Diana Calmes

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Psychotherapist & Psychological Psychotherapist

Verified by It's Complicated
Available for new clients

I see my mission in helping people come closer to their inner truth and through it find more clarity and stability inside. Thanks to extensive CBT training, I am especially effective in treating OCD and anxiety disorders

I specialise in:

At a glance
Philadelphia, United StatesAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years and 560+ sessions on It's Complicated
Note from DianaI am currently not available for new
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

Since my undergraduate studies, I have been especially interested in the mechanisms of psychological trauma. I’ve witnessed survivors of war and torture confront the consequences of trauma and gradually reclaim their lives. I know that our neurobiology is wired to help us heal—but sometimes, professional support is needed to activate and guide those natural healing processes.

In my trauma work, I integrate psychodynamic therapy, EMDR, and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to offer a comprehensive and individualized approach.

Thanks to my extensive CBT training, I can offer an effective treatment to anxiety-related conditions such as social anxiety, panic attacks, obsessive-compulsive symptoms (OCD), and chronic worry. Dealing with anxiety can feel exhausting and overwhelming—one might feel being stuck in a suffocating space controlled by fear. The important thing to know is that a way out exists, and most people can walk it with professional support.

Another area of my professional focus is relationships - with oneself and with others. I believe that the quality of our lives is deeply connected to the quality of our relationships. Often, patterns formed in the past shape the way we relate to others—sometimes without our awareness. In therapy, I support clients in uncovering unconscious relational patterns so they can gain clarity, strengthen their sense of self, and explore new, more fulfilling ways of being with others.

On a more personal note — after living in three different countries - in Asia, Russia and Germany - I am now settled in the United States with my husband and our young daughter.

I speak:

RussianEnglishGerman

Location:

Philadelphia, United States

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CBT: Cognitive behavioural therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
EMDRRecommended for those dealing with trauma who want to process painful memories in a structured way to reduce their emotional impact.
Psychodynamic therapyRecommended for those looking to explore their emotions deeply and understand how past experiences shape their present life.

In my work, I draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), as well as psychodynamic and trauma-informed approaches. This means I can offer you practical, evidence-based tools to help manage immediate challenges, while also gently guiding you through a deeper exploration of the roots behind them.

The better you understand yourself, the more freedom you will have to choose new, more satisfying paths in life. Thus, deeper healing that goes beyond short-term relief will be possible.

Although I gladly share all the therapy tools I’ve gathered over the years, our therapy process will never be about any specific technique, but about you.

More than anything, I believe that positive change in therapy becomes possible on the basis of an authentic, supportive, and trustful therapeutic relationship. Sometimes, we just need a supporting hand to be able to find our unique way in life.

Experience

11 years in practice560+ sessions on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years at It's Complicated

2025 - now: Member at Psychoanalytic Center of Philadelphia

2024- present: Mentoring and supervision of new colleagues in the center for traumatized refugees and torture survivors

2022 - present: Psychotherapy and counseling in private practice

2019 - 2022: Psychologist at a psychosocial center for traumatised refugees and torture survivors at refugio e.V. (traumatherapy)

2019 – 2022: Psychotherapist at the Institute for cognitive behavior therapy (outpatient treatment for depression, anxiety, OCD, personality disorders etc.)

2019: Psychologist at the Center for Mental Health, day-clinic and inpatient psychiatric treatment (Thüringen Kliniken): affective, psychotic and personality disorders.

2018 – 2019 Psychologist at the University Clinic for Psychiatry und Psychotherapy in Jena, day-clinic and inpatient psychiatric treatment: crisis intervention, severe personality disorders.

2016 – 2017 Social work, support with people suffering from chronic mental health disorders Aktion Wandlungwelten e.V.

Education

2025 - EMDR Training I and II

2024-2025 Fellow at Psychoanalytic Center of Philadelphia

2023 - 2024 Post-graduate Studies, Capella University, USA

2022 - Certification in Online Counseling, Sigmund Freud Universität, Vienna

2017 - 2022 Licensure in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Ausbildung und Approbation in Verhaltenstherapie. Friedrich Schiller Universität, Jena, Germany

2015 - 2017 M.Sc. Clinical Psychology and Psychotherapy. Friedrich Schiller Universität, Jena, Germany

2011 - 2015 B.Sc. Psychology, Cologne University, Germany

Services

Individual Session

€95 50 min Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Philadelphia, United StatesAvailable online only
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedOver 2 years and 560+ sessions on It's Complicated
Note from DianaI am currently not available for new
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours
Next available: Jul 4