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Get matched - the simple way to start your therapy.

Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.
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How it works

Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
Why matching is important
Why matching is important

Why matching is important

Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matching

Explore the directory

Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
Simon Karim
Coach & Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy
Berlin, Germany
I accompany people through their change processes with clarity and sensitivity – as an authentic, sincere and warm counterpart. 🔵 Pick a free 45 Min. clarity-call with me.
Raoni Duran
Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy
Berlin, Germany
I help expat LGBTQIA+ people who feel lost or stuck find clarity and direction through inner parts work and deep self-reflection.
Gaia Porcelli
Psychologist & Clinical Psychologist
Berlin, Germany
Bilingual psychologist (English/Italian) focused on uncovering client strengths and skill-building to ease distress and foster resilience for personal growth.
Ken Stamper
Counsellor
Florence, Italy
I’m a California and Florida-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist living in Florence, Italy.
Maximiliano Jozami
Clinical Psychologist & Psychoanalyst
Berlin, Germany
Psychodynamic psychotherapy for adults: grief, relationships, identity, and the emotional patterns that shape our lives. Italian-Argentine psychologist, 14 years of experience. English, Spanish, Italian.
Ipek Gokmeral
Psychologist
Rome, Italy
Hi, I’m Ipek, a psychologist with a background in Clinical Psychology and Clinical Psychosexology. I offer support in English and Turkish to support you through the difficulties you are facing.
BEGUM ENGUR
Psychologist & EMDR Therapist
Istanbul, Turkey
I help children, adolescents and adults overcome anxiety, stress, depression and trauma through EMDR – fostering calm, resilience and lasting personal growth. (EMDR Europe Accredited Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS) 🇬🇧🇹🇷
Dr. Frauke Kuhn
Systemic Counsellor & Couples Counsellor
Frankfurt, Germany
I am a certified systemic counsellor and couples counsellor and I help individuals and couples navigate relationship challenges, conflictual dynamics, inner struggles and acute crisis situations.
Chiara Flisi
Gestalt Counsellor & Couples Counsellor
Solothurn, Switzerland
Thank you for being here. If you’re wondering whether we might be a good fit, feel free to message me and book a free 30-minute discovery call. It’s a relaxed, welcoming space where we can get to know each other.
Yvonne Steimle
Psychologist
Horb am Neckar, Germany
AHPRA-registered psychologist welcoming all people & topics. Integrative trauma-informed approach utilising approaches incl. ACT, CBT, DBT, MBCT, CFT, somatic & schema. Therapy & assessment offered in English & German.
Marius Presterud
Psychological Psychotherapist & Art Psychotherapist
Lierstranda, Norway
I am a Scandinavian Psychologist who offers individual- and group therapy. I currently see clients online and in person at my therapist office close to my hometown of Drammen, Norway
Esther Prosche
Family Therapist & Supervisor
Berlin, Germany
Als systemisch arbeitende Therapeutin begleite ich Menschen in Phasen von Unsicherheit und Neubeginn und betrachte dabei Schwierigkeiten im Zusammenhang von Beziehungen, Geschichten und vorhandenen Ressourcen.
Aija Sarkane
Psychotherapist & Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Therapist
Edinburgh, United Kingdom
CBT therapist and psychotherapist helping adults and young people build confidence, self-esteem and self-belief, overcome unhelpful patterns, and work towards meaningful personal growth and change.
Ilayda Aydin
Psychologist & Counsellor
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Every person carries a story that deserves to be heard. Not judged, not rushed, not silenced. Come as you are, with your contradictions and grief. Together, we can find the thread that leads back to yourself.
Simon Postma
Systemic Coach
Hamburg, Germany
Ich begleite Einzelpersonen und Paare in Veränderungsprozessen, bei persönlichen und beruflichen Fragen und in belastenden Situationen – systemisch, ressourcenorientiert und wertschätzend.
Victoria Iwanowska
Psychologist
Warsaw, Poland
Psychologist & MBA graduate. I combine clinical expertise with years of business experience to help adults and couples heal the past and design a life of freedom. Specialized in midlife transitions.
Carolina Caeiro
Psychologist & Sexologist
Lisbon, Portugal
I help individuals and couples untangle the patterns that keep them stuck, in sex, love and relationships of every shape, including ENM and kink.
Claudia Montanez
Counsellor
Ulm, Germany
I help capable, thoughtful adults who are outwardly managing but inwardly struggling—burned out, stuck, or overwhelmed. My approach is warm, collaborative, and shaped by 20 years of cross-cultural experience.
Manuela Monti
Clinical Psychologist & Psychodynamic Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
I am a recognized accredited psychologist and psychotherapist working with adults, adolescents and institutions on life challenges, changes and transitions. Consultations in Portuguese, German, English and Spanish
Lara Tralli
Psychologist
Mannheim, Germany
I work with the parts of sexuality that are often kept private. Pornography use, increased or difficult sexual behavior, fetishes, as well as disconnection or uncertainty in one’s sexuality.
Susanne Freytag
Counsellor & Relational Therapist
Berlin, Germany
I am an English and German speaking counsellor for individuals and couples in Berlin, helping people to work through difficult issues in their lives adding an opportunity to expand growth and personal development.
Marion Linke
Psychologist
Berlin, Germany
I am a German and English speaking psychologist, committed to offer emphatic counseling and therapy for various challenges, such as depression, anxiety and OCD among others. My focus is on individual therapy.
Christian Mahlow
Clinical Psychologist
Berlin, Germany
A safe space where you can slow down, feel heard, and move forward — systemic counseling with warmth, clarity, and respect. Appointments available.
Yoky Yu
Psychosomatic Counsellor & Couples Therapist
Barcelona, Spain
Integrative PsychoSomatic Therapist for individuals and couples. Working with complex trauma, somatic parts work, attachment wounds and racial/geopolitical/cross generational issues in relational healing.

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

One does not have to be a therapist to realise that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, with whom you can build a strong alliance, doesn't have to be. This is the founding principle of It's Complicated, a global network of 2,500+ therapists on a mission to build the world's most sustainable therapy platform.A few years in, we've helped tens of thousands of clients and counting, and built thriving therapy communities in major European cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Lisbon, and Vienna.

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