Matija Pajer

Hi, I’m Matija. I am a psychoanalytic psychotherapist working with adults and adolescents who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in difficult relationship patterns.

Many of the people I work with struggle with anxiety, depression, emotional instability, or painful relationship dynamics — especially in situations involving separation, high-conflict partners, or co-parenting stress. Some feel they have “lost themselves” in relationships and want to regain clarity, stability, and a stronger sense of self.

My approach is grounded in psychoanalytic psychotherapy, which means I don’t focus only on symptoms, but on understanding the deeper patterns behind them. I also integrate insights from neuroscience to better understand how emotions, stress, and relationships affect the mind and body.

I have experience working with individuals involved in relationships with borderline and narcissistic personality structures, as well as with those navigating demanding interpersonal and family situations.

Therapy with me is not about quick advice or surface solutions. It is a process where we work together to understand what is happening beneath the surface — so that meaningful and lasting change becomes possible.

If you are considering therapy, you are welcome to reach out.

2018 - present - private practice in Ljubljana 2016 - present - psychological and psychosocial support at Triglav Insurance Company Ltd., Ljubljana 2009 - 2015 - Psychotherapist at Open Institute for Psychotherapy, Ljubljana

2022 - present - Clinical group in Neuropsychoanalysis - NPSA 2011 - 2020 - Cognitive Neuroscience at the University of Vienna and University of Ljubljana 2009 - 2013 - Psychoanalytic psychotherapy specialization at SFU Ljubljana 2006 - 2014 - Psychotherapy at Sigmund Freud University Vienna 2008 - 2010 - Multimedia production at Middlesex University of London 2005 – 2008 - Multimedia engineering at IAM, Ljubljana 1994 - 2000 - Faculty of Medicine at the University of Ljubljana