I retrained fairly late in life which I feel has given me a good grounding in the issues we face as individuals and/or as part of a couple and I use this experience to be able to relate to my clients. In my free time I like to dance (wholeheartedly and anywhere), read books and just generally enjoy all that life can bring and it is this enthusiasm for my life that I try to pass on in empowering others to do the same.
My style of counselling is best described as conversational and integrative. I know how hard it can be for clients to confide in strangers, even professional counsellors like myself, so I make the process as easy and as relaxed as possible whilst also working with clients to challenge their own narrative. Clients say that they really appreciate the fresh and honest approach I take to counselling and the support I provide whilst they make the changes it brings.
I recognise everyone's beliefs are different and I offer a safe, confidential space to be listened to. Sometimes just this in itself is enough for someone to organise and verbalise their thoughts in order that they can move on. But sometimes the issues are more deep routed and need bringing to the surface before we can deal with them. This may require more thought provoking work with a client. Sometimes however people do have an insight into themselves and why they feel the way they do but again do not know how to move on. I work closely and gently with clients to achieve change in order for their quality of life to improve. Sometimes this does involve challenging beliefs held and dealing with negative thoughts in a practical way and I support clients as they develop new skills to make the changes they want.
I genuinely enjoy working with clients as everyone, as well as their issues, are different and this ensures that I stay fresh and relevant in my thinking and skills.
I can't, and don't, promise miracles. I can however promise honesty, respect and an open mind as well as my skills as a counsellor. I also recognise that some clients may not be ready to fully deal with some issues yet but even in those cases the client will always have more insight into themselves at the end of the sessions than they expected to at the start. And when they are ready they will find it easier to know how to do that.