, learning their history and where they want to go, so goals can be set collaboratively.

But the jargon-y explanation is that I use that therapeutic relationship we will build to leverage evidence‑based modalities through a holistic lens to examine patterns and support change.

Sessions may include but are not limited to: breathing exercises, grounding techniques, self‑inquiry, journaling, inner child work, body scanning, distress‑tolerance practice, interpersonal effectiveness and emotion regulation skill building, boundary‑setting, dramatic exercises, and media and art analysis.

Basically - if the tool is useful, I'll use it but you and I will be in this together. Nothing is more important that being a team and getting you believing in yourself and your capability.

I have found through repeated successes that this approach supports clients in: being kinder to themselves, becoming more assertive, reaching their goals, and developing safety in themselves to improve their lives and valued relationships.

I consider my approach to be radically genuine, non‑judgmental, intense, and grounded in hopeful realism.

I started my own practice in the USA, Level 20 Brain Cleric in 2023 where I still see LGBTQ+, AuDHD and teen clients online.

Outside of clinical work clinical work, I values continuity of care and healthcare advocacy and is committed to improving education around these issues. When I'm not working,I love to travel, writing, collecting vinyl, anime, role‑playing games, language learning, going to burns and trying to keep my cat from committing crimes.

I speak:

English

Connect with me:

Location:

Berlin, Germany

Approach

Treatment Approaches
DBT: Dialectical behaviour therapyRecommended for those who want to learn skills to manage intense emotions and improve their relationships, especially if they feel easily overwhelmed.
Holistic approachRecommended for those who want to address their mental health through a balanced focus on mind, body, and spirit.
Solution-focused therapyRecommended for those who want quick, practical solutions to their problems without focusing too much time on the past.

I work with people who's lives are fire and leaking gas,thinking "I can't fix this myself. It would take a miracle to put that."

The therapy I do gives my clients the brain magic that will let them put out the fires themselves.

I take a no bullshit, dynamic approach to therapy grounded in radical genuineness, care, and playful optimism.

I practice from a deeply nonjudgmental stance. Nothing you bring into session is ever stupid. There's no wasted time here. I can make almost anything therapeutic.

I believe you are the expert on your own life.

You already have so many strengths, and our work is collaborative by design to teach you how use them.

In the beginning we'll take an active, goal focused approach. We'll be processing, exploring different interventions, practicing new skills, eventually doing deep and creative work together.

Change is possible with support.

I’ll provide that while also helping you recognize the resources you already have. You’re likely carrying more than you should have to. As your therapist, I'll help shoulder that psychological weight and teach you how to carry it differently. Maybe you'll even find space to set one or two things down for a moment or two.

Over and over in my practice, I have seen that those who've put in the effort and time, do in fact put out their fires and see more good days. Real, positive change happens in their lives, often in ways they couldn’t imagine.

That's the real magic.

So reach out, let me teach you some brain magic and we'll put out some fires together.

Experience

8 years in practice

Level 20 Brain Cleric, Owner/Therapist, 2023 - present

Thriveworks, Private Practice Therapist, 2021 - 2023

Atlanta DBT, Full Protocol Dialectal Behavioral Therapy Resident Skills Trainer and Therapist, 2021 - 2022

PARTNERS FOR HOME/FEMA COVID Shelter, Shelter Resident Assistant , 2020-2021

ANIZ, HIV Support Services Clinician, 2018-2019

Carrol County Community Service Board, Community Mental Health Therapist, 2017 - 2018

Education

Master of Social Work - Georgia State University - 2017

Bachelor of Arts - Florida State University - 2011

Services

Intro Call

Free 15 min Online

Individual Session

€150 50 min Online

Couples Session

€200 1 hr 15 min Online & In-person

Walk and Talk

€120 50 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€70 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours
Next available: Aug 24