It's Complicated

Bihter Kartheuser

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Somatic Counsellor & Somatic Coach

Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients
I work with the nervous system, guiding you into less talking & more sensing; cultivating skills for self- & co-regulation, and exploring life’s matters with a lens of resilience. You can book a free first session!

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Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 1 year on It's Complicated
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from BihterIf you can't find a suitable time slot in the calendar, contact me to arrange one for you! For more questions: https://connectandbe.com
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Usually responds within 8 hours

About me

Growing up in Istanbul, I have been living in Berlin for the past nine years. Throughout my life, I have been in multicultural and non-monogamous relationships. Migrating and adapting to a new life in a country where I didn’t speak the language, combined with my experience of an unconventional lifestyle, has not made life easier to navigate. After many years of different types of therapy, I found my way through somatic work. The gradual process of cultivating nervous system resilience enabled me to stand up for myself and find my place in society, as I am. In recent years, I have been discovering my neurodivergence, and I must say that I am still a work in progress, but with much more ease and self-love. My first existential crisis as a teenager led me to explore a wide range of theories and practices from a young age. After completing my studies in sociology and media studies, I went deeper into yoga and meditation practice. I became a registered yoga teacher with the Yoga Alliance and worked for several years as a yoga and meditation teacher. Contemplative work has been an important element of my everyday life and a backbone of my professional practice. I continue to hold workshops in mindfulness and somatic practices. Later, coaching entered my life as a field offering an integrative and grounded approach to personal transformation, becoming the missing link in my career journey. I completed an ICF (International Coaching Federation)-accredited Mindfulness Coaching Training. This opened a whole new chapter in my personal journey and career, which later led me to dive deeply into the world of trauma, the nervous system, and Polyvagal Theory. Eventually, after completing a four-year clinical training with NeuroSystemics, I became a somatic practitioner accredited by the USABP (United States Association for Body Psychotherapy).

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Location:

Mahlower Straße 5, 12049 Berlin, Germany

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
Positive psychotherapyRecommended for those who want to focus on building strengths, increasing happiness, and enhancing their overall well-being, rather than just focusing on problems.
Somatic ExperiencingRecommended for those who want to use the mind-body connection to address the effects of trauma and restore natural regulation of the nervous system.
Trauma Informed CareRecommended for those who have experienced trauma and need a safe, supportive space to heal at their own pace.
I practice NeuroSystemics, a somatic approach based on Polyvagal Theory and grounded in a relational framework. By integrating elements of positive psychology and nervous system science, I work together with you to develop and deepen your attentional skills and nervous system awareness. I support you in building nervous system resilience through co-regulatory practices that gradually expand your capacity for self-regulation beyond our sessions and help you meet life’s challenges with greater agency and clarity. I work with trauma, particularly relational trauma, not by speaking about it in detail, but by strengthening the capacity of your nervous system. The goal is not to “fix” your problems, but to support your nervous system so you can navigate everyday stressors without becoming overwhelmed. You learn to access more ease, reduce stress and physical tension, and cultivate access to pleasant and joyful sensations in your body. What distinguishes my approach from many others is that we do not dwell in pain. Many people arrive with significant physical or emotional pain, and their relationship to their body is weakened because they primarily experience it through pain and therefore understandably avoid connecting with it. For a fuller sense of self, we work toward re-establishing a relationship with the body, not as something to escape from, but as a resource that supports, strengthens, and grounds you. Sessions last 50 minutes and are exploratory rather than directive. You are welcome to bring a specific topic to explore, or we can engage in a more open, free-flowing conversation. When helpful, I offer psychoeducational input to support embodied experiences and to help make sense of the process on a cognitive level as well. Together, we set milestones aligned with your goals and regularly reflect on both the process and the relationship we are co-creating. Some areas I focus on include: . Mindfulness . Stress, depression, and trauma . Relocation, migration, expatriation, and exile . Conflict resolution . Navigating neurodiversity . LGBTQI+ experiences and non-monogamous relationships . Process-oriented and group settings This work supports a reorganization of your nervous system and expands your capacity to navigate everyday life with greater ease. It fosters a deeper understanding of how your nervous system functions and how you can regulate it beyond our sessions. Potential benefits include: . Greater presence and embodiment . Increased ease in navigating relational challenges . Recognizing nervous system states, understanding triggers, and responding with greater agency . Reduced rumination and a deeper attunement to bodily signals . Improved sleep quality . Burnout prevention . Greater understanding and transformation of depressive tendencies . Managing stress in a gentler and more sustainable way

Experience

4 years in practiceAbout 1 year at It's Complicated
. September 2021-today - Freelance Somatic & Mindfulness Coach . May 2024-today - Freelance Language Mediator for NGOs providing psyco-social support for political asylum seekers . 2016-2024 - Freelance Yoga Teacher . 2008-2015 - Editorial work in various magazines and publishing companies

Education

. September 2024-July 2025 - Clinical Mentorship Program with the NeuroSystemics, in depth session analysis, both 1:1 and group sessions, with Boaz Feldman (http://boazfeldman.com/home/) and Heath Wilson (https://www.celebrate5aspects.com). . September 2021-June 2024 - Clinical Abilities for Resiliency & Empowerment (USABP), body psychotherapy training. . September 2020-July 2021 - Mindfulness Coaching Program (Registered member of ICF) . 2012-2021 - Various Yoga and meditation teacher trainings over 500h of training and over 1000h of teaching. (Registered with Yoga Alliance) . 2010-2015 - PhD in Media Studies, Istanbul University (Unfinished dissertation project on digital sub-cultures) . 2006-2010 - MA in Media Studies, Istanbul University (Dissertation on dystopian literature and the media instruments) . 2002-2006 - BA in Sociology, Istanbul University (Specialised in applied sociology)

Services

Intro Call

Free 30 min Online

Individual Session

€100 50 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€80 50 min Online

Group Session

€50 10 min Online
This is a group process work, which is an alternative to group therapy. If you're interested in working through your relational trauma, relational patterns, setting boundaries, assertiveness, talking less and feeling more, or showing up more instead of staying silent, and exploring many other group dynamics, this practice could be for you. It's a close group of 8 people working together over 12-24 weeks.

Insurances

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At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 1 year on It's Complicated
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from BihterIf you can't find a suitable time slot in the calendar, contact me to arrange one for you! For more questions: https://connectandbe.com
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 8 hours

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