It's Complicated

Laurentiu Nicolae Costrut

(he/him)

Integrative Psychotherapist & Psychologist

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Available for new clients
Helping you move out of survival mode and into safer, more connected living.

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Lisbon, PortugalAvailable in-person and online
Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 2 years and 720+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 25 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from LaurentiuWherever you are on your path, I offer a safe, compassionate space and a flexible schedule. Reach out anytime!
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About me

If you often feel exhausted by holding everything together, stuck in repeating relationship patterns, overwhelmed by anxiety, or disconnected from your own needs despite being highly self-aware, therapy can become a space where something deeper begins to shift.

I work with adults who have learned to adapt early in life — to stay strong, care for others, achieve, or keep going no matter what — and who now find that these once-protective strategies are leaving them emotionally depleted, shut down, or unable to fully rest, connect, or feel at ease within themselves.

Ordem dos Psicologos Portugueses 135004
International Member of the American Psychological Association (APA) – C2001539671,
Member of the Association of Psychologists in Romania – A-7437 (APSI),
Member of the Constructivist Psychologists Association in Portugal – 261 (SPPC).

I speak:

EnglishFrenchRomanian

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Location:

1050-132 Lisbon, Portugal

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
CFT: Compassion-Focused TherapyRecommended for those who want to be kinder to themselves and reduce negative self-talk, often using mindfulness techniques.
IFS: Internal Family SystemsRecommended for those who want to explore and heal the different parts of themselves that might feel conflicted or overwhelmed.
Positive psychotherapyRecommended for those who want to focus on building strengths, increasing happiness, and enhancing their overall well-being, rather than just focusing on problems.
I work with adults who experience persistent anxiety, relational difficulties, emotional dysregulation, chronic self-criticism, perfectionism, burnout, or enduring feelings of emptiness, disconnection, or internal pressure that often persist despite high levels of insight and functioning. In many cases, these difficulties are rooted not only in current stressors, but in longstanding patterns of adaptation shaped by early attachment experiences, chronic emotional invalidation, relational trauma, or environments in which emotional needs, dependency, vulnerability, or self-expression could not be safely integrated.

Psychological symptoms are understood not simply as isolated problems to eliminate, but as organized responses that once served important protective functions. Clinical work therefore involves identifying the underlying emotional conflicts, defensive patterns, attachment dynamics, and physiological states that maintain suffering in the present.

Treatment draws from evidence-informed and depth-oriented modalities including Internal Family Systems (IFS), Compassion-Focused Therapy, attachment-based frameworks, and Polyvagal-informed interventions, with attention to the interaction between affect regulation, interpersonal functioning, cognition, and autonomic nervous system processes.

The therapeutic relationship itself is considered central to treatment, providing a structured and psychologically attuned space in which previously defended or disavowed aspects of experience can gradually be explored, regulated, and integrated.

The aim of therapy is not only symptom reduction, but the development of greater emotional coherence, reflective functioning, psychological flexibility, and more adaptive ways of relating to oneself and others.

Experience

8 years in practice720+ sessions on It's ComplicatedAbout 2 years at It's Complicated
It´s complicated
IFS & Compassion focused therapist

CEO, Mind Renew
Revolutionizing mental and relational health through empowering individuals and groups to reclaim well-being with groundbreaking digital tools and transformative therapies.

Internal Family Systems Therapist
Providing integrative therapeutic interventions to adults using approaches such as IFS, CFT, CBT and contemplative practices.

Guest Teacher, IPW Hochschule Nordhausen University of Applied Sciences, DE
Leading experiential compassion-based training sessions on psychological well-being and equity, diversity, and inclusion (ED&I).
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Clinical Internships:

Clinical and Research Internship, Orange Medical Center, PT

Psychologist Intern FEDASIL WSP, Brussels, BE

Psychiatric Emergency Unit Internship , University Hospital of Neuropsychiatry, Brasov, RO

Education

MSc Neuropsychology, Universidade Europeia, Portugal

MSc Clinical & Health Psychology, Utrecht University, Netherlands

MSc Social & Intercultural Psychology, Université Libre de Bruxelles, Belgium

BSc in Psychology, Université Catholique de Louvain, Belgium

BSc in Psychology, Transilvania University of Brasov, Romania
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Psychotherapy Training

Compassion Cultivation Training, Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education, Stanford University, USA

Internal Family Systems (IFS ) Therapy, The Center for Self-Leadership, USA

CBT for Anxiety, The Beck Institute, USA
Essentials of CBT: The Beck Approach, The Beck Institute, USA

Understanding Anxiety, Depression, and CBT, University of Reading, UK

Cultural Diversity: Communication and Cooperation, I.C.S. Brussels, Belgium

Listening for crisis Training, CEFEC, Brussels, Belgium

Services

Intro Call

Free 25 min Online

Individual Session

€65 1 hr Online & In-person

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€45 1 hr Online & In-person

10-Session Psychotherapy Package

€500 1 hr Online & In-person

5-Session Psychotherapy Package

€250 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Lisbon, PortugalAvailable in-person and online
Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 2 years and 720+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 25 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from LaurentiuWherever you are on your path, I offer a safe, compassionate space and a flexible schedule. Reach out anytime!
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 4 hours

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