It's Complicated

Antónia Demeter

(she/her)

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Psychotherapist & Clinical Psychologist

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Cluj-Napoca, RomaniaAvailable online only
Usually responds within 8 hours

About me

I come from Romania and am part of the Hungarian minority there. I’m a licensed Clinical Psychologist and currently completing my supervision in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy.

I support people navigating anxiety, obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviours, low mood, perfectionism, self-criticism, and difficulties regulating emotions such as anger or sadness. I also have experience working with queer individuals, people living with chronic illnesses (especially diabetes), and those living abroad.

I strongly believe your experience right now — shaped by your history, the way your brain functions, and your current context — makes sense. Therapy is an amazing tool to understand why that is and to explore what we can do about it. I would like to help you understand and accept yourself, as well as find what you need to live a life that feels safe and meaningful.

As someone from a minority background, I’m committed to supporting individuals who face inequality or discrimination, who grapple with questions of belonging, difference, or shame, and who are on a journey toward self-acceptance. I believe our cultural and social contexts shape our emotional well-being, and I strive to integrate this awareness into the therapeutic process to create space for healing and growth.

I speak:

HungarianRomanianEnglish

Location:

Cluj-Napoca, Romania

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CBT: Cognitive behavioural therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
CFT: Compassion-focused therapyRecommended for those who want to be kinder to themselves and reduce negative self-talk, often using mindfulness techniques.
Schema therapyRecommended for those who want to break out of negative patterns or "schemas" that they developed early in life and keep repeating.

My therapeutic foundation is in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), a structured and practical approach that helps us understand the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Over time, I’ve integrated other approaches to help deepen and personalize the work.

I draw on Compassion Focused Therapy to help you develop a kinder, more supportive relationship with yourself, especially if shame or self-criticism have been part of your journey. I also use Schema Therapy to explore deeper emotional patterns and the different “parts” of you that carry pain, protection, or strength.

A big part of my work involves chairwork, an experiential technique that allows us to give voice to different inner parts, integrate them, and find new ways of responding to old patterns. I also weave in mindfulness practices to help you stay present, grounded, and connected to your own experience.

I like to look at things through an evolutionary lens, which means exploring the function behind behaviors rather than judging them as good or bad. Often, the strategies we use — even the ones that no longer serve us — once had a purpose. Understanding that can open the door to real change and self-compassion.

Together, these approaches allow us to work collaboratively and flexibly: making sense of what’s happening, gently shifting what’s no longer helpful, and building new ways of relating to yourself and the world.

Services

Intro Call

Free 20 min Online
A short, friendly discussion - an opportunity for us to get to know each other.

Individual Session

€45 50 min Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Cluj-Napoca, RomaniaAvailable online only
Usually responds within 8 hours

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