It's Complicated

Alan Bordeville

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
London, United KingdomAvailable online only

About me

Dear Friend,

If you’re fed up with feeling like something in your life isn’t working…

And you’d like to feel like yourself again…

Then this will be the most important listing you ever read.

Are your days filled by constant stress, endless pressures and never ending to-do lists?

Do you spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think and how to make them happy?

Are you running yourself ragged while trying to keep your head above water?

And even as you try to fall asleep at night…

⭕ Do you replay everything you could have done differently?

⭕ Do you think about all the things you HAVE to do tomorrow?

⭕ Do you question whether all you’re doing is even enough?

And…

At times, do you feel like you don’t even have control over your own mind?

When things aren’t working…

📍 You feel powerless.

📍 You feel like you don’t have control over your life.

📍 You feel ‘stuck’ and frustrated.

📍 You feel overwhelmed.

📍 You feel like you're lost.

And you start thinking your needs aren’t important.

It’s exhausting... Isn’t it?

How did your life turn out like this?

Now, if that sounds like you…

I’ve got some good news.

I Can Help

Hi 👋 I’m Alan by the way.

I wanted to introduce myself in a way that shows I'm witty, charming and clever. Alas, I wrote this listing instead.

I help people just like you every single day:

📌 People who know something isn’t right.

📌 People who feel like they’re on the edge.

📌 People who believe their lives are out of control.

And I would love to help you too.

We'll use a simple 3 step process.

I call it The Bordeville Method (what else?).

⚒️ STEP 1 - Practical Tools

First, I’ll give you practical tools that you can use RIGHT AWAY to reduce the pain, anxiety, stress and worry you're feeling.

Making small tweaks and doing something for yourself every day is the most important thing.

🌱 STEP 2 - Find The Root Cause

If you feel like something in your life isn’t working…

I speak:

English

Location:

Wenlock Road 22, N1 7GU London, United Kingdom

Approach

This is usually a symptom of a much larger problem that’s a bit harder to see.

After all,.there’s a reason you feel the way you do.

The only way to let go of this feeling is to figure out what’s causing it in the first place.

Once you do…

You can address the problem and change how you feel.

This is where most of the ‘therapy’ happens.

⚜️ STEP 3 - Create New Habits

The truth is…

You can’t expect to do the same things and get a different outcome.

If you want long lasting results, you need to create new habits.

Making positive changes in your life is rewarding but challenging.

Sticking with new habits takes time and persistence.

But don’t worry…

I’ll help you create new habits that ‘stick’.

Who Is This For?

✔️ Do you feel like something just isn’t working?

✔️ Do you want to make a change?

✔️ Do you want to feel like yourself again?

If you answered ‘YES’ to any of the questions above…

I can help YOU.

Now look…

I fully appreciate that you're probably somewhat sceptical.

So I don’t just expect you to take my word for it.

gasp

Instead…

Here's What Other People Are Saying...

"I get up everyday because of his Alan's weekly session of work with me."

"His supportive, understanding and non judgemental nature provided huge support."

"Alan helped me to find my confidence and self esteem..."

"Alan's relaxed attitude helped sometimes even laugh at the difficult moments..."

"Alan was a pleasure to work with and I would highly recommend him."

"Alan is exceptional... I couldn't have asked for a better counsellor"

"Alan helped me both develop a much better understanding of myself and implement practical strategies..."

"Alan was able to guide me through my thoughts with the right balance of involvement."

"Alan's sessions have been extremely helpful in guiding me and giving me a sense of peace."

In short…

Rated 5.0 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ because this stuff works.

So if you’re ready to stop surviving and start thriving…

Click 'Reach out to Alan' and get in touch.

Services

Individual Session

£70 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
London, United KingdomAvailable online only

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