Get matched - the simple way to start your therapy.
Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.Quick &
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How it works
Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
Why matching is important
Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matchingI just wanted to give a short feedback and say that I found them to be very helpful and have arranged the first sessions with one of the suggested therapists. Your help has saved me a lot of time and is deeply appreciated! Thanks a million.Anonymous client
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Explore the directory
Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
Niels Kurvin
Berlin, Germany
True quote by Gabor Maté: You can’t jump to the end of healing. - Just don’t wait too long to celebrate, either. I’d be glad to join in on your path to new perspectives. With time, space and highly effective methods.
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Alexander Pfannenberg
Berlin, Germany
Therapy for those who give much – and struggle inside.
I bring lived experience, depth, and an integrated, compassionate approach to support you in shedding old burdens, growing from within, and finding freedom.
Molly McCracken
Berlin, Germany
I am a US trained clinician providing counseling in Berlin. Together we can build your capacity for self-compassion, strengthen your sense of self, and navigate hardship and trauma. Reach out for a free 15-min consult.
Ólöf Dröfn Eggertsdóttir
Reykjavík, Iceland
As an English speaking Icelander, I have spent most of my life in the USA, I help people and couples in transition and with all the stress, depression, and discontent that comes with transition.
Selin Ozuslu
Amsterdam, Netherlands
I provide a supportive, non-judgmental space providing a space where you can feel truly heard. I’ll do everything I can to help—adapting, exploring different approaches, and finding what truly works for you.
Abtin Kheradmandi
Berlin, Germany
I’m a counselor using CBT and ACT to support clients with anxiety, trauma, burnout, and personal growth. My sessions are compassionate, practical, and tailored to your needs. I support you in feeling better.
Melisa Nohadani-Rafie
Frankfurt, Germany
In our work together we explore that which keeps you stuck through a blend of psychoanalytic, humanistic and mindfulness-based approaches.
Jole Berlage-Buccellati
Hamburg, Germany
Are you looking for trauma-informed coaching or short-term therapy? Are you highly-sensitive and need support? Traumatic experiences deeply affect our ability to thrive and enjoy life. English and German.
Dmitry Gourov
Vienna, Austria
On the outside, your life works. You perform. Deliver. Succeed.
But on the inside, something no longer fits.
You understand your patterns. Yet they continue to shape your life.
Come work with me.
Demetra Korogiannou
Groningen, Netherlands
You are thrown into the world and have to accept the non-negotiable givens of our existence. But the hand you are born with is the hand you have to play. Let's explore these together in a space of openness and adventure.
Tanya Master
Berlin, Germany
For high-performing professionals who understand their patterns but still feel stuck. Somatic, IFS-informed sessions working with your nervous system responses, not just your thoughts.
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Katharina Albrecht
Berlin, Germany
Internationally trained sex and relationship therapist for individuals and couples. I combine Somatic Experiencing®, systemic sex therapy and nervous-system work to reconnect body, desire and relationship.
Anastasia Rudashevsky
Berlin, Germany
This therapy is not for everyone.
Honest, high-intensity work for those seeking more than symptom relief. It requires time and commitment, yet offers something increasingly rare:
a real, sustained therapeutic bond.
Mirte Knieriem
Amsterdam, Netherlands
As an English and Dutch-speaking psychologist, I support people in navigating life’s challenges with greater understanding, resilience, and self-compassion.
Julius Vaerst
Hamburg, Germany
I support adults through online therapy in gaining a deeper understanding of their emotions, relationship patterns, and distressing symptoms, helping them create meaningful and lasting change.
Oleksii Tkachenko
Kyiv, Ukraine
I offer my services for mutual exploration with a grounding in partnership, helping you embrace self-compassion, navigate shame, explore identity and existential questions, strengthen relationships, and overcome fears.
Rae Fuqua
Aurora, United States
I'm a Black and Queer therapist that is passionate about supporting expats in their journey to establishing a new home: both physically and within themselves
Elise Borgese
Copenhagen, Denmark
Hello, I am a licensed clinical counsellor using cognitive behavioral methods to help you navigate life's obstacles.
I'm available online to clients and in person in Copenhagen.
Silvia Da-Re
Trieste, Italy
With 20 years of clinical experience, in Europe and the United States, I help individuals and couples move beyond the emotional and relational patterns that keep them feeling stuck.
Marie Schild
Berlin, Germany
I am a psychologist and systemic therapist working with individuals and couples. I specialise in relationships to the self and others. Attachment- and neurodivergence-informed.
Caroline Rosa
Rotterdam, Netherlands
PT-BR/ENG-speaking. Psychologist/Counsellor with online sessions based on ACT & DBT. I help you deal with anxiety differently, using a compassionate, trauma-informed, and justice-informed approach
Dr. Stephan Meyer
Pafos, Cyprus
Hello! I am Dr. Stephan Meyer, also known as «Doctor Change». I am an experienced psychological counsellor and coach. I speak English and German.
Facundo Illobre
Colchester, United Kingdom
I'm a psychotherapist and university lecturer, currently working online. I specialise in Schema Therapy, Experiential Psychotherapy and Jungian Psychology. I offer psychotherapy sessions in both English and Spanish.
Agustín Hayes
Buenos Aires, Argentina
Hi! I'm Agustín - I'm all about helping people along their mental health journey whatever that may entail.
About It's Complicated
In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.
