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Get matched - the simple way to start your therapy.

Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.
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How it works

Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
Why matching is important
Why matching is important

Why matching is important

Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matching

Explore the directory

Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
Elise Borgese
Counsellor & Social worker
Copenhagen, Denmark
Hello, I am a licensed clinical counsellor using cognitive behavioral methods to help you navigate life's obstacles. I'm available online to clients and in person in Copenhagen.
Tom Marshall
Psychological Counsellor & Psychosomatic Counsellor
Rotterdam, Netherlands
Native English, trauma-informed counsellor supporting expats, changemakers and neurodivergent adults through anxiety, burnout, grief and life transitions — and a natural home for climate distress and poly relationships.
Olesia Bobruiko
Psychologist & Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Counsellor
Virum, Denmark
I help people facing anxiety, burnout, self-criticism, or relationship challenges feel heard, understand what’s holding them back, and take practical steps toward greater calm, confidence, and meaningful connection.
Erin Russell
Psychologist
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Director IIEP, LGBTQ+ & Neurodiverse Psychologist, Lecturer & Literary Editor blending clinical depth with narrative healing and academic insight. I specialize in couples, queerness, attachment, ADHD & poetry
Demetra Korogiannou
Neuropsychologist & Existential Counsellor
Groningen, Netherlands
You are thrown into the world and have to accept the non-negotiable givens of our existence. But the hand you are born with is the hand you have to play. Let's explore these together in a space of openness and adventure.
Hendrik Berg
Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
As a systemic therapist in trn., I’m committed to supporting people with care and respect - both in facing everyday challenges and in exploring their identity and always with sensitivity to their own lived experience.
Chelsey McGovern
Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
ENG & 日本語 -Berlin, Germany. Using mindfulness-based cognitive approaches for mental health counseling. Neurodiversity affirming & informed. When possible we can incorporate expressive arts, yoga, and ecological practice
Ana Zore Grmek (Mag.pth.)
Life Coach
Lucca, Italy
My approach is grounded in offering guidance for personal development, encouragement for self-exploration and support in cultivating a safe and authentic relationship with ourselves and others.
Ólöf Dröfn Eggertsdóttir
Counsellor
Reykjavík, Iceland
As an English speaking Icelander, I have spent most of my life in the USA, I help people and couples in transition and with all the stress, depression, and discontent that comes with transition.
Fernanda Cotelessa
Psychologist
Breda, Netherlands
I'm excited you're here, seeking ways to enhance your well-being and self-understanding. I hope to embark on this journey with you.
Nicolás Pérez
Clinical Psychologist & Psychoanalyst in training
Santiago, Chile
I am Nicolás Pérez, a Clinical Psychologist with a Relational Psychoanalytic approach. I aim to create and offer everyone a warm, approachable and personalised safe space. Let's talk!
Dr. Frederik Unseld
Coach
Berlin, Germany
I offer a free, structured 60-minute first call: we do a short piece of the actual work together, and you'll feel whether this fits.
Aglaia Michelaki
Gestalt Psychotherapist & Coach
Hellerup, Denmark
I specialise in expats/career nomads, trauma and ADHD in a safe, compassionate and non-judgemental approach. Canadian, Gestalt Psychotherapist, & MBSR instructor. Member of the Danish Psychotherapists Association.
Miray Erbey
Clinical Psychologist & Counsellor
Kadıköy, Turkey
When things get hard, having someone who truly listens and understands can make a real difference. I offer a nonjudgmental space where we can work through what matters most to you.
Yulia Bondar
Relational Counsellor & Gestalt Therapist
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Whatever brings you here, you'll be met as a whole person — not labels or a problem to fix. I keep things real and honest, because that's what genuine change needs. We meet first as two humans; the therapeutic rel
Layla Voll Collins
Counsellor
Frankfurt, Germany
Living abroad can be an exciting journey, but it can also leave you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or ungrounded. I offer a warm, supportive space for expats and young professionals navigating stress, doubt, and change.
Fiona Howie Denny
Counsellor
Bicester, United Kingdom
We all feel anxious, worried, and stressed and at times, these feelings become overwhelming. With my diverse background and training I have the experience to help you navigate these difficult situations.
Sophie S.
Clinical Psychologist
Berlin, Germany
Hi there, as an English and German speaking clinical psychologist I'm offering an empathetic and curious space where we can explore your situation together.
Vasiliki Mitrou
Clinical Psychologist & Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy
Berlin, Germany
Clinical Psychologist/ Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie with a focus on the latest Cognitive Behavioral Therapy approaches and Mindfulness.
Elizabeth Ritchie
Clinical Social Worker & Psychological Counsellor
Bochum, Germany
I am an English-speaking counselor living in Germany. My mission is to help you improve your relationship with yourself, your loved ones, and to resolve emotional wounds that may be holding you back.
Dr. Gabriel Ellis
Clinical Psychologist & Systemic Coach
Warsaw, Poland
With 15 years of international experience, I offer clarity, insight, and understanding in difficult life situations. Together, we solve problems that go far beyond generic advice.
Anna Bozhko
Clinical Psychologist
Kyiv, Ukraine
Real transformation and revlief comes not because of the chosen theraputic method, but because two people were finally able to connect, relate and see each other.
Claudia Garbrecht
Counselling Psychologist & Health Psychologist
Munich, Germany
Psychologist for Stress & Burnout Prevention: Evidence-Based Mind-Body Focus
Rebecca Fleischmann
Psychological Psychotherapist & Psychological Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
As a psychological psychotherapist I offer counseling and soon psychotherapy for individuals | Online & in Berlin | English, German, Spanish | Focus: (Neuro-)diversity, expats, personal development, stress management.

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

One does not have to be a therapist to realise that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, with whom you can build a strong alliance, doesn't have to be. This is the founding principle of It's Complicated, a global network of 2,500+ therapists on a mission to build the world's most sustainable therapy platform.A few years in, we've helped tens of thousands of clients and counting, and built thriving therapy communities in major European cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Lisbon, and Vienna.

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