It's Complicated

Melissa Abecassis

Coach

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Stockholm, SwedenAvailable online only
Usually responds after 24 hours

About me

Hello there!

A bit about me, the word multi has coloured my life, from growing up multi-lingual and multi-cultural to having lived a multi-national life which has included the UK, Sweden and Israel&Palestine (the Westbank).

It help me gain perspective on the many bubbles that exist in our world. I have met and lived with people who have complete different backgrounds to me which has skilled me in adaptation and deep empathy for the multitude of human stories.

My life experience has allowed me to see our common ground as humans, we all have stories to tell and all have a voice that needs to be heard. We just need to find our unique way to share it.

'What doesn't transform, tranfers'

I speak:

EnglishFrenchSwedish

Location:

Stockholm, Sweden

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CoachingRecommended for those who want support and motivation to achieve personal or professional goals, often with a structured, goal-oriented approach.
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
Couples therapySupport for couples working through problems and who want to gain insight into the relational dynamics that contribute to the problem.
Performing arts medicine
Systemic approachRecommended for those who want to look at how different systems—like family, work, or society—affect their behavior and relationships.

Empathy, Empathy, Empathy is always the first touch point of how I meet all my clients, wether as individuals, couples or groups. I give a lot of space to really deeply listen and understand where my clients are at and the move towards weaving what we need to work on.

The foundation of how I work is in relational intelligence. Which is needed to navigate our very complex experience of being human. I support clients (Individuals, pairs or groups) to build skills and tools to hold the conflicts that exist within ourselves, each other and how we relate to the world we live in.

I work systemically with clients, meaning that in the sessions we invite multiple perspectives and learn how to hold the varies parts that exist in us and between each other. Finding the way to pulse in the relational dynamics.

We start with untangling our inner experience to gain clarity and understanding of the various parts that exists within us or between the two humans that need support. From there we can get a richer comprehension and choose the relationship we wish to have to ourselves, each other and the world we live in.

Services

Individual Session

€75 1 hr Online

Couples Therapy

€120 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Stockholm, SwedenAvailable online only
Usually responds after 24 hours

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Next available: Sep 23