It's Complicated

Vitalina Ustenko

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Kyiv, UkraineAvailable online and via text
Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

I always dreamed of becoming a psychologist. My first teachers were Dostoevsky, Hemmingway and London. From the age of 13 I started taking courses in psychology for teenagers and I am still in love with it.

Each person is an ensemble of all social relationships. I really enjoy helping to tune it out, to play a symphony so that everyone can feel the very "unbearable lightness of being"

I speak:

RussianEnglishUkrainian

Location:

Kyiv, Ukraine

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Couples therapySupport for couples working through problems and who want to gain insight into the relational dynamics that contribute to the problem.
EMDRRecommended for those dealing with trauma who want to process painful memories in a structured way to reduce their emotional impact.
Existential analysisRecommended for those who are searching for deeper meaning in life or are struggling with big questions about existence, freedom, and purpose.
Group therapyRecommended for those who want to work through their challenges in a supportive group setting and learn from others who share similar experiences.

Existentialism has always attracted and beckoned me through classical and modern literature, philosophy and religious studies. This method allows you to come face to face with yourself, to live the experience to the full. The themes are finding a foothold in life, finding a sense of "enjoying life", "having the right to be myself", the formation of meaning. These are basic, fundamental questions that help us to know not only "why? but also "why?" and stop asking ourselves that question.

Dialectical materialism allows for a holistic view of the individual, seeing him or her in interaction with society and the whole world on the move. Thanks to this approach, it is possible to identify the roots of the problem, to answer the question of "where" it came from, without getting hung up on eliminating the symptoms. For the same reason, I am close to attachment theory. With it, we can see the processuality of personality development regardless of age.

I use diagnostic tools, the latest research in evidence-based medicine and psychotherapy, but do not use teaching or training methods. Although mindfulness is one of the methods of behavioural psychotherapy, it also allows a gentle approach to encountering oneself.

A lot of emphasis is placed on aesthetics - discussing works of art, such as film, literature, music, paintings and making your own.

I decided to make a separate point about femoptics, namely to emphasise that I see and hear women regardless of their age, professional or worldview position.

Services

Individual Session

€80 1 hr Online

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€60 1 hr Online

Family Session

€95 1 hr Online

Group Session

€40 2 hr Online

Couples Session

€95 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Kyiv, UkraineAvailable online and via text
Usually responds within 2 hours

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