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Nikolaos Malafekas

Psychologist

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Professional and compassionate psychological care, grounded in evidence-based therapeutic approaches and tailored to the individual. Member of the Nederlands Instituut van Psychologen (NIP).

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At a glance
Utrecht, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
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Usually responds after 24 hours

About me

I am Nikolaos, a registered psychologist and member of the Dutch Institute of Psychologists(NIP) with an international educational background. Originally from Greece, I have lived in Germany, the United States, and currently the Netherlands. My interest in psychology developed during my years as a professional basketball player, where I experienced firsthand how pressure, stress, and performance demands can affect mental health and overall functioning. These experiences motivated me to pursue psychology in order to better understand psychological processes and to support others facing similar challenges. I began my academic training in the United States, completing a bachelor’s degree in Psychology at the University of California, Irvine. I later continued my education in Europe, completing a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology at Erasmus University Rotterdam in the Netherlands. I view therapy as a collaborative process in which individuals are given space to be heard and understood, while also being supported and appropriately guided. In my work, I value a balanced approach that integrates psychodynamic therapy with evidence-based methods such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I believe there is no single approach that fits everyone, and that psychological care should always be tailored to the individual.

I speak:

EnglishGreek

Location:

Utrecht, Netherlands

Approach

Treatment Approaches
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment TherapyRecommended for those who want to stop fighting negative thoughts and learn how to live with more acceptance and focus on what really matters in life.
CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
Psychodynamic therapyRecommended for those looking to explore their emotions deeply and understand how past experiences shape their present life.
In my work as a psychologist, I approach each individual as unique and aim to develop a therapeutic process that fits their specific needs and goals. Therapy often begins with a more structured and goal-oriented phase, drawing on principles from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify and understand patterns in thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and their interactions. This phase focuses on stabilization, insight, and practical coping strategies. As therapy progresses, we may move toward a deeper exploration of underlying patterns, core beliefs, and relational themes. In this phase, I incorporate psychodynamic perspectives and elements from Schema Therapy, particularly when early experiences continue to influence present functioning. Throughout the process, I place strong emphasis on building a safe and trustworthy therapeutic relationship, where individuals feel supported in exploring themselves at their own pace.

Experience

• June 2025 - January 2026: Psychologist (internship) at a private psychotherapy practice in Utrecht, the Netherlands • March 2024 - May 2025: Research Assistant (internship) at Neuroscience of Addiction (NofA) lab • September 2019 - June 2021: Assistant Psychologist for the University Basketball Team

Education

• Master's degree in Clinical Psychology | Erasmus University Rotterdam Modules included: Addiction, Couples Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Personality Disorders, Severe Mental Illness and Recovery • Bachelor's degree in Psychology | University of California, Irvine Modules included: Abnormal Psychology, Developmental Psychology, Brain Disorders

Services

Intro Call

Free 30 min Online

Individual Session

€70 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Utrecht, NetherlandsAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds after 24 hours
Next available: May 25