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Skip the endless search for a therapist. Built by psychologists, the It's Complicated therapy matching service combines data-driven insights with human care to connect you with a trusted therapist who understands your needs.Quick &
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Get matched with a therapist in three simple steps.
Take our matching survey
Fill out a simple, personalised 5-minute survey to help us understand your unique needs and goals. This helps us identify qualified practitioners.
Browse your matches
Discover therapists who match your unique needs and preferences. Review their expertise, background, and approach before reaching out.
Book your first session
Choose the therapist that resonates with you most and message them to book your first session or free introductory call.
Why matching is important
Research shows that the most important factor for successful therapy is a strong therapeutic relationship and alliance. That's where our matching service comes in - by combining the best of human engineering with personalised support by our psychologists, we do some of the groundwork to find the right fit. We'll help you connect with a therapist with a good track record and whose experience and personality best fit your needs.Start matchingI just wanted to give a short feedback and say that I found them to be very helpful and have arranged the first sessions with one of the suggested therapists. Your help has saved me a lot of time and is deeply appreciated! Thanks a million.Anonymous client
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Explore the directory
Prefer to choose for yourself? Browse our directory of over 2,500 mental health practitioners across Europe.
Claudia Montanez
Ulm, Germany
I help capable, thoughtful adults who are outwardly managing but inwardly struggling—burned out, stuck, or overwhelmed. My approach is warm, collaborative, and shaped by 20 years of cross-cultural experience.
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Alexander Pfannenberg
Berlin, Germany
Therapy for those who give much – and struggle inside.
I bring lived experience, depth, and an integrated, compassionate approach to support you in shedding old burdens, growing from within, and finding freedom.
Selin Ozuslu
Amsterdam, Netherlands
I provide a supportive, non-judgmental space providing a space where you can feel truly heard. I’ll do everything I can to help—adapting, exploring different approaches, and finding what truly works for you.
Ólöf Dröfn Eggertsdóttir
Reykjavík, Iceland
As an English speaking Icelander, I have spent most of my life in the USA, I help people and couples in transition and with all the stress, depression, and discontent that comes with transition.
Zehra Bekişoğlu
Dortmund, Germany
I'll be by your side with a psychodynamic approach to acknowledge, bear, and put into perspective your emotional life.
Nikolina Smith
Berlin, Germany
As a systemic therapist, I specialize in helping both couples and individuals overcome barriers, activate their resources, and strengthen harmonious connections to navigate life's challenges more effectively.
Fernanda Cotelessa
Breda, Netherlands
I'm excited you're here, seeking ways to enhance your well-being and self-understanding. I hope to embark on this journey with you.
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Dr. Frauke Kuhn
Frankfurt, Germany
I am a certified systemic counsellor and couples counsellor and I help individuals and couples navigate relationship challenges, conflictual dynamics, inner struggles and acute crisis situations.
Johanna Penn
Berlin, Germany
Beziehungsmuster verstehen und neue Wege entwickeln
Maya Goldberg
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Practicing internationally, I provide fully private counseling and therapy centered on a personalized, flexible, and evidence-based approach.
Elise Borgese
Copenhagen, Denmark
Hello, I am a licensed clinical counsellor using cognitive behavioral methods to help you navigate life's obstacles.
I'm available online to clients and in person in Copenhagen.
Melisa Kayaalti
Antalya, Turkey
I provide online therapy for adults and expats, offering professional support in a safe space for those who want to understand themselves better and change unhelpful patterns.
M.Sc. Psych. Katja Baum
Hanover, Germany
Does everything feel complicated?
I’m here to listen and support you on your journey to more clarity and inner strength. Together, we will find solutions.
Doga Arslanyilmaz
Izmir, Turkey
A space to set down what feels heavy and be met with real understanding. Together we’ll look at the patterns that keep you stuck, and open up new ways of living with more ease, connection, and authenticity.
Tom Marshall
Rotterdam, Netherlands
Native English, trauma-informed counsellor supporting expats, changemakers and neurodivergent adults through anxiety, burnout, grief and life transitions — and a natural home for climate distress and poly relationships.
Oleksii Tkachenko
Kyiv, Ukraine
I offer my services for mutual exploration with a grounding in partnership, helping you embrace self-compassion, navigate shame, explore identity and existential questions, strengthen relationships, and overcome fears.
Amelie Nawrath
Munich, Germany
Das Leben steckt voller Herausforderungen. Manchmal kann es hilfreich sein, sich in schwierigen Situationen und seelischen Belastungen, Unterstützung von außen zu holen, um Ressourcen (wieder) zu entdecken.
Aleksandra Milić
Paraćin, Serbia
My work combines Transactional Analysis, mentalization, relational, and emotional processes, helping clients develop more stable and meaningful ways of relating to themselves and others.
Zen Qureshi
London, United Kingdom
As a neurodivergent and queer-affirming therapist, I understand how exhausting it can be to mask, to feel misunderstood, or to move through the world feeling “too much.” You won’t have to justify your identity here.
Zoé Keleti
Leipzig, Germany
I help people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected to understand themselves more deeply, build inner stability, and move toward a more authentic and meaningful life.
Niels Kurvin
Berlin, Germany
True quote by Gabor Maté: You can’t jump to the end of healing. - Just don’t wait too long to celebrate, either. I’d be glad to join in on your path to new perspectives. With time, space and highly effective methods.
Marlene Borchert
Berlin, Germany
Manchmal wird im Leben alles ein wenig zu viel – sei es durch Überforderung, innere Unruhe oder bekannte Belastungen. Im Gespräch darf all das Platz finden. Lassen Sie uns gern gemeinsam schauen, was Sie gerade bewegt.
Katharina Maria Ippisch
Vienna, Austria
Ich arbeite nach der Personzentrierter Traumatherapie nach Carl Rogers mit Fokus auf Bindungs - & Beziehungstrauma und Atemarbeit. Ich begleite Menschen dabei, sich mit ihren Gefühlen und inneren Wahrheit zu verbinden.
Szofi Nemeth
Amsterdam, Netherlands
I help people who have tried harder and harder to feel less anxious, but still find anxiety taking up more space. Together, we work on making fear less central and life feel more like yours again.
About It's Complicated
In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.
