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Get matched - the simple way to start your therapy.

Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.
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Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
Why matching is important
Why matching is important

Why matching is important

Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matching

Explore the directory

Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
BEGUM ENGUR
Psychologist & EMDR Therapist
Istanbul, Turkey
I help children, adolescents and adults overcome anxiety, stress, depression and trauma through EMDR – fostering calm, resilience and lasting personal growth. (EMDR Europe Accredited Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS) 🇬🇧🇹🇷
Victoria Iwanowska
Psychologist
Warsaw, Poland
Psychologist & MBA graduate. I combine clinical expertise with years of business experience to help adults and couples heal the past and design a life of freedom. Specialized in midlife transitions.
Marlene Borchert
Clinical Psychologist & Psychodynamic Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
Manchmal wird im Leben alles ein wenig zu viel – sei es durch Überforderung, innere Unruhe oder bekannte Belastungen. Im Gespräch darf all das Platz finden. Lassen Sie uns gern gemeinsam schauen, was Sie gerade bewegt.
Herbert Bittorf
Counsellor
Tauberbischofsheim, Germany
I am a qualified psychologist and coach, and I support people who are going through difficult, confusing, or emotionally demanding phases in their lives.
Katarzyna Bielecka
Psychologist & Coach
Warsaw, Poland
CBT psychologist and coach supporting adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, burnout, ADHD, OCD and work-life challenges. Offering a safe, supportive space to understand yourself, heal and create lasting change.
Stefano Marcucci
Clinical Psychologist & Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
I'm here to listen to you and understand the life circumstances that have led you to your current challenging situation. I will support you in discovering your potential and finding your own path to wellbeing.
Arden Burak Demirel
Psychologist & Sexologist
Amsterdam, Netherlands
I am an English speaking expert in psychosexology based in Amsterdam. My work emphasizes on LGBTQ+, sexual health, anxiety, relationship dynamics and neurodiversity.
Marina Winkler
Psychologist & Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy
Wyk auf Föhr, Germany
As a psychologist (M.Sc.), I work with individuals and couples. My focus: trauma, stress and burnout, anxiety, neurodiversity (e.g., ADHD, high sensitivity), attachment and relationship patterns, self-esteem.
Bibiana Jordan
Psychologist & EMDR Counsellor
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Do you feel like something just isn’t right? Are you stuck in the same arguments with your partner, or curious why certain things trigger you? I can help, using an evidence-based and holistic approach!
Inga Thomsen
Couples Therapist & Systemic Therapist
Berlin, Germany
Ich begleite Paare in herausfordernden Phasen, um gemeinsam neue Perspektiven der Dynamik zu entwickeln und nachhaltig Veränderungen zu ermöglichen.
Lucia Pohlman Cid
Couples Therapist & Psychotherapist
Berlin, Germany
I support individuals and couples in gaining a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships, helping them find new ways to navigate life's challenges.
Moritz Fuchs
Psychologist & Psychotherapist in training
Munich, Germany
Psychische Belastungen sind kein Zeichen von Schwäche, sondern die logische Antwort der Psyche auf die eigene Lebensgeschichte. Meine Arbeit bietet einen geschützten Raum, um diese unbewussten Muster zu verstehen.
Maja Helena Harmes
Systemic Therapist
Berlin, Germany
Creating an open, accepting environment for you to explore how you want to grow, how to take care of your needs and how to communicate them. For authenticity and connection. Neurodiversity and 2e informed
Dr. med. Tamas Nador
Gestalt Therapist & Family Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
I’m a medical doctor, systemic family counsellor, and Gestalt therapist (final year of training) I support adults who feel stuck or overwhelmed, in life, career, or relationship changes. Online/in person. EN / HU / DE
Agnes Trzak, PhD
Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy
Berlin, Germany
● Deutsch & English ● Neurodiversity-Affirmative ● ADHD ● Autism ● Emotional Regulation ● Trauma ● Burnout ● Highly Sensitive Persons ● Activist Support (incl. climate & animal activists) ● LGBTQIA
Qian Yang
Integrative Counsellor
London, United Kingdom
I work with people who sense something isn't quite right — in their relationships, sense of self, or the life they've built. Particularly experienced with cultural identity, family dynamics and women's personal growth.
Benedikt Schmidt
Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist in training
Berlin, Germany
Psychological Support for Anxiety, Depression, and Burnout.
Sarah Kimpel
Sex Counsellor & Social worker
Berlin, Germany
Ich bin Sozialarbeiterin (B.A.), Sexualwissenschaftlerin (M.A.), zertifizierte Traumafachberaterin und Sexualberaterin. Ich biete traumasensible Sexualberatung für Frauen, trans, inter und nicht-binäre Personen an.
Tamara Romaniuk
Somatic Counsellor & Couples Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
As an English-speaking somatic counsellor and mindfulness teacher with 20 years of experience, I work on supporting individuals and couples to overcome negative thoughts and emotions by tapping into our body resources.
Jana Tanasić
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Psychotherapist & Psychologist
Banja Luka, Bosnia and Herzegovina
Warm, empathic, and real. I’ll meet you gently, but I’ll be honest and direct when it counts. My goal is to help you understand yourself and learn tools so you can become your own therapist, now and later.
Olesya Naminach
Psychologist & Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Counsellor
Esch-sur-Alzette, Luxembourg
MSc in Social Psychology. I specialize in CBT and ACT, and integrate mindfulness, positive psychology, and solution-focused approaches into my practice. Committed to lifelong learning, I continuously deepen my expertise.
Olga Tingstedt
Psychiatrist & Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Psychotherapist
Trondheim, Norway
To find meaning, purpose and connection in the midst of adverse life experiences like loss, trauma, anxiety or the endless gray of everyday life.
Anna Punda
Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy & Psychological Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
Not everything we call stress needs more stress management. Sometimes, we need to understand what we’ve been carrying, make space for what is really there — and learn to carry less.
Joanna Bunikowska
Psychological Counsellor & Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Counsellor
Joensuu, Finland
I’m a psychologist (MSc) trained in ACT, helping adults feeling stuck—overwhelmed, stressed, managing ADHD, or coping with trauma—build practical skills, find meaning and direction, and connect with what truly matters.

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

One does not have to be a therapist to realise that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, with whom you can build a strong alliance, doesn't have to be. This is the founding principle of It's Complicated, a global network of 2,500+ therapists on a mission to build the world's most sustainable therapy platform.A few years in, we've helped tens of thousands of clients and counting, and built thriving therapy communities in major European cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Lisbon, and Vienna.

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