It's Complicated

Melisa Nohadani-Rafie

Clinical Psychologist & Non-medical Practitioner for Psychotherapy

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Available for new clients
In our work together we explore that which keeps you stuck through a blend of psychoanalytic, humanistic and mindfulness-based approaches.

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At a glance
Frankfurt, GermanyAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's Complicated200+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

I’m Melisa, German-raised with Armenian and Iranian roots, and I studied Psychology in Amsterdam, an international city that taught me both the gifts and the aches of living abroad. There, I deepened a steady meditation practice and learned about the powers of our mind within and beyond lecture halls.

Through friends I discovered icebathing and the Wim Hof Method which lead me to researching the psychology of ice baths, breathwork, and meditation alongside Wim Hof. Here, I deepened my understanding of the mind-body connection and how much influence we actually have on our own wellbeing. Later on, I returned to Germany for a Master’s in Clinical Psychology with a psychoanalytic orientation. I was mesmerized by theories of our unconscious mind and how much our unconscious influences our day to day life. With the curiosity that woke up within me, I ran a study in New York City with the American Psychoanalytic Association on how meditation shapes therapists’ clinical work in spring 2025.

Grounded in my own experience of meditation and breathwork, my approach blends Eastern philosophy with Western psychology. With warm compassion and curiosity cultivated through my own practices, I readily hold a safe space for you to explore yourself with compassion and a curious mind.
Our work together is a journey of reconnecting to an authentic, gentle strength within, that allows you to show up more authentically and alive in this world.

I speak:

EnglishGerman

Location:

Frankfurt, Germany

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Clinical psychologyRecommended for those who need help with diagnosing and treating more complex mental health issues, often involving assessments and evidence-based treatments.
Humanistic psychologyRecommended for those looking for a therapy that emphasizes personal growth and self-fulfillment, focusing on becoming your best self in a positive, non-judgmental space.
PsychoanalysisRecommended for those who want to explore how their unconscious mind and early experiences affect their current behaviors and feelings.
What we focus on in treatment is to cultivate a compassionate relationship to yourself, which allows all feelings to come to surface. We explore your shadows, such as self-harming patterns, emotions that are fearfully avoided, or ruminations. We dive into topics that are less comfortable in a safe space, and take a closer look to what hides underneath them. Once we shine light upon our shadows, we do not need to cling to them anymore, and can live on more freely and lively.

My techniques are drawn from classical psychoanalysis, such as dream work and free association, person-centered therapy as well as Mindfulness Therapy. This blend of techniques allows us to dive into topics of the past that still hold a grip on you, such as your childhood, and come back to the present moment for integration and release.

Experience

200+ sessions on It's Complicated
Private Practice Psychological Counseling (2025)
Research Stay (Psychoanalysis and Meditation) in New York City at the American Psychoanalytic Association (April -July 2025)
Psychologist at IPU outpatient clinic Berlin - intern (2024-2025)
Research Assistant at International Psychoanalytic University Berlin (2024)
Project Manager and Counselor for Aktion gegen den Hunger (2023)
Project Manager and Counselor for Amnesty International Germany (2019-2022)

Education

Training in Internal Family Sytems (IFS) Therapy through Richard Schwartz (2025)
M.A. Clinical Psychology International Psychoanalytic University (2023-2025)
Mandala Method Certification (Level 1) - Tibetan Buddhist Visualization Technique (2025)
Psychological Research Assistent Innerfire (Wim Hof Method) (2022-2023)
B.Sc. Psychology Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam (2019-2022)

Services

Intro Call

Free 15 min Online

Individual Session

€100 50 min Online

Insurances

Private PayPrivate Insurance
At a glance
Frankfurt, GermanyAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's Complicated200+ sessions on It's Complicated
Offers free 15 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours
Next available: May 26