Warm, online Person-Centred counselling for neurodiversity, anxiety, ex-pat life, and habit patterns & recovery
Hello, my name is Joe, and thanks for taking the time to read my profile.
My own experience, both as a client and as a therapist, is that sometimes life becomes difficult in ways that are hard to make sense of or talk about.
You might be struggling with a relationship, an affair, separation, porn or another unwanted behaviour. Perhaps you're drinking more than you'd like, feeling anxious or overwhelmed, or simply feeling stuck and unsure what to do next.
I provide online, person-centred counselling for adults who want a space to talk honestly about what's happening, without judgement.
I have a particular interest in working with men, especially those who may find it difficult to talk about what they're going through or who have reached a point where things have become difficult to manage alone. I also work with women experiencing many of the same challenges.
Some of the things I work with include:
Anxiety, overthinking and feeling stuck
Relationships, separation and affairs
Porn and unwanted or compulsive behaviours
Shame and difficult emotions
Alcohol and other difficult behaviours
Life changes and loss of direction
Emotional and relationship difficulties
Adjusting to major changes in life
My approach is straightforward and collaborative. I pay particular attention to your process, the language you use and the emotions that underpin our conversations. I'll work with you to understand what's happening, explore patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and together we can consider what might help you move forward.
I also have personal experience of recovery, which has shaped my understanding of some of the difficulties people can face around habits, behaviour and change. My interest in mindfulness and my wider life experience also inform the way I work. I want you to feel able to explore what's going on without pressure or judgement.
How I work
Free initial call: We start with an informal 20-minute chat to discuss what you're looking for and answer any questions.
First session and shared goals: If we decide to work together, our first full session gives us an opportunity to clarify what you want from counselling so that our work has a sense of direction.
Regular check-ins: As we work together, we'll take time to review how things are going and whether the counselling continues to feel useful and relevant to you.
I am a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist, holding a Postgraduate Qualification in Counselling and Psychotherapy from the University of Cumbria. Before establishing my private practice, I worked as a counsellor in colleges and recovery centres. I currently provide counselling for Red Rose Recovery, Kendal College, and Physicians Anonymous—a peer-support network for doctors facing burnout, stress, and related challenges. Find me at: https://physiciansanonymous.org/coaches-and-mentors/
I began my career as a mental health worker, supporting people from diverse backgrounds through challenges such as stress, emotional distress, and life transitions. I’ve also worked as a Religious Education teacher and in corporate settings, where I developed a strong interest in meaning, relationships, and personal development.
I am particularly interested in the Motivational Interviewing approach, which supports clients in recognising the disparity between where they are currently and where they would like to be. By gently exploring this discrepancy, the client and counsellor can work collaboratively to identify meaningful and realistic ways of bridging the gap between present difficulties and desired change.
I also have an interest in attachment theory and Emotion-Focused Therapy. Both place emotion at the centre of our experience. Emotion can be difficult to sit with, and many of us respond by moving into thinking, analysing and trying to understand things cognitively instead.
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