It's Complicated

Iris Lachnit

(she/her)

Counsellor

Available for new clients
Are you facing a crisis, conflict, or difficult decision and feel like you can't find a way forward? I look forward to exploring with you how to mobilize your resources and expand your options for action!

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Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
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About me

As a state-approved psychotherapist, I work with individuals, families, and couples seeking psychological treatment and professional support during crises, conflicts, or difficult decision-making processes. After more than 6 years of experience in inpatient and outpatient psychotherapeutic work and extensive training in Systemic Therapy, I am excited to bring my professional passion, expertise, and practical knowledge to our work together. My extensive career and personal life experience—including living in different countries, navigating partnership and parenthood, founding a family, and establishing professional self-employment—enable me to empathize deeply with my clients’ experiences and to grasp the complexities of relationship and family dynamics.

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Location:

Wartburgstraße 30, 10825 Berlin, Germany

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment TherapyRecommended for those who want to stop fighting negative thoughts and learn how to live with more acceptance and focus on what really matters in life.
PsychodramaRecommended for those who want to use role-playing and dramatization to work through emotions and past experiences in a creative way.
Systemic therapyRecommended for those who want to understand how their relationships and environments influence their behavior and emotions, particularly within family or organizational systems.
In my private practice in Berlin-Schöneberg, I provide a respectful and trusting environment, supporting you in: • (Re)discovering and strengthening hidden resources, • Developing new and helpful perspectives, • Exploring new options for action, • Strengthening access to your emotions and utilizing them, • Changing blocking or energy-draining relationship dynamics, • Involving significant others in the treatment/counseling process, where appropriate. Key assumptions underlying my work include: • You are the expert of your own life and already carry the solution within you. • Problems arise in interpersonal relationships (and in the relationship with ourselves). • Circular causality: every behavior is both a cause and an effect. I am convinced of the effectiveness of multi-person settings and encourage you to involve significant others or family members in the sessions to address and foster beneficial changes. If this is not possible or desired, we consider the perspectives of relevant system members in individual settings. Positive change can occur both internally (e.g., shifts in inner attitudes) and externally (e.g., changes in interactions). In addition to systemic methods, I incorporate hypnosystemic and body-oriented techniques, as well as methods from psychodrama, art therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), based on my personal interests and qualifications.

Experience

7 years in practice
Since 2025: employed as state-approved Therapist at "Private Practice for Psychotherapy and Coaching Dr. Viola Kappel & Colleagues", Berlin-Schöneberg Since 2024: working in own private practice as Systemic Therapist for individuals, couples, and families in Berlin-Schöneberg. 2021–2024: Outpatient treatment at the Psychotherapeutic Outpatient Clinic, ISTB GmbH, Berlin. Jan–Dec 2022: Family Therapist at "Mondlicht 24"--Therapeutic residential group for girls and young women with eating disorders, Neues Wohnen im Kiez GmbH, Berlin. Jan–Sept 2021: Clinical internship in art therapy at the Gardner Neuroscience Institute, University of Cincinnati, and the Good Samaritan Hospital, Cincinnati, US. 2019–2020: Psychotherapist in training at the Clinic for Psychosomatic Medicine and Psychotherapy, Sophien- und Hufeland-Klinikum Weimar, Germany. 2015: Co-conceptualization and co-leadership of a leadership training program for DB Netz AG, Karlsruhe, Germany.

Education

2024: "Systemic Therapist, Couples and Family Therapist" (DGSF) 2019–2025: state-approved licensure training in Systemic Therapy at ISTB – Therapy and Organizational Development GmbH, Berlin, Germany 2012–2016: Psychodrama Practitioner Training at the Psychodrama Institute Freiburg/Heidelberg, Germany 2018: Master of Science in Clinical Psychology and Psychotherapy, Technical University of Dresden, Germany and University of Connecticut, US 2015: Bachelor of Science in Psychology, University of Koblenz-Landau, Germany and Turku University, Finland

Services

Individual Session

€120 50 min Online & In-person

Couples Session

€180 1 hr 30 min Online & In-person

Family Session

€190 1 hr 30 min Online & In-person

First session

€120 50 min Online & In-person

Insurances

Private PayPrivate InsuranceReimbursement
At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds after 24 hours

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