Chuy You PHOW LY
Systemic Therapist & Systemic Coach
Systemic Traumatherapy, Career Coaching & Soundhealing in Berlin. Facilitation of Transformation Process & work objectives, ressources, solutions, emotions, process, body & movements oriented. Français, Deutsch, English.
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About me
Together we'll dialog & work on aspects of your life you want to clarify, change, find solutions/strategies for or heal. You set your goals. I facilitate & hold the space you need to be/ feel/ move/ express/ experiment/ rehearse/ learn & grow. Give yourself time to find anchor, to create safe space & to (re)design your life.
Topics:
- COUNSELING: daily life conflicts, relationship, decision, stress, challenges, changes, habits, selfdiscovery, life purpose, grief/loss, HSP/HP, EAP.
- COACHING: Career & Business Growth.
- THERAPY: trauma (transgenerational, shock, childhood, social, racism...) - depression, burn out, anxiety, ADHD.
- SUPPORTIVE: psychosis, bipolar, borderline, addiction, eating disorders.
- SOUNDHEALING: Individual or Group
How? Live + Walk&Talk + Online. Where? Berlin (Prenzlauer Berg/Park) Sliding scale: 70-80€ (60 min) // Couple: 85€-100€ (60 min) Low Income: 65€ (60 min) // Couple: 80€ (60 minutes) Pay what feels comfortable according to your financial situation.
About me Before becoming a Therapist I used to work as Marketing & Communication Professional at global leading IT & High Tech companies. Then I founded my own business in Marketing & CSR Consulting & Translation (FR/DE/EN), while I was activist for Environment & Social Causes.
During my transformation process I came through many states of development that a human being encounters. I also tried many kind of techniques (Therapies, Spirituality, Body based techniques, Arts/Painting/Drawing/Music/Theater/Pantomime/Dance etc. with Facilitators & Therapists) which made me experiencing holistic effects and helped me to get to know myself better. Each experience I made as Individual, MarCom Professional and Therapist, benefits my Clients. In our session everything flows and is integrated smoothly.
Intuition, creativity applied to body, movement, meditation and arts are parts of my daily life.
I am curious about Social Entrepreneurship, Mushroom, Minimalistic Living & in Small Space. I am fascinated by Life and Nature.
Also visit: https://www.klangusystem.com (FR/DE)
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Location:
Media Gallery
Approach
SYSTEMIC and TRAUMA-informed Aiming at client's Growth/Empowerment/Self-determination/Autonomy. Based on principles like Circularity/ Reccurence/ Interdependence/ Reciprocity. Reality is considered as a construction, multidimensional & relative, depending on context & people's perspective. Our Body, Mind & Soul are intelligent. We do things for good reasons: HOW useful is a behavior (ex.: blockage/conflict)/mindset (ex.: confusion)/state (emotion) for a SYSTEM? What FOR? WHOM does it serve most? Is it STILL useful? Need a NEW way to deal with? Becoming aware of circular conflictual relationship & communication patterns w/family & social environment is essential. Mindsets & believes shape us. Changing them changes the way we see/do things. The smallest difference matters. We widen fields of actions by exploring possibilities & strategies. We co-find solutions by activating all Your resources (faculties, creativity, emotion, spirituality, resilience, network, strategy, self-/social & professional experiences). Each session is unique/an experiment. Trust Your Gut. I facilitate & go the path with you.
METHODS I use among many other creative ones: TRAUMA specific: EMDR, EFT, CIPBS, PITT/Ego state, Internal Parts, Somatic Experiencing (Body sensing and moving), focus on emotions/solutions and resources. connecting body-mind-emotions SYSTEMIC: circular questioning, context, reframing, metaphor, narrative, externalisation, genogram, (family) constellation, ...and many more creative ways to re-connect to yoursel: acceptance, Arts (drawing/picturing, imagination, sounds, play dough...) If necessary, we will find and develop together new techniques and methods!
