It's Complicated

Sílvia Oliveira

(she/her)

Clinical Psychologist

Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients
A human seeking to help other humans drop the struggle with pain and suffering. Helping you navigate ADHD, anxiety, stress, and relationships, through practical tools and a safe, relaxed space.

I specialise in:

At a glance
Murtosa, PortugalAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years and 2110+ sessions on It's Complicated
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

Hello and welcome! My name is Sílvia and I am a clinical psychologist based in Murtosa, Portugal. I started my career by working with university students, followed by a couple of years working with children and teenagers, and gradually became a full-time therapist for adults from a wide range of backgrounds. It wasn’t all smooth sailing, though; after finishing my degree in 2015, life took me in other directions. I worked for a few years in fields unrelated to psychology before returning to my passion: helping others improve their experience of this weird thing called "living." It was quite a ride to get to where I am, but today, I run my own private practice, where I’ve supported clients through a wide range of challenges. In 2025 alone, I conducted over 1,500 sessions, helping people manage anxiety, regulate emotions, improve relationships, build self-esteem, and reconnect with a sense of direction and meaning in their lives. I’ve also developed a particular interest in ADHD (Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder), helping many clients make sense of long-standing struggles through assessment, diagnosis, and practical strategies tailored to their daily lives. There was a time when all of this sounded like nothing but a dream; like my goals were unreachable. All I felt was a deep struggle with anxiety, frustration, and a whole range of other difficult emotions that didn't help my situation at all. Maybe that feeling sounds familiar to you... If it does, let's work together. I am confident that, as a team, we'll find a path that makes sense!

I speak:

EnglishPortuguese

Location:

Murtosa, Portugal

Approach

Treatment Approaches
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment TherapyRecommended for those who want to stop fighting negative thoughts and learn how to live with more acceptance and focus on what really matters in life.
CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
CFT: Compassion-Focused TherapyRecommended for those who want to be kinder to themselves and reduce negative self-talk, often using mindfulness techniques.
At this point, you certainly have some questions about practical matters. What approach do I use? How does a therapy session with me actually work? How long will you need to be in therapy for? You can find answers to these questions, and more, below. ➡️ What approach do you use? My practice is integrative and informed by evidence-based therapies, mostly Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Recently, I’ve been developing my skills in Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and so I also integrate some concepts and strategies of these into my work. All these approaches are structured and practical, meaning that we will try to develop actionable tools and strategies that you can apply to your life daily. Approaches and strategies aside, my main focus is on making therapy a relaxed space where you can feel comfortable, express yourself, and make sense of the challenges you are facing. ➡️ What topics can you help me with? Most of my practice is dedicated to adult ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder), from diagnosing it to structuring effective interventions to help you better manage its symptoms. Many clients come to me suspecting ADHD after years of feeling like (or being told that) they’re “not quite reaching their potential”. You might notice ongoing difficulties with focus, organization, time management, or follow-through; perhaps you start things with enthusiasm but struggle to finish them, feel easily distracted, or constantly overwhelmed by everyday responsibilities. You may also experience restlessness, impulsivity, emotional ups and downs, or a persistent sense of frustration and self-criticism. Sometimes ADHD can also show up as chronic procrastination, burnout, or feeling like you have to work twice as hard just to keep up. If any of this feels familiar, an assessment can help bring clarity and direction, whether that leads to a diagnosis or simply a better understanding of how your mind works and how to support it more effectively. I also work quite extensively with: • anxiety (overthinking, constant worry, difficulty switching off, and feeling on edge much of the time) • stress and burnout (feeling overwhelmed, drained, or stuck in a cycle of low motivation, poor focus, and constant fatigue; not deriving the same motivation or fulfillment from work that you used to, and feeling disconnected from it) • relationships (improving communication, setting boundaries, understanding recurring patterns, or navigating the path toward building a relationship) • self-confidence and self-esteem (working through self-doubt, harsh self-criticism, and learning to build a more stable, compassionate sense of self) ➡️ What can I expect from my first session? In our first session, we’ll take some time to understand what’s bringing you in and what you’d like to get out of therapy. This usually includes: • Exploring your current struggles in more detail and what led you to seek support at this point; • Looking at what you’ve already tried to do to tackle these struggles, including what has or hasn’t been helpful: • Discussing any previous experience you may have had with therapy; • Clarifying your expectations and the kind of changes you’d like to see in your life; • I’ll also walk you through how my approach works and how I think it can support you. ➡️ How does therapy usually work in terms of frequency and duration? In the beginning, we usually aim to meet weekly, or at least fortnightly (every other week). Weekly sessions are generally recommended, as they help us build momentum, develop the therapeutic relationship more effectively, and tend to support more consistent progress. That said, I understand that life doesn’t always allow for a weekly commitment, and meeting every other week is absolutely okay. There’s no set duration for therapy, as it depends on your goals and what you’d like to work through. We’ll regularly check in on how things are progressing and decide together what feels most helpful. When you feel you’ve gotten what you needed from therapy, we can explore whether it’s the right time to step away. If you’ve made it this far, chances are something here resonated! Feel free to reach out, I’d be really glad to hear from you.

Experience

2110+ sessions on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years at It's Complicated
PSYCHOLOGYST Private practice, online ADN Saúde, Portugal PSYCHOLOGYST (TRAINEE) University Health Centre (CSU) | University of Aveiro, Portugal

Education

University Degrees (University of Aveiro, Portugal) 2013 - 2015 | Master's degree in Health Psychology and Neuropsychological Rehabilitation 2013- 2014 | Specialization in Clinical and Health Psychology 2010-2013 | Bachelor's degree in Psychology Trainings & Certifications Adult ADHD, Diagnostic and Intervention - Rita da Gama Ferreira, Psychologist ACT for Beginners - Psychwire (Russ Harris) Trauma-Focused ACT - Psychwire (Russ Harris) ACT for ADHD - Psychwire (Russ Harris) ACT for Depression and Anxiety Disorders - Psychwire (Russ Harris) ACT for Perfectionism and People Pleasing - Psychwire (Russ Harris) DBT Skills - Psychwire (Marsha Linehan) Emotional Distress Management - National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine Applying Attachment Theory in Clinical Practice - Linda Cundy, PESI UK Intervention with LGBTQ Individuals - OPP Intervention in Domestic Violence Situations - OPP Intervention with Refugees and Asylum Seekers - OPP Psycho-oncology: assessment and intervention - Cognos

Services

Individual Session

€50 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private PayReimbursement
At a glance
Murtosa, PortugalAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years and 2110+ sessions on It's Complicated
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours
Next available: Jun 29