Noémie Gmür
(they/them)
Relationship & Sex Counsellor, trained to Hypnosis
Available for new clients
Sex and relationship counsellor providing therapy for individuals, couples, polycules. Working mostly (but not only) with queers, polyamorous / non-monogamous, sex workers and kinky clients, in English & French.
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At a glance
Experienced on It's Complicated2 years on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
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About me
I am a Brussels-based certified relationship, gender & sex counsellor, who is also trained and certified to Hypnosis (Psychotherapy of Reassociated Traumatism, )
As a queer, polyamorous and neurodivergent myself, I am keen to create a space where we can express ourselves, free of judgements and taboos. I offer individual & couple/partner therapy, as well as hypnotherapy and workshops.
Care and listening have always been at the heart of my way of being in the world. Aware that deconstruction is a lifelong process, I'm constantly training myself.
My path to therapy started during my own therapy, where I was able to experiment with various approaches. I felt unheard or misunderstood so many times that I ended doing my researches on my own to know who I am, how my brain, body and psyche work and how I can make my way in this world.
To this, I added a field experience as a feminist and queer activist, by conducting awareness-raising workshops in secondary schools, and producing a podcast that questions the norm in relationships and gender. I decided to train at Paris School of Psycho-sexology and gratuated in 2022. Since then, I work in a private practice, online and in person, and offer regular workshops and webinars.
Being a sexual trauma survivor myself, I did experiment some limits to the typical talking therapy and that's why I decided to train to an approach of hypnotherapy focusing on trauma, at the Milton Erickson Institute of Belgium.
I did experiment these techniques as a patient before training myself. This is my way to be sure I offer the best approach to my clients.
Pour les personnes françaises, je vous invite à vous rendre sur mon site pour accéder à ces informations : https://noemiegmur.com/fr/main-home/
I speak:
EnglishFrench
Location:
Brussels, Belgium
Approach
Treatment Approaches
HypnotherapyGood for those who want to use relaxation and hypnosis techniques to explore deeper parts of their mind or break unhealthy habits.
Nonviolent CommunicationGood for those who want to improve communication by learning how to express their feelings and needs without conflict.
Sex therapyGood for individuals or couples who want help improving their sex life, intimacy, or overcoming sexual issues in a supportive environment.
I work mostly with people who identify as queer/LGBTQIA+, kinky/BDSM, sex-positive, neurodivergent, non-monogamous, polyamorous, trauma survivors, sex workers or people who aspire to explore these topics. If you don't recognize yourself in any of these terms, just know that I'm open-minded about them. Labels don't work for everyone, and that's totally okay.
My approach is based on integrative psychotherapy, meaning we're going to adapt the therapeutic approach to your needs. You are the expert of your own story. I offer you a space to share it, help you to identify and to stop repetitive and restrictive patterns that alter your relationship with yourselves, or/and your partner(s).
If you'd like to change the way a past trauma or painful experience affects your present, hypnosis can be an interesting approach. Having experienced it myself - as a client - and using it in my consultations, I'd be glad to tell you more about this technique.
I suggest that we first talk during a discovery call or video call (20-30min).
We'll chat a bit and see if and how I can help you.
Book your slot here: https://calendly.com/noemiegmur/
If we are in phase, we will then continue the follow-up.
Are you more comfortable writing? Then, email me on this platform or at noemiegmur[a]protonmail.com
For the session, we can discuss the fee based on income. You'll find below price scales.
50 min solo online / in person session: 60-80€
50 min couple online / in person session: 90-110 €
90 min couple online / in person session: 120-150€
I am bound by professional secrecy, everything that is said and shared in our sessions remains strictly confidential.
Website: https://noemiegmur.com/
Email: noemiegmur[a]protonmail.com
Instagram: @queersexcounselling
Experience
2 years in practice2 years at It's Complicated
July 2022 - today. Private online practice in relationship and sex counselling.
Workshops:
- What is Love? Debunking myths about love & relationships
- Polyamory for the newbies
- Neurospicy & Relationship(s)
- Mindfulness-based Intimacy workshop in collaboration with Franziska Köster, MBSR instructor
- Consent workshops at festivals: La Vallée électrique, Abya Yala Libre Festival
December - today. Member of the Awareness Team of mjut, a club in Leipzig
2021 - today Facilitation of psycho-education workshops on the myth of romantic love, for the Belgian association Nobody is wrong
2018 - 2021. Writing, interviewing, directing and producing the French podcast "Entre Eux Deux", which deconstructs our relationship to gender and intimate relationships
2018 - 2020. Facilitation of psycho-education workshops on street harassment in secondary schools, for the French association Stop harcèlement de rue Paris (fighting against harassment in the public space)
Education
September 2024 - Now: Advanced Master in Sexuality and Sexualities Clinic - Université Libre de Bruxelles, Brussels
August 2024: "Working With Survivors Of Sexual Assault: Empowering Post-Traumatic Growth", by Monique Dauphin, LMHC, Hudson Valley Professional Development
December 2023: Sexuality and Psychotherapy of Reassociated Traumatism (PTR) Hypnosis Training, by Valérie Doyen, at the Milton Erickson Institute of Belgium.
September 2023 - October 2023: Psychotherapy of Reassociated Traumatism (PTR) Hypnosis Training, by Gérald Brassine at the Milton Erickson Institute of Belgium.
November-December 2022. Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Program, Leipzig
October 2020- July 2022. Certificate of Psycho-Sexology Counsellor, School of Psycho-Sexology, Paris, France
Cost
Free 20 minute introductory callSliding scale starting at €60
Individual Session
€70
Couple session - price scale starts at
€110
Price scale starts at
€60
Insurances
Private Pay
At a glance
Experienced on It's Complicated2 years on It's Complicated
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Your story is important.Feel free to contact me here if you feel that we could be a good fit.
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