It's Complicated

Mirjam Jonker

(she/her)

Systemic Counsellor & Psychodynamic Counsellor

Verified by It's Complicated
Unavailable for new clients
Compassionate systemic counselling (German/ Dutch/ English): I provide a safe space to support you on your inner journey. Offering free initial consultation to explore your needs and see if we are a good fit.

I specialise in:

At a glance
Dachau, GermanyAvailable online only
Offers free 45 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from MirjamAt the moment not available for new clients. (Agenda full)
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

I have always been fascinated by what drives us in life, and what helps us to overcome difficulties: * Why do we do what we do? * Why do some people navigate life with ease, while others get stuck? * What makes a difference when trying to overcome crises? * What helps us grow? * What works well? To be of the best help for others, I’ve always believed that both life experienc and professional knowledge are key. My journey through various roles in personal and professional life, as well as living and working in different cultures, has deeply shaped my understanding of the human condition. Along the way, my knowledge of mental health has continuously deepened through both life and formal training.

I speak:

GermanDutchEnglish

Connect with me:

Location:

Dachau, Germany

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CoachingRecommended for those who want support and motivation to achieve personal or professional goals, often with a structured, goal-oriented approach.
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
Systemic ApproachRecommended for those who want to look at how different systems—like family, work, or society—affect their behavior and relationships.
Systemic: The idea that your challenges aren't just about you as an individual, but are deeply connected to the systems you live in, like your family or workplace. Instead of looking for "what's wrong with you", we explore the unconscious patterns and dynamics that happen between you and others. By understanding these connections, you can discover new ways to react and communicate that break old, stuck cycles. Systemic attitude: Any of your emotions, thoughts and reactions, however much you dislike them, in the end, they want the best for you. Let's see and find out what it is, and how we can work with them.

Experience

2022 Systemic Counsellor 2003 Medical Underwriter, insurance industry 2000 Editorial and executive assistant, newspaper 1995 Registered nurse, hospitals in Munich 1992 Nursing assistant, various healthcare institutes

Education

2020-2022 Systemic counselling (DGSF), MISW Munich, Germany 2002-2006 In-depth psychology-based psychotherapy, ZIST Penzberg, Germany 1989-1995 University of Applied Sciences for Nursing, Hogeschool Midden Nederland, The Netherlands Various workshops and seminars on topics including: managing personal and professional impact, diversity and development, self-esteem, conducting conversations with clients, time management, psychotherapeutic knowledge.

Services

Intro Call

Free 45 min Online

Individual Session

€60 1 hr Online

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€50 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Dachau, GermanyAvailable online only
Offers free 45 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Note from MirjamAt the moment not available for new clients. (Agenda full)
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours
Usually responds within 2 hours