Alexandra Suarez
(she/her)
Sex Counsellor
Available for new clients
As a certified sex counsellor, I help individuals and couples navigate the evolving landscapes of intimacy, connection, and identity with honesty and compassion. I offer in-person sessions in Berlin and online.
I specialize in:
At a glance
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 1 year on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
Usually responds within 24 hours
About me
As a sex and relationship counsellor, my work is deeply informed by both my personal and professional journey. Over the course of my career, including work in sexual and reproductive health and sex education, I’ve had the privilege of supporting individuals through some of the most intimate and vulnerable moments of their lives — from guiding patients through difficult health diagnoses to providing compassionate care in times of uncertainty. These experiences have shaped not only my approach to counselling but also my perspective on the complex intersection of love, sexuality, and identity.
To talk about sex is never merely to discuss physicality—it’s to explore family, culture, gender, power, consent, religion, pleasure, and belonging; to explore who we are and who we aspire to be. By fostering open conversations on topics such as desire, trauma, parenthood, and sexual wellbeing, I hope to dismantle shame and help others navigate the evolving landscapes of intimacy, connection, and identity with honesty and compassion.
To learn more about my work as a sex and relationship counsellor, you can visit my website: https://www.alexandra-suarez.com/
I speak:
EnglishSpanish
Location:
Simplonstraße 19, 10245 Berlin, Germany
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Approach
Treatment Approaches
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
GSRD (Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity) TherapyRecommended for those seeking affirmative support and guidance while navigating the complexities of identity, sexuality, and relationships.
Sex therapyRecommended for individuals or couples who want help improving their sex life, intimacy, or overcoming sexual issues in a supportive environment.
My counselling approach is integrative, drawing from a range of psychological theories and practices to support your unique needs. By combining different frameworks, I help clients develop a deeper awareness of how their upbringing, family dynamics, and physiological states shape their inner world — particularly in relation to adversities, trauma, emotional regulation, and sexuality.
Sex Counselling:
We will explore your sexuality considering the biological, psychological, and social factors that shape it. Together, we will review medical factors that may be contributing to sexual difficulties, uncover how your autonomic nervous system responds to pressure and performance anxiety, and openly explore the role sexual scripts, personal experiences, religion, and culture have played in limiting you from fully embracing your sexual identity. Through this collaborative process, we’ll empower you to gain deeper insights, build resilience, and take actionable steps towards embracing your authentic sexuality.
Couples Counselling:
My work with couples is rooted in attachment theory, differentiation, and parts work—all of which help us understand the deeper emotional layers and internal dynamics that influence how we show up in our relationships.
We begin by identifying and transforming the negative interaction cycles that often leave couples feeling stuck or disconnected. Through this process, we explore each partner’s emotional experience and unmet attachment needs—what drives the patterns beneath the conflict. Attachment theory offers a framework for understanding how early relational experiences shape how we seek closeness, manage distance, and respond to vulnerability in adult relationships.
To learn more about my approach and schedule a free introductory call, please visit https://www.alexandra-suarez.com/
Experience
3 years in practiceOver 1 year at It's Complicated
Sex and Relationship Counsellor, Private Practice, Berlin, 2024 - Present
Sex and Relationship Counsellor, Ōsmos Studio, Berlin, 2023
Sexual and Reproductive Health Specialist, PPSW, California, 2011 - 2013
Sex Educator, SDSU, California, 2010-2011
Member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counsellors and Therapists (AASECT), 2022 - Present
Education
Bachelor of Arts in Interdisciplinary Studies with distinction in Psychology and Human Sexuality, San Diego State University, California, 2007 - 2010
Postgraduate Diploma in International Public Health, Charité Universitätsmedizin, Berlin, 2015 - 2016
Sex Counselling, Modern Sex Therapy Institute, Florida, 2021 - 2023
SAR, Sexual Attitudes Reassessment Training, MSTI, Florida, 2022
Graduate of The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy Training under Ellyn Bader Ph.D., The Couples Institute, California, 2023-2024
Master of Science in Sex Therapy and Sexual Psychology, London Metropolitan University, UK, 2025 -2027
Cost
Free 20 minute introductory callSliding scale starting at €80
Individual Session
€80 (60 minutes)
Online Individual Session
€80 (60 minutes)
In Person Individual Session
€90 (60 minutes)
Online Couple Session
€140 (75 minutes)
In Person Couple Session
€150 (90 minutes)
Insurances
Private Pay
At a glance
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 1 year on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
Usually responds within 24 hours
Usually responds within 24 hours