It's Complicated

Pablo Mendez Huergo

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Barcelona, SpainAvailable in-person and online

About me

Do you feel like you're your own obstacle? If you often get frustrated for not achieving what you set out to do, have difficulty expressing what you feel (anxiety, stress, life crises), or constantly compare yourself to others, I can support you on a path toward greater self-understanding and emotional freedom. In addition to my private individual practice, my experience also includes facilitating groups and working as a tutor in Gestalt Therapy training programs. This allows me to offer a deeper perspective on personality patterns and how to transform them so you can recover your vital energy and direct it toward your goals. My approach focuses not only on understanding what is happening to you but also on releasing the emotions that limit you and creating new ways to connect with yourself and others. If you're ready to move beyond limiting patterns and live with more clarity and confidence, contact me for a first session and let’s begin your journey of transformation.

I speak:

EnglishSpanishCatalan

Location:

Plaça D'urquinaona 10, 08010 Barcelona, Spain

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Body therapyRecommended for those who want to connect their mind and body to release stress or trauma through physical sensations and movement.
Gestalt therapyRecommended for those who want to focus on the present and take responsibility for their feelings and actions to promote personal growth.
Systemic ApproachRecommended for those who want to look at how different systems—like family, work, or society—affect their behavior and relationships.
This is a psycho-humanistic therapy aimed at uncovering our most authentic “way of being” by bringing awareness to our most automatic behaviors, thoughts, and emotions. It’s an integral and holistic approach, as it sees the person as a whole—body, emotion, and mind. **Core principles:** - **Here and now:** Gestalt therapy focuses on how what is happening manifests in the present moment, emphasizing the relationship between therapist and client. - **Awareness:** Within this relationship, moments of awareness emerge—especially through nonverbal and emotional “language”—helping the person gradually understand how they have built their character and personality. - **Responsibility:** Clients are encouraged to take personal responsibility for their actions, choices, and experiences. The aim is to avoid projecting responsibility onto others and instead take control of one’s own life. - **Contact:** The therapy observes how people make and break contact with their environment and with others. This contact cycle includes the phases of sensation, figure (focus of attention), and withdrawal. Understanding this cycle helps people recognize their relational patterns and explore new ways of connecting. --- **How will we do this?** **STEP 1** We’ll seek to understand what’s happening to you—how your suffering or blockage has a logical meaning. What you're going through happens for a reason and has purpose. Understanding is the first step toward calm. That’s why this first phase relates to the **MIND**. **STEP 2** As we begin to understand it, we’ll give space to what it triggers—to the pain it causes and the difficulty it brings. This second phase involves **EMOTION**. **STEP 3** Once we’ve understood and allowed the previously blocked emotion, we have more freedom and confidence to move toward what we truly want. In this final phase, we focus on intentional **BODY**-based action.

Services

Intro Call

Free 20 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

€65 1 hr Online & In-person

Couples Session

€90 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Barcelona, SpainAvailable in-person and online

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