Nil Shani

We are all born wired for connection, we want to be happy and find meaning in what we do, and yet sometimes we feel disconnected, distressed or confused. Whether you are strugling in your relationship, with issues of communication, closeness and conflicts or facing individual challenges in your every day life, you are not alone. Together with my clients, I aim to create a space where things can be explored with curiosity and kindness. We take time for looking more closely at how things actually are, and ask questions that can take us on new roads and hidden alleys. I am often inspired by my clients and am moved by how far we humans can grow and evolve when our own self-healing processes are supported, and when we are willing to meet ourselves and other with compassion. I use a systemic approach, and also draw from emotionally focused therapy (EFT), attachement therory and buddhist ideas and practices. My practice is inclusive, trauma-informed and open to people of all gender identities and orientations, to different relationship forms, and to people from diverse cultures and backgrounds. I am queer and trans myself and am proud to call Berlin home since 2001. * If you wish to meet for an intro session on other days or times than the suggested slots, please contact me *