It's Complicated

İrfan Darcan

Couples Therapist & Psychological Counsellor

Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients
In my work, I aim to increase the emotional intelligence of my clients, showing them how to embrace their "demons", as there is no such thing as a bad emotion.

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At a glance
Istanbul, TurkeyAvailable online only
Last active
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Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

Irfan Darcan, a couples therapist living in Istanbul, Turkey. I’ve been working with couples and individuals since December 2016. While working with couples, my aim is to create better lasting relationships and heal the ones that may seem beyond repair. I have been using the Gottman Couples Therapy Method in this regard, and I’m the kind of therapist that focuses on emotions first.

While working with individuals, I must say that I personally enjoy defeating anxiety, in any way shape or form it presents itself with my clients. I have received several trainings in dealing with trauma as well, so I can add that trauma and/or stress management is another one of my strong suits.

I speak:

EnglishTurkish

Location:

Istanbul, Turkey

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
Psychotherapy Recommended for those who want to work through emotional or mental health challenges by talking with a trained psychotherapist.
As a therapist who comes from a shattered family himself, I understand full well on how important it is to deal with childhood trauma. That is the reason why I focus working with couples, as the key to prevent childhood trauma is to heal the relationship between the parents. As a certified emotion coach, I can help my clients become better parents as well.

I believe therapy should be a fun learning experience, so no matter what ails you, I’m confident in my abilities as a therapist to show you the silly part in the things that terrify you.

Experience

9 years in practice
2016 - Today: Freelance Psychotherapist

Education

2004-2013 - Koç University, B.A. of Psychology

February 2014 - Gottman Therapy, Level 1 Training given by Expert Psychologist Filiz Kaya

May 2015 - Imago Couples Therapy, Level 1 Training given by Harville Hendrix Ph.D., Helen LaKelly Hunt Ph.D.

March 2016 - Family Counsellor Certificate, Training given by Expert Psychologist Neylan Özdemir

December 2016 - Gottman Therapy, Level 2 Training given by Expert Psychologist Filiz Kaya, Expert Psychologist Özge Altan Aytun

October 2022 - Partner Violence Workshop, given by Julie & John Gottman, Carrie & Don Cole, Gökhan Oral, Duygu Bağa, Ceren Küpeli, Filiz Kaya Ataklı, Özge Altan Aytun.

October 2022 - Treating Affairs and Trauma: Helping Couples Heal and Rebuild Trust, given by Dr. Julie Gottman, Dr. John Gottman

January 2023 - Gottman Therapy, Level 3 Training given by Expert Psychologist Filiz Kaya, Expert Psychologist Özge Altan Aytun

February 2023 - Emotion Coaching Training given by Expert Psychologist Filiz Kaya, Expert Psychologist Özge Altan Aytun

November 2023 - PACT Level 1 Training (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy), given by
Eda Arduman, MA.

Services

Individual Session

US$60 1 hr Online

Couples Session

US$90 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private Insurance
At a glance
Istanbul, TurkeyAvailable online only
Last active
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours
Next available: May 24