I believe that all the troubles in relationship come from communication issues that leave us unheard, unseen, misunderstood, and in the end, - alone. What can be worse than feeling lonely while laying right next to your loved one? What can be more suffocating than not finding words to express what you truly feel? And when you do find those words, it feels like they crash over dead wall? You might have noticed yourself, how often a small argument escalates into an emotional fight, where the initial subject is forgotten and instead, you and your partner are running the vicios circle of proving who is right and who is wrong. In the end, that leads to even more distance and loneliness.
I specialize in helping couples regain trust after infidelity and build secure attachment by healing from different traumas, obtained from within or outside of the relationship. To do so, I use Emotionally-Focused therapy approach that helps to get rid of old patterns and replace them with new, more efficient. Emotionally-Focused therapy designed to guide couples into healthy relationship, that are built on trust, understanding, support, acceptance and validation.
Beside couple therapy, I work with individuals who suffer (-ed) from narcissistic abuse. My focus is on a relational way of working with one-to-one adult patients in long-term psychotherapy.