It's Complicated

MA (Clin Psych) Francois de Wet

Clinical Psychologist & EMDR Counsellor

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Do you appear functional to others while privately feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or alone? Do you silently suffer from anxiety, depression, or something you cannot share? I might be your guy.

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Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
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About me

Many of the people I work with are thoughtful, high-functioning individuals who struggle in ways that few people around them — even those who know them well — would ever suspect.

Whatever their gender or sexual orientation, these capable individuals “keep it all together” while privately struggling to make sense of things that happened in their past, heal from a painful breakup, or cope with anxiety and loneliness. Many are haunted by a persistent feeling that the satisfaction or meaning life once had now somehow escapes them. For many expats, Berlin itself can be a particularly isolating place — surrounded by people, yet somehow alone.

I specialize in those who suffer secretly.

My approach to therapy is warm, reflective, and non-judgmental. Come as you are. Bring it all. Bring it on. Nothing is unacceptable or unwelcome.

Rather than simply focusing on symptoms, we focus our enquiry on understanding your deeper emotional patterns and unconscious dynamics that influence how you relate to others, to yourself, and the world.

I have lived and worked across Africa, the Middle East, and the Far East before settling in Berlin, and have travelled to more than 60 countries. I’ve been around the block. Because not everything can be learned from books, I like to believe that these experiences help me understand people on a deep and uniquely personal level, regardless of their walk of life, their country or creed.

I hold two degrees in philosophy, which inform my approach through an existential lens.

I obtained my M.A. in Clinical Psychology from the International Psychoanalytic University Berlin and am accredited in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).

I speak:

EnglishAfrikaansFulah

Location:

Schönhauser Allee 55, 10437 Berlin, Germany

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
EMDRRecommended for those dealing with trauma who want to process painful memories in a structured way to reduce their emotional impact.
Psychodynamic therapyRecommended for those looking to explore their emotions deeply and understand how past experiences shape their present life.
Depending on your needs, I draw from both psychoanalytic psychotherapy and EMDR. That probably sounds like a mouthful, but in more straightforward language, it means we work together to understand the deeper emotional patterns, past experiences, and how we relate to others (so-called “attachment styles”) that may be contributing to whatever challenges you are now facing.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based therapy endorsed by the World Health Organization for trauma treatment. It can also be effective for panic, performance anxiety, stress, and addictions.

Therapy with me is collaborative, and we pace it according to your needs. Understanding your needs might actually prove to be an important part of the process — they are not always obvious. Some clients come because they are struggling through a specific crisis, while others seek a deeper understanding of themselves and the patterns shaping their choices.

If you feel that this approach resonates with you, let’s have a short, free introductory consultation. We can discuss what bothers you and then you can go and have a think. We might be a fit.

Follow the link to schedule:
https://francoisuqjp.setmore.com

I’m here, I'm interested - and I'm ready when you are.

Experience

2023 Clinical Psychologist with private practice
2005 -2020 University Lecturer: Psychology, Philosophy

Education

2024 EMDR Certification
2023 M.A. Clin. Psych, Psychoanalytic University of Berlin
2003 B.A. Hon. Philosophy (with distinction), University of Pretoria
1999 B.A. University of Pretoria

Services

Individual Session

€80 50 min Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 4 hours
Usually responds within 4 hours