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Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.Quick &
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Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
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Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matchingI just wanted to give a short feedback and say that I found them to be very helpful and have arranged the first sessions with one of the suggested therapists. Your help has saved me a lot of time and is deeply appreciated! Thanks a million.Anonymous client
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Explore the directory
Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
Laura Natz
Berlin, Germany
I am a systemic therapist. I work in German and English, in person and online. I particularly enjoy working with women, parents, couples, and families with adult children. https://www.reflaect.de/
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Clarina Du Plessis
Bloemfontein, South Africa
Real change and healing becomes possible when you feel deeply seen and understood. I work globally with clients facing anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, loss and emotional overwhelm.
Ofri GRYNBAUM
Paris, France
A space of honesty, flexibility and joint reflection to explore your child’s needs, reduce frustration, and build confidence, connection and joy in family life
Ekaterina Tokareva
Novi Sad, Serbia
Russian-speaking psychoanalytic therapist helping expats navigate relocation, anxiety, and identity shifts. Providing a safe, deep space to explore your inner world and create lasting change.
Agnes Trzak, PhD
Berlin, Germany
Kids & Adults ● Deutsch & English
● Neurodiversity-Affirmative ● ADHD ● Autism ● Emotional Regulation ● Trauma ● Burnout ● Highly Sensitive Persons ● Activist Support (incl. climate & animal activists) ● LGBTQIA*
Sinem Gürçay Aker
Munich, Germany
As a bilingual psychologist, my goal is to support you with scientific methods while you are walking at your own pace and to make you feel heard, accepted, and understood during the sessions.
Arden Burak Demirel
Amsterdam, Netherlands
I am an English speaking expert in psychosexology based in Amsterdam. My work emphasizes on LGBTQ+, sexual health, anxiety, relationship dynamics and neurodiversity.
Anja Happel
Moers, Germany
I support people as a therapist and Heilpraktiker for psychotherapy, using a traumainformed, systemic approach. My work focuses on relationships, inner resources, and creating a safe space for meaningful change.
Kamilla Lurie
Copenhagen, Denmark
I am a psychoanalytic psychotherapist from eastern Ukraine, based in Copenhagen. I am working preferably with russian and ukrainian speaking expats and refugees.
Garrett Widener
Berlin, Germany
I place high value on examining the individual in their situation and empowering their resources to overcome and cope with the many difficulties life faces us with.
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Stefano Marcucci
Berlin, Germany
I'm here to listen to you and understand the life circumstances that have led you to your challenging situation. I will support you in discovering your potential and finding your own path to wellbeing.
Ricardo Lieuw-On
Amsterdam, Netherlands
I work with people who feel stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed, or caught in patterns that keep them from living fully. I help you reconnect with your inner life, yourself, and the people around you.
Ricarda Freundt
Berlin, Germany
Ich begleite Menschen, wenn etwas in ihren Beziehungen oder in ihnen selbst nicht mehr so für sie passt, wie bisher. Wir schauen gemeinsam, was gerade passiert und wie Veränderung möglich sein kann.
Golbarg Goshtasbpour
Berlin, Germany
I accompany clients through transition and realignment processes using a systemic and client-centered approach combined with mindfulness a somatic-based coaching. I create a safe space for people to meet themselves.
Anne Alter
Berlin, Germany
Für ein Leben, das wirklich zu dir passt. Begleitung bei Beziehungen, Wendepunkten und wichtigen Entscheidungen.
Olena Haskovec (Khrystych)
Vienna, Austria
English and Ukrainian-speaking psychotherapist. Psychotherapy is a journey of two and I invite you to make it together. Only in the presence of the other you have a possibility to find out who you truly are.
Effy Malfa
The Hague, Netherlands
Welcome! I’m Effy, an expat psychologist offering online therapy in English & Greek. I’m here to support you, help you navigate challenges, and encourage personal growth.
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Anahita Ghajar
Berlin, Germany
As a M.Sc. clinical psychologist and cert. Stress Management Trainer, my intrinsic motivation is to work with people to analyze, accompany and advise them on their personal topics.
Limor Ruteanu
Berlin, Germany
I’m a psychologist and an artist (sometimes combining tattooing with therapy). I work mostly with women and queers. I offer sessions in-person (Lichterfelde-West and Alt-Treptow) and online.
Boris Herzberg
Alicante, Spain
I specialize in online couples therapy and counseling with a strong focus on conflict repair and emotional regulation for expat, intercultural and long-distance couples. I'm an ACCPH-accredited member.
Daniel Smith
Bearsted, United Kingdom
As a Psychosynthesis Therapist and Coach I walk along side you on your journey to becoming whole. Psychosynthesis is the process of connecting to who you essential are and actualising that in the world.
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Sabrina Kolb
Berlin, Germany
Ich bin ausgebildete Tiefenpsychologin und möchte Sie dabei begleiten, sich selbst besser kennenzulernen, und zu verstehen wie Ihr früher Ihr heute prägt.
Hinweis: Aktuell beträgt die Wartezeit ca. 3 Monate.
Irina Alexandru
Brussels, Belgium
Licensed clinical psychologist supporting adults and expats through anxiety, burnout, emotional overwhelm, and relationship difficulties through a warm, structured, trauma-informed approach.
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Marina Simon
Gualeguaychú, Argentina
Clinical Psychologist and Psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience supporting individuals and families through a wide range of emotional and psychological challenges.
About It's Complicated
In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.
