It's Complicated

Chérie Schutte

Children and Adolescent Counsellor & Family Counsellor

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Online Integrative Children & Adolescent & Family Counsellor supporting neurodivergent youth, parents, and families with anxiety, depression, and emotional wellbeing. Neuroscience-informed, practical, and strengths-based

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At a glance
Amstelveen, NetherlandsAvailable online and via text
Last active
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 12 hours

About me

I am an Integrative Children, Adolescent, and Family Counsellor providing online support for young people and parents navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, autism, emotional regulation, and family stress. My approach is grounded in neuroscience, CBT principles, and a warm, collaborative therapeutic relationship. I believe that meaningful change happens when children and teens feel understood, respected, and equipped with practical tools. In our work together, we explore patterns of emotion and behaviour, build emotional regulation and coping skills, and strengthen communication both internally and within the family system. I support parents as well, as they play a crucial role in creating safe, supportive environments for their children. I have experience working in neurodevelopment, early intervention, caregiver support, and cross-cultural family wellbeing. As someone who works internationally with expat and multicultural families, I understand how transitions, identity, and social differences can impact emotional wellbeing. My style is calm, respectful, affirming of neurodiversity and gender identity, and focused on helping young people develop confidence, resilience, and a sense of belonging. In addition to child and teen counselling, I also support parents and caregivers experiencing stress, burnout, and overwhelm. Parenting neurodivergent children or navigating major transitions can be demanding, and having a space that combines practical tools with emotional support can make a significant difference.

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AfrikaansEnglish

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Location:

Amstelveen, Netherlands

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
Holistic approachRecommended for those who want to address their mental health through a balanced focus on mind, body, and spirit.
Integrative therapy Recommended for those who prefer a flexible approach that combines different therapies to meet their unique needs.
My therapeutic approach is integrative, practical, and grounded in both neuroscience and genuine human connection. I support children, adolescents, and families who are navigating anxiety, low mood, stress, neurodivergence, life transitions, and challenges in emotional regulation or social relationships. I believe that counselling should feel safe, respectful, culturally aware, and collaborative, especially when working with young people and their parents. I draw from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) principles, family systems thinking, psychoeducation, mindfulness, and developmental neuroscience. This means we look not only at thoughts and behaviours, but also at how the body and nervous system respond to stress, how habits and coping strategies develop over time, and how family and school environments influence emotional wellbeing. Many young people benefit from learning how their brain works, because understanding “why” something feels difficult often reduces shame and opens the door to change. When working with children and adolescents, the first priority is establishing trust and emotional safety. I use age-appropriate language, collaborative goal-setting, and gentle structure so that young people feel supported rather than judged. Sessions may include discussion, skill-building, creative or reflective exercises, regulation strategies, cognitive tools, or problem-solving around real-life situations such as school stress, friendships, identity questions, or family communication. For neurodivergent clients, I take a strengths-based and affirming stance, helping them recognise their abilities while also learning strategies to manage areas of challenge. Parents and caregivers are important partners in the process. Especially with younger clients, part of our work includes supporting parents to understand their child’s needs, creating consistent strategies at home, and strengthening family communication. With adolescents, I balance privacy and parent involvement thoughtfully, creating a space where teens can express themselves openly while ensuring families stay informed in appropriate ways. I am experienced in working with families who are navigating cultural transitions, blended family structures, and expat or international lifestyles. My style is warm, calm, non-pathologising, and collaborative. I do not view counselling as “fixing” a child, but rather helping them develop confidence, coping tools, emotional literacy, and a stronger sense of self. Many young people benefit from learning concrete skills such as identifying emotions, challenging unhelpful thinking patterns, building executive functioning, strengthening social communication, or creating healthier routines around sleep, screen use, or schoolwork. Through gentle psychoeducation, mindfulness-based exercises, and emotional regulation training, clients learn how to understand their bodies and minds, and how to choose strategies that help them feel more balanced, focused, and resilient. I also work affirmingly with gender-diverse and LGBTQ+ youth, ensuring that language, goals, and therapeutic space respect identity and autonomy. For expat and multicultural families, I bring awareness to issues such as adjustment, isolation, school transitions, language differences, and shifting support networks. These experiences can influence mood, self-esteem, and belonging, and it is important that counselling recognises these layers rather than assuming a single cultural context. Overall, my aim is for therapy to be an experience where children and teens feel seen, understood, and empowered, and where families feel supported rather than overwhelmed. Change is not always immediate, but with consistency, safety, and the right tools, young people can make meaningful gains in confidence, emotional regulation, relationships, and everyday functioning. My hope is that every client leaves with skills they can use in the real world and a deeper sense of who they are and what helps them thrive.

Experience

I have over a decade of experience supporting neurodiverse children, adolescents, and adults with ADHD, autism, anxiety, and emotional regulation challenges. My work combines psychology, neuroscience, and behavioural therapy, allowing me to provide evidence-based, compassionate care. I currently practise as an Integrative Psychotherapist and CBT Therapist, offering online therapy for adults and families across the Netherlands and internationally. Previously, I founded and directed the Aldeia NeuroBehaviour Institute International, leading multidisciplinary teams and developing holistic programmes for emotional regulation, executive functioning, and wellbeing. My experience across South Africa, the Netherlands, and Namibia gives me a deep understanding of expat life, cultural adaptation, and the mind–body connection in mental health.

Education

My academic background includes a PhD in Early Childhood Intervention, a field that integrates psychology, neuroscience, and education to understand developmental and behavioural patterns across the lifespan. I also hold a Masters degree in Early Intervention and an Honours Bachelor degree in Psychology. I have completed five years of medical training and an additional 1 year of neurophysiological training with a focus on brain-based assessment and EEG applications. Over more than a decade, I have specialised in the intersection between neurodevelopment, mental health, and behaviour, combining clinical understanding with scientific insight. My doctoral research explores participation and emotional wellbeing among caregivers of patients with special needs, and I apply this knowledge in supporting neurodiverse clients of all ages — including those with ADHD, autism, and executive-function challenges. This foundation allows me to bridge evidence-based therapy with compassion and practicality, helping clients understand how their brains and emotions work together to shape everyday experience.

Services

Intro Call

Free 20 min Online
This brief introductory session is a chance for us to connect and explore your needs in a relaxed, supportive space. Whether you’re navigating neurodiversity, cognitive or emotional challenges, or simply seeking to understand yourself or your child better — this meeting helps us determine whether my integrative, neuroscience-based approach is the right fit for you. It’s an opportunity to ask questions, share your goals, and learn how we can work together toward meaningful change.

Individual Session

€90 1 hr Online & Text

Couples Session

€90 1 hr Online & Text

Family Session

€125 1 hr Online & Text

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Amstelveen, NetherlandsAvailable online and via text
Last active
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 12 hours

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