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Get matched - the simple way to start your therapy.

Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.
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How it works

Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
Why matching is important
Why matching is important

Why matching is important

Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matching

Explore the directory

Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
Ben Graham
Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
I am a Gestalt Practitioner working in Berlin. I offer in-person and online psychological counselling and coaching at my practice in Prenzlauerberg/Weißensee.
Clara Becker
Systemic Coach
Nantes, France
You are looking to sort your thoughts, moderate conflicts, get new perspectives, find agency and initiate change? I offer creative counseling to help you find your way. Book a free 20 min call to get to know each other.
Carolin Kleinmann
Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy & Systemic Therapist
Berlin, Germany
As a trauma-informed practitioner, I support you in working through stress, trauma, life transitions, and relationship patterns while strengthening self-regulation and reconnecting with your body and inner resources.
Alexandra Kotsi
Clinical Psychologist
Athens, Greece
Real change develops gradually through time, space and trust. Psychotherapy provides a safe, non-judgmental environment for self-exploration. Within this process, greater self-understanding and lasting change can emerge.
Gayle Clark
EMDR Therapist & Social worker
Oklahoma City, United States
You’ve done the coping, the overthinking, the surviving. Now you’re ready to understand what shaped you - and finally feel like yourself again.
Genica Robbins
Psychological Psychotherapist
Copenhagen, Denmark
I use warmth and respect to work with people and clarify their thoughts and what they want from their lives, so that they can make the best choices for themselves moving forward.
Rashid Seruddin
Psychologist & Counsellor
Leiden, Netherlands
I’m Rashid (ARMS), a licensed therapist using CBT, DBT, and motivational therapy to support growth. I offer a safe space to explore, heal, and reconnect with your strengths and authentic self.
Simon Karim Frembgen
Coach & Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy
Berlin, Germany
I accompany people through their change processes with clarity and sensitivity – as an authentic, sincere counterpart. 👉 Currently i offer a first therapy-test-session for the reduced price of 80€!
Sabrina Torres
Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
Vienna, Austria
Psychotherapie ist für mich ein individueller Prozess auf den wir uns gemeinsam einlassen. Ich begleite Menschen bei ihren Herausforderungen sowohl Online, als auch in meiner Praxis in Wien.
Dr. med. Tamas Nador
Gestalt Therapist & Family Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
I’m a medical doctor, systemic family counsellor and Gestalt therapist-in-training. I support individuals with emotional difficulties, relational patterns and life or career changes. Online/in person. ENG / HUN / GER
Elisa Scholtes
Art Therapist & Relationship Coach
Weimar, Germany
Wachsen durch Bindung: als Kunsttherapeutin und Coachin mit systemischer Haltung begleite ich Paare, Frauen & Familien.
Marlene Borchert
Clinical Psychologist & Psychodynamic Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
Manchmal wird im Leben alles ein wenig zu viel – sei es durch Überforderung, innere Unruhe oder bekannte Belastungen. Im Gespräch darf all das Platz finden. Lassen Sie uns gern gemeinsam schauen, was Sie gerade bewegt.
Hoda Haddad
Psychologist
Amsterdam, Netherlands
I help individuals with stress, burnout, depression, anxiety, and relationship problems in a safe & collaborative space. We do this at your pace, while gently stretching your comfort zone so real change becomes possible!
Maria Davydova
Psychologist & Couples Counsellor
The Hague, Netherlands
English and Russian-speaking experienced psychologist. I help couples to handle disagreements and miscommunication. I work with anxiety and stress.
Anna Kruse
Gestalt Therapist & Dance and Movement Therapist
Berlin, Germany
Als Heilprakt. für Psychotherapie, Gestalttherapeutin, Tanztherapeutin & Systemische Beraterin/Coach begleite ich dich in Form von Einzeltherapie oder euch in Form von Paartherapie.
Dr. Frauke Kuhn
Systemic Counsellor & Couples Counsellor
Frankfurt, Germany
Ich bin systemische Beraterin und Paarberaterin (DGSF) und begleite Einzelne und Paare bei Beziehungsthemen, Konflikten, Selbstwertthemen und in akuten Krisen.
Yosef Starkin
Clinical Psychologist & Body Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
I work with men who have an analytical mindset, helping them understand their emotions, regulate their relationships, and explore their own answers to existential questions.
Rebecca Fleischmann
Psychological Psychotherapist & Psychological Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
As a psychological psychotherapist I offer counseling and soon psychotherapy for individuals | Online & in Berlin | English, German, Spanish | Focus: (Neuro-)diversity, expats, personal development, stress management.
Nicole Pieper
Somatic Coach & Relationship Coach
Berlin, Germany
It would be my honour to accompany you toward (re-)connection and unique self-expression so you can stay anchored to your truth, your values, and your personal path as you navigate life's challenges.
Angeliki Sideraki
Children and Adolescent Counsellor & Family Therapist
Munich, Germany
Child & Adolescent Psychology Specialist focusing on autism, behaviour, and parent support. I help families apply practical strategies for daily challenges. Sessions in Greek & English.
Ricarda Freundt
Couples Therapist & Supervisor
Berlin, Germany
Ich begleite Menschen, wenn etwas in ihren Beziehungen oder in ihnen selbst nicht mehr so für sie passt, wie bisher. Wir schauen gemeinsam, was gerade passiert und wie Veränderung möglich sein kann.
Orestis Fakorellis
Lacanian Psychoanalyst
Rotterdam, Netherlands
I believe that psychoanalysis is the most effective way to create lasting change. It offers a deeper, more meaningful way of understanding ourselves and how we relate to the world.
Yuval Fater
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Counsellor & EMDR Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
On the outside, you keep functioning. On the inside, you suffer from a struggle that repeats itself and is exhausting. If the weight costs your peace, let's fix the roots to reach relief and move to clarity.
Claudia Stefan
Clinical Psychologist & Counselling Psychologist
Hanover, Germany
I work with women who feel anxious, stuck in self-doubt, overgiving, and unsure who they are underneath it all.Together, we untangle patterns, build boundaries, and help you feel more grounded, clear, and fully yourself.

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

One does not have to be a therapist to realise that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, with whom you can build a strong alliance, doesn't have to be. This is the founding principle of It's Complicated, a global network of 2,500+ therapists on a mission to build the world's most sustainable therapy platform.A few years in, we've helped tens of thousands of clients and counting, and built thriving therapy communities in major European cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Lisbon, and Vienna.

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