It's Complicated

MA (Clin Psych) Francois de Wet

Clinical Psychologist & EMDR Counsellor

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Available for new clients

Do you appear functional to others while privately feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or alone? Do you silently suffer from anxiety, depression, or something you cannot share? I might be your guy.

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Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
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About me

I imagine you as someone who is thoughtful, competent, and able to handle most challenges on your own. To the outside world—even to the people who know you best—you look like you have it all together, and your self-esteem is perfectly intact. But privately, you struggle in ways that few around you would ever suspect.

I specialize in high-functioning people, who tend to suffer secretly.

Maybe you are having a difficult time making sense of something that happened in your past, or coping with an undercurrent of anxiety, loneliness or insecurity. You might feel overwhelmed by the demands of work or a relationship, unable to free yourself from a compulsion or addiction. Or, perplexed by questions of an existential nature, you may find that the meaning and satisfaction life once held now seem to elude you.

Whatever is challenging you, you are welcome here just as you are, no matter your creed, background, or sexuality. My approach to therapy is warm, reflective, and non-judgmental. Bring it all. Bring it on. Together we can create a space free from prejudice and pressure, gain an authentic understanding of your situation, and work towards realistic solutions.

Before settling in Berlin, I worked across Africa, the Middle East, and the Far East, and have travelled to more than 60 countries. I’ve been around the block. Because not everything can be learned from books, I like to believe that these experiences help me understand people on a deep and uniquely personal level.

I hold two degrees in philosophy, which inform my approach through an existential lens.

I obtained my M.A. in Clinical Psychology from the International Psychoanalytic University Berlin and am accredited in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).

Rather than simply focusing on symptoms, we focus our enquiry into understanding your deeper emotional patterns and unconscious dynamics that influence how you relate to others, to yourself, and to the world.

Finding the right therapist matters. If what you've read here resonates with you, I invite you to get in touch.

One conversation is enough to know whether you feel understood—and whether meaningful change can begin here.

Schedule a free 20 minutes consultation here: 

https://francoisuqjp.setmore.com

I speak:

EnglishAfrikaansHausa

Location:

Schönhauser Allee 55, 10437 Berlin, Germany

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
CBT: Cognitive behavioural therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
EMDRRecommended for those dealing with trauma who want to process painful memories in a structured way to reduce their emotional impact.
Psychodynamic therapyRecommended for those looking to explore their emotions deeply and understand how past experiences shape their present life.

Depending on your needs, I draw from both psychoanalytic psychotherapy and EMDR. That can sound like a mouthful, but in more straightforward language, it means we work together to understand the deeper emotional patterns, past experiences, and how we relate to others (so-called “attachment styles”) that may be contributing to whatever challenges you are now facing.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based therapy endorsed by the World Health Organization for trauma treatment. It can also be very effective for panic, performance anxiety, stress, and addictions.

Therapy with me is collaborative, and we pace it according to your needs. Understanding your needs might actually prove to be an important part of the process — they are not always obvious. Some clients come because they are struggling through a specific crisis, while others seek a deeper understanding of themselves and the patterns shaping their choices.

If you feel that this approach resonates with you, let’s have a short, free introductory consultation. We can discuss what bothers you and then you can go and have a think. We might be a fit.

Follow the link to schedule:
https://francoisuqjp.setmore.com

I’m here and I'm ready when you are.

Experience

2023 Clinical Psychologist with private practice 2005 -2020 University Lecturer: Psychology, Philosophy

Education

2024 EMDR Certification 2023 M.A. Clin. Psych, Psychoanalytic University of Berlin 2003 B.A. Hon. Philosophy (with distinction), University of Pretoria 1999 B.A. University of Pretoria

Services

Individual Session

€85 50 min Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Berlin, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 4 hours
Usually responds within 4 hours