It's Complicated

Christian Mahlow

Clinical Psychologist

Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients
A safe space where you can slow down, feel heard, and move forward — systemic counseling with warmth, clarity, and respect. Appointments available.

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At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years and 210+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 12 hours

About me

Psychological strain can throw life off balance – often not suddenly, but gradually. Through my own past experiences with burnout and depressive crises, I know how unsettling and exhausting such phases can be. Professional psychotherapeutic support helped me gain new perspectives and rebuild trust in my own ability to act and shape my life. This experience inspired me to make psychology my profession. In my work, I meet people with openness, respect, and compassionate interest in their individual life situations. I work from a systemic perspective – which means we do not only focus on symptoms, but also on patterns and connections: relationships, life circumstances, roles, resources, and what has supported you so far. Together, we explore what strengthens you, what weighs on you, and which changes feel right and meaningful. I see myself as a reliable partner at your side, someone who listens carefully, asks thoughtful questions, and offers constructive impulses. Within a safe and confidential space, I support you in gaining clarity, developing new perspectives, and experimenting with your own solutions – at your pace and in accordance with your individual possibilities. For an initial contact, you are welcome to briefly describe your concerns. Together, we will then find a suitable appointment. The sessions take place within the framework of psychological counseling and do not replace psychotherapy. If it becomes clear that psychotherapeutic treatment would be advisable, I will address this openly and support you in taking the next steps.

I speak:

GermanEnglish

Location:

Berlin, Germany

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
Family therapyRecommended for families who want to resolve conflicts, improve communication, and understand each other better within the family dynamic.
Holistic approachRecommended for those who want to address their mental health through a balanced focus on mind, body, and spirit.
Systemic therapyRecommended for those who want to understand how their relationships and environments influence their behavior and emotions, particularly within family or organizational systems.
Inner conflicts often arise when we face important crossroads in life. Different thoughts, feelings, and inner voices speak up, pulling us in seemingly opposite directions. In systemic counseling, we see these tensions as the interplay of various inner parts – an “inner team,” with each part representing its own needs, values, and protective functions. Some decisions feel easier when the inner team is in harmony. Other times, choices can feel exhausting or overwhelming because the parts are in conflict. In my work, I help you gently recognize these inner voices, appreciate their role, and bring them into a constructive dialogue – without judgment or pressure. I accompany you with a holistic, systemic approach that looks beyond symptoms to your whole life context: your relationships, work, environment, and existing strengths and resources. In a safe and supportive space, I help you gain clarity, explore new perspectives, and make decisions that feel authentic, balanced, and sustainable. Typical process: - Clarifying your concerns and goals - Getting to know and exploring your inner team - Identifying central tensions and needs - Developing integrated, practical solutions - Follow-up and sustainability check

Experience

2 years in practice210+ sessions on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years at It's Complicated
Self-employed psychologist since 2024 Since 2019, working in an independent social psychiatry, family and youth welfare agency in Berlin with a focus on mental illness 2018/2019 Lecturer for non-violent communication in advanced training for DAZ teachers 2013 - 2019 Teacher for German as a foreign and second language Since 2010 Freelance author for radio plays, films and fiction 2007 - 2011 Freelance director and author at various theaters #Literature #Theatre #Music #Therapeutic writing #Mindfulness #Self-care #Fatherhood #Social work #FamilyHelp #Domestic Violence #traumatherap #TraumaEducation #FamilyConstellation #sharework #Body-oriented work #Perception #Introspection

Education

Since 2024 training as a psychological psychotherapist in the field of systemic therapy - GST Berlin 2023 MA. Clinical Psychology - IPU Berlin 2021 Further training: Trauma therapy - Ulm University Hospital 2021 Further training: Protection and help in the event of domestic violence - Ulm University Hospital 2010 Diploma in Dramaturgy for Theater and Film - Leipzig University of Music and Theater

Services

Intro Call

Free 15 min Online

Individual Session

€89 50 min Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years and 210+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 12 hours
Usually responds within 12 hours