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Get matched - the simple way to start your therapy.

Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.
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How it works

Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
Why matching is important
Why matching is important

Why matching is important

Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matching

Explore the directory

Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
Eldina Sonnenholzner
Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy
Munich, Germany
Systemic Therapist (IFS) | Licensed Psychotherapy Practitioner (Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie) I support people in understanding themselves more deeply, changing burdensome patterns for good, and reconnecting with
Charlotte (Qiaochu) Hu
Counsellor
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Proficient in English and Mandarin, I am a passionate counsellor who is dedicated to provide a safe space where my clients are able to freely explore the depths of their strengths.
Ólöf Dröfn Eggertsdóttir
Counsellor
Reykjavík, Iceland
As an English speaking Icelander, I have spent most of my life in the USA, I help people and couples in transition and with all the stress, depression, and discontent that comes with transition.
Marlene Borchert
Clinical Psychologist & Psychodynamic Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
Manchmal wird im Leben alles ein wenig zu viel – sei es durch Überforderung, innere Unruhe oder bekannte Belastungen. Im Gespräch darf all das Platz finden. Lassen Sie uns gern gemeinsam schauen, was Sie gerade bewegt.
Hugo Iglesias Moraes
Counsellor
Fortaleza, Brazil
In times of CRISIS, I am here to support your GROWTH, offering technical expertise within a safe and welcoming therapeutic approach, where insights can be easily understood and integrated. → SOLUTION-FOCUSED
Denisa Haffmans
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Therapist & Psychologist
Bilthoven, Netherlands
Let's untangle your stories together!
Suzana Varga
Coach
Rotterdam, Netherlands
I partner up with clients to support them in building personally fulfilling and meaningful work experiences.
Vitória Lorenzi
Counsellor
Munich, Germany
My work sits at the intersection of psychology and education. I believe growth is not reserved for moments of crisis. It can be intentional, gradual and meaningful along the way.
Raffaella Silvana Papa
Psychological Psychotherapist
Vedano al Lambro, Italy
10+ years of experience in expert care. Tailored support for life’s deepest challenges, from depression to personal transformation.
Xiaoqing Xu
Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy & Coach
Berlin, Germany
Hypnotherapie (Generative Trance); Traumatherapie; zertifizierte Achtsamkeitstrainerin (MMTCP, Plum Village)
Adrian Grell
Gestalt Therapist & Supervisor
Berlin, Germany
I'm a licensed Gestalt therapist and practice the deeply humanistic approach in my Berlin practice in German and English. I offer broad and resourceful psychotherapeutic support in various gray and colorful situations.
Ekaterina Tokareva
Psychoanalytic Counsellor & Psychodynamic Counsellor
Novi Sad, Serbia
Bilingual (EN/RU) psychoanalytic counselor helping clients navigate anxiety, identity shifts, and life transitions. Providing a safe, deep space to explore your inner world and create lasting change.
Ana Zore Grmek (Mag.pth.)
Life Coach
Lucca, Italy
My approach is grounded in offering guidance for personal development, encouragement for self-exploration and support in cultivating a safe and authentic relationship with ourselves and others.
Herbert Bittorf
Counsellor
Tauberbischofsheim, Germany
I am a qualified psychologist and coach, and I support people who are going through difficult, confusing, or emotionally demanding phases in their lives.
Mariana Barrios
Sexologist & Psychological Counsellor
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Passionate and dedicated sexologist with a focus on fostering positive sexual health and well-being. Leveraging a comprehensive understanding of human sexuality.
Graeme Galton
Psychotherapist
London, United Kingdom
Offering attachment-based therapy for relationship and family issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, issues arising from ADHD. Originally from Australia, now based in London.
Ken Stamper
Counsellor
Florence, Italy
I’m a California and Florida-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist living in Florence, Italy.
Raphael REBAI
Psychologist & Coach
Paris, France
I'm a psychologist who specializes in well-being, performance, relationships and personal development, with a particular interest in the quest for meaning and identity.
Yosef Starkin
Clinical Psychologist & Body Counsellor
Berlin, Germany
I work with men who have an analytical mindset, helping them understand their emotions, regulate their relationships, and explore their own answers to existential questions.
Anastasia Stavrou
Integrative Therapist & Art Counsellor
York, United Kingdom
Msc Psychologist | Psychodynamic Therapist | Therapeutic Arts Practitioner | GMBPsS
Olena Haskovec
Psychotherapist in training & Psychoanalyst in training
Vienna, Austria
English and Ukrainian-speaking psychotherapist. Psychotherapy is a journey of two and I invite you to make it together. Only in the presence of the other you have a possibility to find out who you truly are.
Matija Pajer
Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Ljubljana, Slovenia
My name is Matija, and I am a psychoanalytic psychotherapist. I believe meaningful and lasting change happens through a strong therapeutic relationship.
Olga Wouhra
Psychologist
La Massana, Andorra
For me, building meaningful connections is at the heart of healing and growth. Sometimes, that connection is found in the therapeutic relationship—and I’m honored to be part of that journey with my clients.
Nir Yehudai
Clinical Social Worker
Leiden, Netherlands
Psychodynamic psychotherapy in English and Hebrew for expats, immigrants, international professionals, and Israelis living abroad. Available online and in person in Leiden.

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

One does not have to be a therapist to realise that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, with whom you can build a strong alliance, doesn't have to be. This is the founding principle of It's Complicated, a global network of 2,500+ therapists on a mission to build the world's most sustainable therapy platform.A few years in, we've helped tens of thousands of clients and counting, and built thriving therapy communities in major European cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Lisbon, and Vienna.

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