Before transitioning into a career as a counsellor, I spent 30 years as a portrait photographer, capturing moments, emotions, and stories through the lens of my camera. Photography allowed me to explore the world visually, connecting with people and places in unique ways. It taught me to observe the subtle details, to notice what often goes unseen, and to appreciate the power of perspective. This experience shaped my ability to see beneath the surface, a skill I now carry into my work as a counsellor, where I help people explore their own stories with depth and empathy.
We come to know ourselves through our relationships with others. Our identities are not fixed or formed in isolation. They evolve in response to the people we meet, the dynamics we engage in, and the ways we are seen, heard, and responded to. Each encounter becomes a potential mirror, offering insight into parts of ourselves we may not have known. How we relate to each other and how those relationships are held shape the quality of our interactions and the deeper ongoing process of who we are becoming.