It's Complicated

Kathleen Emmanuel Wijaya

(she/her)

Psychologist

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Available for new clients

Hi! I'm Emma. My work is grounded in evidence-based approaches, focusing on empathy, early support, and helping clients make sense of their emotional experiences in a safe and supportive space.

I specialise in:

At a glance
Leiden, NetherlandsAvailable in-person, online and via text
Last active
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
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Usually responds within 4 hours

About me

I am originally from Indonesia and have been living in the Netherlands for the past four years. Having navigated life as an expat myself, I deeply understand the challenges that can come with relocating to a new country, such as identity shifts, cultural adjustment, loneliness, and the pressure to “hold it all together” while building a new life. This lived experience allows me to connect naturally with clients who feel caught between cultures or who struggle to feel fully understood. In addition, I have personal and professional experience working with questions around spirituality and meaning. Coming from a religious background, I have gone through a period of spiritual questioning and crisis, learning to explore my beliefs independently and to rediscover what feels authentic and grounding for me. This journey has shaped my sensitivity toward clients who are struggling with faith, meaning, identity, or inner conflict, and who may feel unsure where they belong. I value creating a space where these topics can be explored openly, without judgment.

I speak:

EnglishIndonesian

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Location:

Leiden, Netherlands

Approach

Treatment Approaches
ACT: Acceptance and commitment therapyRecommended for those who want to stop fighting negative thoughts and learn how to live with more acceptance and focus on what really matters in life.
Art therapyRecommended for those who feel more comfortable expressing emotions through creativity and want to explore their feelings through art rather than talking.
CBT: Cognitive behavioural therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.

My therapeutic approach is primarily grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). CBT helps clients recognize and understand patterns in thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, while ACT supports learning how to relate differently to difficult experiences, develop psychological flexibility, and move toward what truly matters to them. Together, these approaches offer both structure and compassion—helping clients gain insight while also building acceptance and resilience. Alongside these methods, I integrate creative elements such as art-based expression when appropriate. Art can serve as a powerful outlet, especially when emotions are difficult to put into words. The focus is not on creating something “perfect,” but on expression, awareness, and the courage to engage with what is present. I believe that acknowledging a problem and taking steps—however small—toward addressing it is already meaningful progress. Healing is not a linear process, but over time it can become deeply transformative. I place strong emphasis on honesty, collaboration, and trust within the therapeutic relationship. I encourage clients to be open at their own pace, and I aim to create a space where they feel safe, respected, and genuinely supported throughout their journey.

Experience

My clinical practice is dedicated to providing accessible, culturally sensitive support. During my residency at Utrecht University and my work with the MoodLift platform, I transitioned from theory to practice by conducting intake assessments and providing care for individuals navigating social anxiety, loss, and depression. I specialize in integrating CBT and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), turning evidence-based protocols into practical tools that help clients build the psychological flexibility needed to engage with the world more freely.

I have a profound passion for supporting the international and expat community. As a trilingual psychologist (English, Indonesian, and Dutch), I understand the unique stressors of living between cultures. To address this, I launched the Wellbeing Check-Up Program for the PPI student organization, providing a safe space for those facing culture shock, isolation, and burnout. Additionally, my work with @Ease sharpened my skills in early intervention, offering low-threshold support to young adults in moments of acute distress or social withdrawal.

My perspective is also informed by a deep understanding of the entire lifespan. Through my years with Emile Thuiszorg and Stichting Alzheimer Indonesia, I supported elderly clients and their families through the transitions of aging, grief, and cognitive decline. This experience taught me the importance of dignity and the "long view" of recovery. Today, I bring this diverse

Education

MSc in Clinical Psychology | Utrecht University 2024 – 2025 As a graduate of Utrecht University, my academic foundation is built on advanced clinical training in evidence-based modalities. I specialized in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), the treatment of Anxiety Disorders (with a particular focus on Social Anxiety), and the psychology of Loss and Psychotrauma. My Master’s thesis explored the intersection of religious coping, distress, and meaning-making, research that deeply informs my work today with clients navigating spiritual crises or identity shifts.

BSc in Psychology | Leiden University 2021 – 2024 During my undergraduate studies, I focused on Clinical and Health Psychology. My research, titled "The Friendship Formula," investigated the relationship between empathy and prosocial behavior in emerging adulthood. This provided me with a strong understanding of the developmental challenges and social dynamics faced by young adults and students.

Services

Intro Call

Free 30 min Online & In-person & Text

Individual Session

€60 1 hr Online & In-person & Text

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€50 1 hr Online & In-person & Text

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Leiden, NetherlandsAvailable in-person, online and via text
Last active
Offers free 30 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 4 hours
Next available: Jul 15