It's Complicated

Kate Skuibida

Counsellor & Couples Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Delft, NetherlandsAvailable online only
Usually responds within 12 hours

About me

I am a psychoanalyst and systemic constellations facilitator with over 10 years of practice working with individuals and couples. More than 1,000 hours of psychoanalytic training and personal analysis, and a lived understanding that real change takes time, honesty, and a good working therapeutic alliance.

​I trained at the International Institute of Depth PsychologyI completed personal training analysis and supervised my clinical practice. I am a member of the Ukrainian Psychoanalytic Union, and am currently completing my International Systemic Family Constellations certification.

My work integrates psychoanalytic and systemic perspectives to support deep and meaningful transformation.

My training spans adult psychoanalytic practice, couples and family therapy, psychodynamic art therapy, child and adolescent psychoanalysis, transgenerational and trauma-informed work, somatic experiencing, integrative work with family systems, family constellations, and depth-oriented organizational consulting.

I am deeply grateful to all my clients for the experience we've shared, which gives me a lasting appreciation for structure, systems, and the ways in which individuals, couples, families, and organizations carry their own unconscious dynamics.


I remain curious, surprised, and often profoundly moved, even sometimes mesmerized, by the divine beauty of the psyche and systemic wisdom, by the way it can turn into something qualitatively new with such fluidity, grace, intelligence, being a creative force itself.

All of this background shapes how I work: with attention to what lies beneath, and care for the whole person sitting across from me, their system and relations.

Education & Training

  • Diploma of Advanced Training in Psychoanalysis from "International Institute of Depth Psychology"

  • Master's Degree, Kharkiv Humanitarian University

  • Ukrainian Psychoanalytic Union - registered member

  • International Systemic Family Constellations Certification (ongoing)

  • Specialisations: non-neurotic structures, couples & family therapy, psychodynamic art therapy, Borderline & Narcissistic Structures and Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP), SFBT, child & adolescent psychoanalysis, Emotion-Focused Therapy, psychoanalytic coaching, business and organisational consultation

I speak:

EnglishRussian

Location:

Delft, Netherlands

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Couples therapySupport for couples working through problems and who want to gain insight into the relational dynamics that contribute to the problem.
Psychotherapy Recommended for those who want to work through emotional or mental health challenges by talking with a trained psychotherapist.
Systemic therapyRecommended for those who want to understand how their relationships and environments influence their behavior and emotions, particularly within family or organizational systems.

For me it is all about a kind presence and a safe space, where people come and work with their issues without any judgement, in a respectful manner. I often serve as a “compassionate companion” on the journey of self-exploration, using the psychoanalytic process and family constellation techniques to help connect past experiences with present feelings and behaviors. We explore thoughts, feelings, memories, dreams, body sensations to uncover unconscious dynamics and patterns. So to understand them. This understanding launches the necessary movement, which then changes the dynamics. I always integrate somatic, bodily experience into the work because our body never lies: no matter what ambitions or ideas we may have we can always check them with our body if it is good or bad for us. When we do constellations online we may use different tools like wooden dolls, pieces of paper, felt floor markers, etc., but most often I would accompany the clients in their therapeutic “walk” in the imaginary field, where with my meditative support they move step by step, visualizing, deeply feeling, sensing their bodies, naming and talking through everything that happened and needs to be uncovered in order to be healed. Such a process powerfully reveals hidden entanglements, family dynamics and open a path to change. Throughout, I blend depth (psychoanalysis, constellations) with practical tools (mindfulness, grounding, gentle movement, somatic experience) so that the work feels balanced and healing. My ultimate goal is to help you gain insight, resilience and freedom – in your relationships, love and work and within yourself – by transforming old loyalties and stories into the narrative that you feel is truly yours.

Services

Individual Session

€70 1 hr Online
What People Come With: Relationship & couple difficulties - conflict, distance, repetitive patterns, trust Family dynamics - estrangement, loyalty conflicts, difficult inheritance of roles or stories Transgenerational trauma - family secrets, unresolved grief, patterns that "don't belong to you" Anxiety, depression, emotional exhaustion - including burnout Grief and loss - bereavement, endings, major life transitions

Couples Session

€120 1 hr 30 min Online
Couples Therapy session is a safe, non-judgmental space to find a way to uncover and talk through, really hear yourself and your partner. What is motivating you two and drives you mad? See what is beneath the conflict or creates distance and bad dynamics, and rebuild the trust and connection you’re both reaching for.

Family Constellation

€120 1 hr 30 min Online
Family Constellation is a guided journey into the imaginary field of your family system or whatever you are dealing with, it may be your trauma or an important question in your business or relationships, unresolved losses, psychosomatics, difficult issues etc. You will be able to see hidden dynamics, loyalties. This opens a path to healing and freedom from old entanglements so you can see wider and find peaceful resolution.

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Delft, NetherlandsAvailable online only
Usually responds within 12 hours

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