I work Integrative, client-centered: breath, blink of eyes, gesture, facial, sound, movement & all other things, that no one hears or sees but feels and perceives, show who you are. I will resonate. I use Intuition, Creativity & my High Sensitivity as devices that I extend mindfully.
I like playing, improvising, experimenting with anything you share. Please join me & allow yourself to play like a Little Child again!
ATTITUDE: I am all-partisan, open & curious. You are my Inspiration. I give impulse. You know best what to do. You are the Expert, the Artist, Actress/Actor & Director. I facilitate. Your Life is in Your Hands.
Experience
PSYCHO-SOCIAL, SYSTEMIC, THERAPY FIELDS Since 2022 - EAP Counsellor (Freelance) Since 2017 - Systemic Counselling, Coaching & Traumatherapy at own practice in French, German, English (Berlin) Since 2015 - Soundhealing with Tao Lyra, selfmade cither, with groups & Individuals (Berlin) 2020 - 2020 - Jobcoach (Freelance & Employee): Coaching people with disabilities, migration background, displacement, psychiatric diagnosis, long-term unemployed (Berlin) 2017 - 2022 - Soundhealing with individuals & groups with/without psychiatric diagnosis at psycho-social institution (Kontakt- und Beratungsstelle) (Berlin) 2017 - Careworker at Occupational Center for psychological crisis. Structuring daily activities towards normal life (Berlin)
MARKETING & COMMUNICATION PROFESSIONAL 2002 - 2017 - Marketing Professional in the IT/High Tech sectors. a) 2009 - 2017:
- Freelance as Marketing-CSR Consultant & Texter/Translator FR/DE/EN in Berlin (Germany)
- Volunteering as Eco - & Social Activist/ supporting NGOs/NPOs with my Marketing and Communication skills, Member of JCI (Junior Chamber International) in Berlin (Germany) b) 2002 - 2009 - Employee as Market Analyst, MarCom Executive (F, BeNeLux, Italy), EMEA MarCom Program Manager for international IT- und High Tech market leaders (Paris, Francfort/Main, Munich)
IMPORT/EXPORT 2000 - 2001 - Export Assistant for French famous company from Fashion Industry (Woman Handbags), Paris (France)
Education
SYSTEMIC & THERAPY (HPG) 2027 - Certificate "Queer-Couple-Therapy" 2026 - Certificate Program in Traumatic Stress Studies with the Trauma Research Foundation (Bessel van der Kolk) 2026 - Certified "Systemic Coach", Wispo/DGSF/SystCert 2023 - 4 Workshops ("Love", "Will", Supervisions) on "Systemic Bodypsychotherapy", Gesellschaft für Systemische Therapie (Berlin) 2023 - Certified "Systemic Traumatherapist", Privates Institut für Systemische Therapie (Berlin) 2020 - Certified "Systemic Counselor", Systemische Gesellschaft (Berlin) 2019 - Licence Heilpraktikerin f. Psychotherapy/HPG (Berlin) 2013 - present - Bioenergetics - Self practice and supervision
DIVERSE 2017 - 2022 - Tai Chi with Sword (Beijing/Chen styles - 32, 42, 49, 50) 2014 - 2023 - Building Music Instruments (Child's Harp, Cither Tao Lyra, Kalimba) 2013 - present - Dances (Early Dances, impro/intuitive) 2013 - present - Intuitive Drawing & Painting 2005 - present - Theater/Theater of the Oppressed, Pantomine, Impro
ECONOMICS & MANAGEMENT STUDIES 2010 - 2011 - M.A. "Responsible Management" at ICRM Steinbeis Hochschule Berlin (Germany) 2001 - 2002 - Diplôme d'Etude Supérieure Spécialisée "Marketing Opérationnel International", Université Paris 10/Sup de Vente CCI Paris-Ile de France (France) 1995 - 2000 - Master of International Business Studies: "Commerce avec l'Asie - Chine", Université du Havre (France).
Services
Intro Call
Individual Session
Individual Session
Low Income
Couple
Insurances
