Debby Poort

(she/her)

Counsellor

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€130-240 per session

Amstelveen, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online

Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

As an integrative therapist with training in couples therapy and sex counseling, I'm dedicated to helping you revitalize your sex life and reconnect with yourself and your partner. If you're struggling with sex and intimacy in your relationship, you’re not alone and I can help you find solutions that work.

I help couples in low/no-sex relationships as well as those who are experiencing desire or interest discrepancies. I also help clients with general sexual difficulties, such as lack of desire, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, difficulty achieving orgasm, or pain during intercourse.

I also work with clients who need help navigating open relationships and/or alternative sexual preferences and practices. I am kink/BDSM knowledgeable and poly/swinger lifestyle aware.

I speak:

English

Location:

Lindenlaan 75, 1185 LC Amstelveen, Netherlands

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Approach

Treatment Approaches

Couples therapySupport for couples working through problems and who want to gain insight into the relational dynamics that contribute to the problem.

EFT: Emotionally focused therapyRecommended for couples or individuals who want to strengthen emotional connections in relationships by exploring feelings and attachment.

Integrative therapy Recommended for those who prefer a flexible approach that combines different therapies to meet their unique needs.

MindfulnessMindfulness is the process of maintaining a purposeful moment-by-moment awareness of our thoughts, feelings, and surrounding environment.

Sex therapyRecommended for individuals or couples who want help improving their sex life, intimacy, or overcoming sexual issues in a supportive environment.

With over 15 years of experience as an integrative therapist, plus additional training in sex and relationships, I offer a unique program that combines sex counseling with other forms of talk therapy.

I also offer a short-term, blended care program that includes a psychoeducational online course on sex in long-term relationships.

The Online Course Includes: Module 1: The Pleasure Model of Sex Module 2: Sexual Response & Orgasm Module 3: Expanding Your Sex Script Module 4: Erotic Templates/Fantasies

In just 6-12 sessions, you'll learn how to: ✔ Emotionally reconnect ✔ Talk about sex ✔ Reduce sexual shame ✔ Understand desire ✔ Enhance satisfaction ✔ Prioritize your sex life

Services

Intro Call

Free • 15 min • Online & In-person

Individual Session

€130 • 1 hr • Online & In-person

Couples Session

€160 • 1 hr • Online & In-person

Couples 90-min

€240 • 1 hr 30 min • Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay

At a glance

€130-240 per session

Amstelveen, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online

Usually responds within 2 hours

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