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Mattaya Parker

Psychologist & EMDR Counsellor

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I am a Canadian counselling professional based in the Netherlands, specializing in EMDR therapy for trauma, anxiety, and addiction, while also supporting clients worldwide through personalized counselling.

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At a glance
The Hague, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

I’m a Canadian living in the Netherlands since 2018. With a background in psychology and anthropology from the University of British Columbia, I’ve been working in the counselling field since 2015—starting on a crisis line and later earning my Master’s in Counselling Psychology. My goal has always been to create a practice where I can help people navigate change and growth in their lives.

At the heart of my approach is a commitment to openness, empathy, and non-judgment. I strive to create a safe, inclusive space for people of all backgrounds, identities, and orientations. I am continuously learning—about people, the world, and evolving counselling practices—to ensure I provide the best support possible.

I deeply believe in two seemingly contradictory truths:

“Understanding heals agony.”

and

“I understand that I cannot understand.”

To me, this means I will always seek to understand my clients in order to support them, while also recognizing that their experiences are uniquely their own. My role is to walk alongside them, offering guidance, validation, and a space to be truly heard.

I speak:

English

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Location:

The Hague, Netherlands

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
EMDRRecommended for those dealing with trauma who want to process painful memories in a structured way to reduce their emotional impact.
My approach is compassionate, client-centered, and solution-focused, creating a safe space for personal growth and healing. I integrate EMDR therapy with practical strategies to help clients navigate trauma, anxiety, and life’s challenges. With a focus on emotional resilience, time management, and self-awareness, I empower clients across all cultures as well as adapt to neurodivergent needs.

Experience

6 years in practice
I have been running my own practice since 2020 and have worked with a whole host of clients. Having started during the pandemic, I was privileged enough to learn a lot, and fast. I was able to gain hands on unique experience that has more than prepared me to handle a variety of different clients with different challenges ranging from Grief, Depression and Anxiety, to ADHD/ASD and Addiction.

Education

I hold a Master's in Counselling Psychology, with a focus on CBT, and anxiety. Additionally, I have completed training in EMDR therapy and other evidence-based counselling techniques to support clients effectively. My academic background, combined with years of hands-on experience, allows me to provide a well-rounded, client-centered approach to therapy.

Services

Intro Call

Free 20 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

€100 50 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€80 50 min Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
The Hague, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 2 hours
Next available: May 25