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Alessia Marchi
Couples Counsellor
Available for new clients
I'm a licensed Couples Counsellor, Clinical Psychologist, and Forbes-Featured Love Researcher, specialized in Romantic and Intimate Relationships. I help individuals and couples navigate the complexities of modern love.
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At a glance
Last active
Experienced on It's Complicated70+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Usually responds within 2 hours
About me
I have been fascinated by relationships, especially romantic ones, since a young age. From early on, I realised I had a sensitivity and a natural ability to understand the dynamics between people—their emotions, behaviours, and connections. This topic continues to be my greatest passion today.
I am a licensed Couples Counsellor, Clinical Psychologist and Forbes-Featured Love Researcher.
I help both individuals and couples navigate the complexities and the challenges of their relationships.
I worked with 50+ couples from diverse background, gender identities, sexual orientations and relationships structures. I also publish scientific articles about relationships and my studies have been featured in Forbes (see below).
The core challenges I frequently help couples navigate are:
✅ Communication Issues (misunderstandings, difficulty expressing feelings or needs, lack of active listening)
✅ Conflict Resolution (disagreement management and healthy, constructive conflict resolution)
✅ Differences in Expectations (disagreements on life goals, commitments, or fundamental values like career, family, or lifestyle)
✅ Cultural Differences (challenges arising from different cultural backgrounds, e.g., communication styles, values, family dynamics, and cultural expectations)
✅ Compatibility Issues (fundamental differences in living or thinking styles, emotional management, priorities, or daily decisions which lead to frustration)
✅ External Stress and Pressure (issues related to work, health, family, or financial management that negatively impact the relationship)
✅ Infidelity and Trust Issues (problems with jealousy, cheating, or suspicions that undermine trust)
I also address many other challenges related to relationships. If you are wondering whether I can help with a specific issue you are facing, feel free to send me a message in chat.
I am a licensed Couples Counsellor, Clinical Psychologist and Forbes-Featured Love Researcher.
I help both individuals and couples navigate the complexities and the challenges of their relationships.
I worked with 50+ couples from diverse background, gender identities, sexual orientations and relationships structures. I also publish scientific articles about relationships and my studies have been featured in Forbes (see below).
The core challenges I frequently help couples navigate are:
✅ Communication Issues (misunderstandings, difficulty expressing feelings or needs, lack of active listening)
✅ Conflict Resolution (disagreement management and healthy, constructive conflict resolution)
✅ Differences in Expectations (disagreements on life goals, commitments, or fundamental values like career, family, or lifestyle)
✅ Cultural Differences (challenges arising from different cultural backgrounds, e.g., communication styles, values, family dynamics, and cultural expectations)
✅ Compatibility Issues (fundamental differences in living or thinking styles, emotional management, priorities, or daily decisions which lead to frustration)
✅ External Stress and Pressure (issues related to work, health, family, or financial management that negatively impact the relationship)
✅ Infidelity and Trust Issues (problems with jealousy, cheating, or suspicions that undermine trust)
I also address many other challenges related to relationships. If you are wondering whether I can help with a specific issue you are facing, feel free to send me a message in chat.
I speak:
EnglishItalian
Location:
Berlin, Germany
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Approach
Treatment Approaches
Clinical psychologyRecommended for those who need help with diagnosing and treating more complex mental health issues, often involving assessments and evidence-based treatments.
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
Systemic ApproachRecommended for those who want to look at how different systems—like family, work, or society—affect their behavior and relationships.
My approach is based on Systemic-Relational Couples Counseling, and also integrates the latest scientific research and psychological literature. I combine a structured, logical method with a strong focus on the emotional factors that shape behavior.
📌 In addition, I often create VISUAL REPRESENTATIONS (see in pictures) to help couples better understand the dynamics at play, the patterns they are repeating, and their triggers. These include materials such as diagrams, flowcharts, process maps etc. that allow couples to truly visualize the issues and the patterns and gain a deeper understanding of how to resolve them.
▶ Why should you choose couples counselling?
Couples counselling will enable you, as a couple or as an individual, to have different and more constructive conversations. You will be able to break free from the loop of repetitive discussions where you feel stuck, unheard, or misunderstood. You will have healthier and more productive dialogues for a more authentic and satisfying relationship.
▶ What should you expect from our time in counseling together?
During our counseling, I will ask questions to analyze and understand your situation, trying to consider every possible angle. I will listen closely to your story and will observe your interactions, both verbally and non verbally.
