Pepa Pasatu
(she/they)
Sexologist & Clinical Psychologist
Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients
Sexuality is about trusting yourself and others, feeling your desire and pleasure (again). As a clinical psycho-sexologist I support you in exploring, accepting and expressing your sexuality.
I specialize in:
At a glance
Experienced on It's Complicated130+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
Usually responds within 4 hours
About me
I breathe deeply, I am direct and I love to laugh (great tension release btw).
I have always been curious to better understand the meaning of sexuality - the forbidden, yet desired. A topic filled with ignorance and expectations, that easily create pressure and harm. To better understand my sexuality I have asked many questions to many people and spent by now 10 years studying sexuality from various perspectives. Now I have some answers and I'm happy to help you find yours.
Unlike most of my collogues I invite you to feel your body body body, as well as all the sensations that come with being touched and touching someone.
Check out my TEDx talk on sexual pleasure - which just got selected as one of the 25 essential talks of 2025: https://youtu.be/oel9-7Az0vw?si=CTVeJ4bAoVdGoJ64
My formation: I hold an MSc in Clinical Psycho-Sexology (Sapienza University of Rome & Tor Vergata, Italy), that combines medical and psychological aspects of sexual health. Further I hold a BSc. in Psychology (University of Potsdam, Germany & University of Buenos Aires, Argentina).
I speak:
EnglishGermanSpanishItalian
Location:
Berlin, Germany
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Approach
Treatment Approaches
Body therapyRecommended for those who want to connect their mind and body to release stress or trauma through physical sensations and movement.
Clinical psychologyRecommended for those who need help with diagnosing and treating more complex mental health issues, often involving assessments and evidence-based treatments.
Sex therapyRecommended for individuals or couples who want help improving their sex life, intimacy, or overcoming sexual issues in a supportive environment.
Our sessions are a space to hear yourself, to name the unaware, to identify your belief systems and (if you want!) find new ones.
I'm happy to support you with some questions/tasks/challenges to make new experiences and rewire your expectations towards yourself and life.
Summing up: I like to live instead of just surviving - what about you?
My glasses are tainted by a
+ bio-psycho-social perspective
---> considering you in the wider context of your relationships, culture, and past experiences
+ sex-positive perspective
---> let's make it easy to talk about sex, as if it were talking about the weather
I draw from following methods
**cognitive-behavioral (working with challenges, changing current self-beliefs)
**psychodynamic (focussing on the relationship and how we have learned to relate to others across life)
**embodiment (what I feel in my body)
**mindfulness (how I judge and observe myself and others).
With other words: I am eclectic, as I believe all therapeutic methods have different strengths and weaknesses. By having a background in multiple I can adapt to what seems most fitting in the given situation.
Because most importantly
- I offer a safe, nonjudgmental space
- in which you can slow down &
- reconnect with your inner sensations and desires
- giving room for self acceptance &
- making change possible (yeahh!)
Write to me as a first step in this curious journey of love and lust.
I offer sexological, psychological, and relational coaching sessions.
Sessions that are not cancelled a minimum of 24hs beforehand are charged at full rate.
Experience
130+ sessions on It's Complicated
since 2025: Organisation and co-moderation of the monthly Sex Journal Club online - for early careers of sexology
2024 - present: Private sexological practice
2024 - 2025: Reseacher at the Karl Landsteiner Private University (Austria)
2021 - 2022: Research assistant at the Laboratory of Haptics, Paul Flechsig Institute, University of Leipzig (Germany)
since 2018: Sexual education and pleasure focused workshop facilitation
Education
2022 - 2024: MSc. Clinical Psychosexology (with honors)at Sapienza University and University of Tor Vergata (Italy)
2016 - 2022: BSc. Psychology at University of Potsdam (Germany)
2018-2021: Study of Psychoogy at University of Buenos Aires (Argentina)
Specializations within the sexological field
2024 - Psychopathologies of couple relationships - Prof. Patrizia Velotti
- Trauma, sexual abuse and gender violence - Prof. Carola
- Genderstudies - Prof. Guido Giovanardi
2023 - Fertility and infertility - Prof. Donatella Caserta
- Psychopharmacology - Prof. Cinzia Niolu
2023 - Clinical aspects of paraphilias and deviance - Dr. Guido Giovanardi
- Psychopathology of sexual behaviour - Prof. Erika Limoncin
2022 - Psychoendocrinology and medical sexology - Prof. Emmanuele A. Jannini
2021 - Sexual education formation - "Mit Sicherheit Verliebt"
2019 - Sexuality in later ages of life - Prof. Ricardo Iacub
2016 & 2021 - Introduction to sexual medicine and sexual sciences - Prof. Dr. Dr. Klaus M. Beier
Services
Intro Call
Free • 15 min • Online
Couples Session
€130 • 1 hr 20 min • Online
Individual Session
€90 • 50 min • Online
Insurances
Private Pay
At a glance
Experienced on It's Complicated130+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
Usually responds within 4 hours
Usually responds within 4 hours