Alexandra Suarez
(she/her)
Sex Counsellor
Unavailable for new clients
As a certified sex and relationship counsellor, I help individuals and couples explore their sexuality from a place of trust, openness and mutual understanding. I offer sessions in-person in Berlin and also online.
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At a glance
Experienced on It's ComplicatedA year on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from AlexandraAccepting new clients from February 2025.
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
Usually responds after 24 hours
About me
My work is dedicated to exploring the intersection of love and sexuality — from the relationship we have with our bodies, to the way we experience intimacy and connect with others. To understand how relationships evolve, why passion dies, why we cheat. To delve into desire, heartbreak, pain, and the beautiful intensity that comes with human connection.
Storytelling forms an integral part of counselling and healing. As a sex and relationship counsellor, I’m here to listen to your story; to help you navigate the sensitive and challenging obstacles that come with love and sex so that you may process your experiences and find new levels of understanding. With this intention, I set out to create my practice — a safe space where individuals and couples can bring to light those things we are too afraid to talk about. A place where we can learn about our sexuality, foster self-love, love for our bodies and partner(s). Perhaps most importantly, a place where we can cultivate the relationship we have with ourselves, and in the process, use our shared experiences — our stories — as a catalyst for positive change.
To learn more about my work you can visit my website: www.inkeycounselling.com
My office is located in Berlin but I offer online sessions as well.
I speak:
EnglishSpanish
Location:
Simplonstraße 19, 10245 Berlin, Germany
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Approach
Treatment Approaches
Integrative therapy Recommended for those who prefer a flexible approach that combines different therapies to meet their unique needs.
Sex therapyRecommended for individuals or couples who want help improving their sex life, intimacy, or overcoming sexual issues in a supportive environment.
As part of our sessions, we will explore your sexuality through a biopsychosocial lens. From reviewing medical factors that may be leading to sexual difficulties, to understanding what is happening in your autonomic nervous system when there’s pressure to perform and anxiety kicks in, to openly discussing your sexual fantasies and unpacking your cultural background and the family dynamics you grew up in, my work is integrative and judgement-free. Whether you want to free yourself from feelings of shame, explore your sexuality or deepen the connection with your partner, I am here to support you on your journey.
FRAMEWORK: I follow the PLISSIT model in the field of Sexology. My approach to counselling is integrative, client-centred and influenced by Attachment Theory and the Developmental Model of Couple’s Counselling.
COMMON CHALLENGES EXPLORED IN SEX COUNSELLING
+ Rekindling low desire in long-term relationships.
+ Working through infidelity, rebuilding trust and fostering erotic empathy as a couple.
+ Unveiling deeper insights into your own identity and the dynamics of your relationships.
+ Understanding the meaning and motives behind an affair.
+ Overcoming sexual difficulties around arousal, vaginal pain, erectile dysfunction and/or premature ejaculation.
+ Reclaiming your sexuality and healing from sexual trauma.
+ Exploring consensual non-monogamy.
+ Understanding your sexual orientation–who you love, who you fall in love with, and what turns you on.
+ Exploring erotic possibilities as a transitioning or transgender person.
+ Exploring kink and BDSM as an individual and/or as a couple.
+ Working through out of control compulsive sexual behaviour (formerly referred to as sex addiction).
To learn more about my approach and schedule a free introductory call, please visit https://www.inkeycounselling.com/relationship-sex-counseling
Experience
3 years in practiceA year at It's Complicated
Private Practice, Berlin, January 2024 - Present
Sex Counsellor, Ōsmos Studio, Berlin, June 2023 - December 2023
Sex Counsellor, Joy Space, Berlin, June 2021 - December 2023
Sexual and Reproductive Health Specialist, PPSW, California, 2011 - 2013
Sex Educator, SDSU, California, 2010
Education
Bachelor of Arts in Liberal Arts and Sciences in Psychology and Human Sexuality, SDSU, California
Sex Counselling Certification, Modern Sex Therapy Institute, Florida
Graduate of The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy Training under Ellyn Bader Ph.D., The Couples Institute, California
Postgraudate Diploma in International Public Health, Charité Universitätsmedizin Berlin, Germany
Member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counsellors and Therapists (AASECT)
Cost
Free 20 minute introductory call
Individual Session
€80
Couples 75 Min Session
€130 (75 minutes)
Couples 90 Min Session
€150 (90 minutes)
Insurances
Private Pay
At a glance
Experienced on It's ComplicatedA year on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from AlexandraAccepting new clients from February 2025.
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
Usually responds after 24 hours
Usually responds after 24 hours