It's Complicated

Frode Huse Gjendem

Gestalt Therapist & Sex Counsellor

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Available for new clients
You deserve to be at peace and feel free. Discover how together we can turn your challenges into opportunities using innovative tools and a human-centered approach and a presence based accompaniment.

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At a glance
Barcelona, SpainAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from FrodeAccepting new clients.
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 4 hours

About me

I’m from Norway and have lived in Barcelona since 2001. After a successful career in advisory, where I helped leaders achieve significant change, I realized there was a deep imbalance in my life, which led me to seek support and rebuild myself. Inspired by this journey, I trained in Gestalt Therapy, Somatic Sex Therapy, Integrative Personal Development, Integrative Psychotherapy, Enneagram, Meditation, and Mindfulness—combining rational, emotional, somatic, and psycho-spiritual approaches. As a therapist, I believe in healing and growth through a safe connection and the balance of personal, professional, and spiritual needs. As such I offer a safe space for listening, with a mature masculine presence. I moved from Norway to Spain. From snow to the beach. And on an inner level, I made the same journey years later. From being a perfectionist, efficient, ambitious, and emotionally blocked person, to seeking my compassionate, patient, kind, and loving side. I’ve discovered that by becoming aware of both extremes in me —and their strengths and weaknesses— I can live well. I can be loving and efficient at the same time, patient and productive, ambitious and respectful. Both with myself and with others. The key has been unlocking and accepting these different aspects and capabilities within me. Letting go of judgment and living who I truly am. I’ve been able to say goodbye to chronic fear and anxiety. Life isn’t a dance on flowers, but a dance across realities of all colors. By embracing the strength of my masculinity, I also welcome the strength of the feminine and the instinctive. I embrace all three forces of life. With You All the Way - I’m someone who likes to see things through —especially when it comes to the personal journeys of those I support. It means a deep commitment to be present and not abandon the process until you feel ready to move forward on your own. Of course, you always have the freedom to end the work together and continue in another way. Individual freedom is a non-negotiable value. I believe that everyone has the capacity to live a balanced life —when they gain a deep understanding of themselves and their surroundings. But often, we’re not fully equipped to get there on our own and we need support to understand ourselves, make informed decisions, and become lifelong learners of ourselves and life. This is why I define myself as a therapist with a broad, integrative approach as "A Humanistic Integrative Therapist". I believe the essence of change lies in wanting it —and building the trust within ourselves that it’s possible. And this is what I hope to help you with as well.

I speak:

SpanishEnglishNorwegianSwedishDanish

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Location:

Carrer De Bertran 89, 08022 Barcelona, Spain

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
Gestalt therapyRecommended for those who want to focus on the present and take responsibility for their feelings and actions to promote personal growth.
Psychotherapy Recommended for those who want to work through emotional or mental health challenges by talking with a trained psychotherapist.
Sex therapyRecommended for individuals or couples who want help improving their sex life, intimacy, or overcoming sexual issues in a supportive environment.
Therapy is a process of support and exploration, with the main goal of fostering personal growth, self-awareness, and emotional well-being. It becomes a space for development and transformation on many levels. The sessions can be individual, couples, groups or in my retreats. Theraphy and personal growth is a professional and human encounter between one person (or several, in the case of couples, family, or group therapy) and a therapist. Through dialogue, active listening, reflection, and sometimes body-based, creative, or experiential techniques (depending on the approach), a safe space is created for the person to explore areas of their life that bring discomfort, doubt, or inner blocks.Love as a Source of Healing. What do I offer ? 1. A safe, non-judgmental space where you can express your emotions, thoughts, and concerns freely and with confidence. 2. Through listening, dialogue, and reflection, you'll gain clarity and validation — putting words to what you feel and making sense of your experiences without minimizing or exaggerating them. 3. You’ll receive tools and strategies to face your challenges — like new ways of thinking, emotional regulation, and healthy coping mechanisms. 4. Support through change — therapy is not just about talking, but about taking steps toward positive change, with follow-up and care. This includes respectful and compassionate confrontation when needed. 5. A personalized approach — not everyone responds the same way to a single type of therapy. 6. Multilevel work — not just symptoms, but also emotional, cognitive, behavioral, bodily, habitual, and even spiritual dimensions. We work with your mind, body, and emotional energy to allow for a deeper, more balanced transformation. 7. Flexibility and adaptability — each phase of your process is met with an open, tailored approach. If one technique no longer serves you, we adjust without losing direction. 8. Greater depth in treatment — from healing past traumas to facing everyday problems, I use diverse tools to meet you where you are. 9. Better stress and anxiety management — we address the roots, not just the symptoms. 10. A range of techniques — mindfulness, meditation, bodywork, narrative therapy, theraphy with expanded conciousness, and more, to support your healing and self-discovery. A loving and compassionate approach has immense power —both in accompanying someone and as a way of relating to oneself. I believe benevolent, kind, and loving attitudes are essential for a healthy life. In my experience, people who learn to move from a place of love are strong and grounded —they know who they are and what’s good for them. To be loving means tapping into a deep well of energy that enables natural and spontaneous behaviors, like self-care, setting boundaries in relationships, and making wise decisions. Here are some classic questions to reflect on: - Do you notice the difference between relief and joy? Relief is tied to fear, while joy stems from a positive experience. Can you see this within yourself? - Do you experience your sexuality from a place of pressure or from free-flowing pleasure? In many environments, there are specific expectations about how sex should be. - How do you relate to the idea of death? Can you consider your own death with calm, or do you avoid thinking about it? The fear of our own death conditions us. How do you experience the idea of losing someone you love? Even if we can’t always see it, our fears condition us and stop us from living freely in the present. This can show up as anxiety, stress, avoidance-based decisions, and more. Treating ourselves with love is a powerful step in transforming each of these questions.

Experience

Current work is as Integrative Therapist/Counselor with own practice and leadership mentor and coach Advisory role for organizations and individuals Top executive in Multinational Consulting organization

Education

4 years Gestalt Psychology and Therapist training 1 year Sexual Therapist training Integrative approach to self development Coach ICF certified

Services

Intro Call

Free 30 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

€70 1 hr Online & In-person

Couples Session

€120 1 hr Online & In-person

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€40 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Barcelona, SpainAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from FrodeAccepting new clients.
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 4 hours
Next available: May 26