My goal will be to help you, as a couple, see perspectives you have not considered before. To look at the same situation with fresh eyes. To ask and to answer to questions you have never asked or been asked.
🌍 I work with couples and individuals of all nationalities, cultural backgrounds, religions, gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship types. I also offer counselling sessions for long-distance relationships.
🗣️ I offer counseling sessions in both English and Italian.
💻 I currently offer mainly ONLINE sessions.
📌 In addition, I often create VISUAL REPRESENTATIONS (see in pictures) to help couples better understand the dynamics at play, the patterns they are repeating, and their triggers. These include materials such as diagrams, flowcharts, process maps etc. that allow couples to truly visualize the issues and the patterns and gain a deeper understanding of how to resolve them.
▶ Why should you choose couples counselling?
Couples counselling will enable you, as a couple or as an individual, to have different and more constructive conversations. You will be able to break free from the loop of repetitive discussions where you feel stuck, unheard, or misunderstood. You will have healthier and more productive dialogues for a more authentic and satisfying relationship.
▶ What should you expect from our time in counseling together?
During our counseling, I will ask questions to analyze and understand your situation, trying to consider every possible angle. I will listen closely to your story and will observe your interactions, both verbally and non verbally.
My goal will be to help you, as a couple, see perspectives you have not considered before. To look at the same situation with fresh eyes. To ask and to answer to questions you have never asked or been asked.
🌍 I work with couples and individuals of all nationalities, cultural backgrounds, religions, gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship types. I also offer counselling sessions for long-distance relationships.
🗣️ I offer counseling sessions in both English and Italian.
💻 I currently offer mainly ONLINE sessions.
Experience
2 years in practice70+ sessions on It's Complicated
🔸 Couples Counsellor – Helped 50+ individuals and couples navigate relationship challenges, improve communication, and enhance emotional connections
🔸 Conducted academic researches on Compatibility and Long-Term Relationships (for reference see below). My studies have also been mentioned by Forbes https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2023/04/05/new-research-uncovers-24-dimensions-of-compatibility-in-long-term-couples/
🔸 Launched initiatives for Relationship Education, such as workshops on Compatibility and Women’s Love Discussions
🔸 Hosted a podcast on relationships and dating
🔸 Moderator of a Relationships Support virtual group (2+ years)
🔸 Founder of a Social Experiment on Interpersonal Compatibility (+150 participants)
🔸 Advised Dating & Relationship startups globally on creating meaningful experiences for users
🔸 Organized Scientific Speed Dating events to explore the dynamics of compatibility in real-time interactions
🔸 Conducted academic researches on Compatibility and Long-Term Relationships (for reference see below). My studies have also been mentioned by Forbes https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2023/04/05/new-research-uncovers-24-dimensions-of-compatibility-in-long-term-couples/
🔸 Launched initiatives for Relationship Education, such as workshops on Compatibility and Women’s Love Discussions
🔸 Hosted a podcast on relationships and dating
🔸 Moderator of a Relationships Support virtual group (2+ years)
🔸 Founder of a Social Experiment on Interpersonal Compatibility (+150 participants)
🔸 Advised Dating & Relationship startups globally on creating meaningful experiences for users
🔸 Organized Scientific Speed Dating events to explore the dynamics of compatibility in real-time interactions
Education
📚 Master's in Couple Relationship Clinical Practice – Certification as Couple Counsellor
📚 M.Sc. in Psychology (with highest honors), specializing in Social and Relational Psychology, from UNIPD (Italy's #1 for Psychology)
📚 Exchange Semester in Psychology at the University of Bergen, Norway
📚 B.Sc. in Psychology (with highest honors), specializing in Development, Personality and Interpersonal Relationships, from UNIPD (Italy's #1 for Psychology)
📚 M.Sc. in Psychology (with highest honors), specializing in Social and Relational Psychology, from UNIPD (Italy's #1 for Psychology)
📚 Exchange Semester in Psychology at the University of Bergen, Norway
📚 B.Sc. in Psychology (with highest honors), specializing in Development, Personality and Interpersonal Relationships, from UNIPD (Italy's #1 for Psychology)
Cost
Free 15 minute introductory callSliding scale starting at €60
Individual Session
€70 (60 minutes)
Couples session (90min)
€120 (90 minutes)
Couples session (60min)
€90 (60 minutes)
Insurances
Private Pay
At a glance
Last active
Experienced on It's Complicated70+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Usually responds within 2 hours
Next available: May 26