It's Complicated

Marta Jankowska

(she/her)

Psychologist & Somatic Coach

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Warsaw, PolandAvailable online only
Usually responds after 24 hours

About me

I’m a holistic therapist and integrative counsellor supporting people who feel capable on the outside but overwhelmed on the inside. My work combines psychology with somatic and relational approaches, helping clients move out of overthinking and emotional masking and into greater regulation, clarity and authenticity. Before dedicating myself fully to therapeutic work, I spent several years in corporate and international environments. This shaped my understanding of burnout, pressure, high performance, emotional labour and the ways sensitive, self-aware people learn to function well while disconnecting from their own needs. My therapeutic background includes psychology, trauma-informed practice, somatic and embodiment work, foundations of Gestalt therapy, IFS-inspired parts work and basic hypnotherapeutic tools. I’m also an Authentic Relating trainer, which strongly informs how I work with relational patterns, boundaries and emotional presence. I see the body as an essential part of healing. Many of our experiences are held not only in memory, but in the nervous system. In sessions, we may work with gentle somatic awareness, grounding practices, emotional regulation tools or guided relaxation — always at a pace that feels safe and respectful of your system. My presence as a therapist is warm, steady, and attuned. I listen closely not only to what you say, but to what happens beneath the words. I don’t rush or push change — instead, I support you in noticing what’s already present and helping your system build capacity for feeling, relating, and living more fully. I often work with clients who are highly sensitive, thoughtful, and self-aware, yet often exhausted by the constant need for adaptation. Many struggle with anxiety, ADHD traits, people-pleasing, emotional overwhelm, or long-standing relational patterns. Some are navigating identity shifts, cross-cultural lives, or transitions that don’t fit neatly into language. I work online with clients across Europe and Asia, spanning multiple time zones. My practice is neurodivergent-affirming, LGBTQ+ affirming, and grounded in respect for your complexity. If you’re unsure where to start, you’re welcome to book a free 20-minute consultation — a gentle space to see if working together feels right and what kind of support would serve you best.

I speak:

EnglishPolish

Location:

Warsaw, Poland

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Holistic approachRecommended for those who want to address their mental health through a balanced focus on mind, body, and spirit.
Somatic coachingRecommended for those who want to use body awareness and movement to release emotional tension and promote personal growth.
Trauma Informed CareRecommended for those who have experienced trauma and need a safe, supportive space to heal at their own pace.
My approach is holistic, integrative and grounded in the belief that healing requires contact with the whole person — mind, body, history, relationships, inner parts, and the deeper layers that shape how we move through the world. I don’t work through one modality or a fixed method. Instead, I attune to what your system needs in each moment and weave together psychological insight, somatic awareness, relational depth and inner exploration. At the core of my work is the relationship between us. I see therapy as a co-created space where your nervous system can breathe differently — slower, safer, less guarded. The way we relate often reveals patterns that shape your life: how you adapt, protect yourself, shut down, people-please or overfunction. In our sessions, we bring curiosity to these patterns not to judge them, but to understand what they protect and what they long for. I hold the space with presence, warmth and honesty, so you can feel met rather than analysed, accompanied rather than managed. A central pillar of my practice is somatic and nervous-system–informed work. I pay close attention to how your body carries your story — the tension, numbness, activation, collapse, sensitivity, speed or stillness that appear long before the mind can explain why. Somatic exploration doesn’t require dramatic techniques; often it’s as simple as tracking your breath, noticing what tightens when you speak your truth, or feeling what softens when something is finally heard. Over time, this builds regulation, emotional capacity and a deeper sense of connection with yourself. I also integrate parts-based work (IFS-inspired), which helps illuminate the different inner voices and strategies that developed to keep you safe — the achiever, the caretaker, the critic, the overwhelmed child, the exhausted adult, the protector who doesn’t trust rest. Instead of trying to silence or fix these parts, we learn how to listen to them, understand what they need, and help them soften into more supportive roles. Many clients find immense relief in finally recognising their inner world not as chaos, but as a system that makes sense. My approach is additionally shaped by Gestalt foundations, Authentic Relating principles and gentle hypnotherapeutic tools. Gestalt informs how we return to the present moment, honour what is alive now, and recognise the patterns that appear between us. Authentic Relating influences the way I hold space — with transparency, relational sensitivity and an emphasis on genuine connection rather than performance. Hypnotherapeutic elements are used subtly to deepen focus, ease resistance and support relaxation or imagery work when helpful. Holistic therapy for me also means acknowledging the spiritual or contemplative dimension of human experience. Not as doctrine, but as an inner resource — intuition, meaning, presence, connection to something larger than the analytical mind. For many clients this dimension creates a sense of grounding and direction, especially during transitions, identity shifts or deep emotional work. I integrate these elements in a grounded, non-dogmatic way, only if it supports your process and aligns with your worldview. Sessions with me are spacious, collaborative and deeply attuned. Sometimes we explore emotions and narratives; sometimes the body leads; sometimes a part needs attention; sometimes the work is relational; and sometimes the most important moment is simply breathing in a way that feels safe. I follow your pace, honour your capacity, and support you in building internal permission to rest, feel, speak, expand and choose differently. Ultimately, my approach is about creating a space where all of you is welcome — your contradictions, your intelligence, your sensitivity, your history, your longing for change, and the parts of you that don’t yet know how to trust it. We work with compassion, depth and curiosity, so you can develop a more regulated, authentic and integrated way of being in your life.

Services

Intro Call

Free 20 min Online
This free 20-minute consultation gives us a chance to meet, sense each other’s presence, and see whether working together feels right. You can share what brings you here, ask questions, and get an initial feel for my therapeutic style. I’ll help you identify what kind of support you may need and which of my sessions (holistic therapy, somatic work, boundaries, clarity work or ADHD screening) would be the best starting point. You don’t need anything special for this call — simply bring yourself.

Individual Session

€70 1 hr Online
Holistic Therapy Session A grounded, attuned space to explore what feels most present — stress, overwhelm, burnout, ADHD challenges, people-pleasing, emotional patterns or relational difficulties. I blend psychological insight with gentle somatic awareness, grounding practices and parts-informed work, helping you slow down, regulate and understand yourself with more clarity. If you’re unsure which session to book, feel free to start with the free 20-minute consultation.

Individual Session

€170 2 hr Online
Adult ADHD Screening & Exploratory Session (DIVA-based) A structured, DIVA-based ADHD screening exploring attention, executive functioning, emotional regulation and lived experience. Includes a written summary report for your psychiatrist. Not a medical diagnosis. A structured, DIVA-based ADHD screening exploring attention, executive functioning, emotional regulation and lived experience. Includes a written summary report for your psychiatrist. Not a medical diagnosis.

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Warsaw, PolandAvailable online only
Usually responds after 24 hours

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Next available: May 26