It's Complicated

Sandra Schauf

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Erftstadt, GermanyAvailable in-person and online

About me

For over 10 years, I have been guiding people as a psychologist. With a Bachelor's degree in Psychology focusing on Biological Psychology and subsequent Master's studies in Forensic Psychology, I have acquired a comprehensive education that allows me to view psychological phenomena from various perspectives.

Throughout my extensive work experience in a practice for psychiatry and neurology, I have gained valuable insights and engaged deeply with the challenges individuals face in difficult life situations. Since 2019, I have been working as an independent psychologist for family courts, serving as a legal representative for minors and as a psychological expert. My role involves supporting families in (high-conflict) situations and providing recommendations for the well-being of the children.

As a family counselor for separated families, I support families during challenging times. Separations can impose significant emotional burdens, and I am here to assist you and your children through this process, aiming to find the best possible solution while keeping the well-being of all parties in mind.

In 2021, I expanded my services to include therapeutic interventions using therapy dogs.

To provide you with even more flexibility and convenience, I offer psychological online counseling in many cases. This form of counseling allows you to receive support from any location and integrate the process of change into your busy everyday life.

I speak:

GermanEnglishDutchSpanish

Location:

50374 Erftstadt, Germany

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Family therapyRecommended for families who want to resolve conflicts, improve communication, and understand each other better within the family dynamic.

My career path and role as a legal representative for minors and psychological expert for family courts have provided me with profound insights into the dynamics and needs of separated families and high-conflict families. I have firsthand experience witnessing how complex family situations can affect the well-being of children and understand the importance of finding tailored solutions that prioritize the best interests of all involved.

With training in legal psychology, I am well-versed in the legal aspects of these challenging situations and can competently guide you through the process. My aim is to give family members a voice, understand their needs, and collaboratively find sustainable solutions.

Specializing in Biological Psychology has also equipped me with an understanding of the neurobiological foundations of stress and conflict. This allows me to help you cope with emotional strain and develop effective coping strategies.

I am actively working to create a safe and supportive environment for you, where each individual is heard and understood.

Contents of psychological counseling or therapy in separated families may include:

  • Difficult communication patterns (e.g., frequent arguing, feeling of talking past each other)
  • Thoughts of separation or already undergone separation
  • Feelings of alienation
  • Increased potential for conflict within the family structure
  • Dealing with grief & loss
  • Adjustment difficulties in a new role (e.g., marriage, separation, birth of a child, forming a blended family, single parenting)
  • Re-entry into the job market after a family-related break
  • Parent Coordination after separation (children's experiences, visitation arrangements, developing a collaborative parenting model)
  • Mental illness of the partner or the child
  • Legal disputes after separation
  • Initiating contact with the child/children after months or years of not seeing them
  • Developing a visitation plan
  • Supervised visitation

Services

Individual Session

€85 1 hr Online & In-person

Couple Session

€95 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private PayPrivate Insurance
At a glance
Erftstadt, GermanyAvailable in-person and online

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