It's Complicated

Dr. Vera Disselhoff

(she/her)

Systemic Therapist & Couples Therapist

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Available for new clients

In my role as a couples therapist, I understand diversity and ambivalence as an unchangeable and important part of the human experience. I take great pleasure in illuminating and bringing together different perspectives.

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Melbourne, AustraliaAvailable in-person, online and via text
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Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 2 years on It's Complicated
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About me

After completing my studies in clinical psychology in Berlin, I did my doctorate in Zurich on the development of premature babies and got to know and appreciate working with families and couples in stressful situations. At the same time, I completed a two-year training course in couples therapy at the University of Zurich. A few years ago, I returned to Berlin with my family. I currently work in an outpatient psychotherapy practice in Berlin and as a freelance couples therapist in my own practice.

I speak:

GermanEnglish

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Location:

Wilmersdorf Charlottenburg-Wilmersdorf, Melbourne, Australia

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
Couples therapySupport for couples working through problems and who want to gain insight into the relational dynamics that contribute to the problem.
IFS: Internal family systemsRecommended for those who want to explore and heal the different parts of themselves that might feel conflicted or overwhelmed.
Systemic coachingRecommended for those who want to improve their personal or professional relationships by understanding how they function within larger systems.
Systemic therapyRecommended for those who want to understand how their relationships and environments influence their behavior and emotions, particularly within family or organizational systems.

In my work, I do not position myself as a judge, nor do I assume that there is a single, universal truth. I work on an equal footing with my clients, bringing my professional expertise into the process without offering predefined solutions. Over the course of our collaboration, I become an expert in your specific situation together with you. On this basis, we jointly develop meaningful perspectives and workable ways forward that are appropriate to your relationship and life context.

Experience

9 years in practiceAbout 2 years at It's Complicated

since 2022: Couples Therapy and Individual Coaching in Private Practice

since 2022: Psychological Psychotherapist in training (psychiatric clinic + outpatient psychotherapy practice in Berlin)

2017 - 2022: Research Associate (PhD, Post Doc), University Children's Hospital Zurich

Education

since 2021: Licensure training as a systemic psychological psychotherapist, ISTB Berlin (provisional treatment license: 2023)

2021: Certificate of Advanced Studies in Couples Therapy, University of Zurich

2021: PhD Clinical Science, University of Zurich

2015: M. Sc. Psychology, Steinbeis University Berlin

Services

1:1 Coaching

€135 1 hr 20 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

€195 1 hr 20 min Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Melbourne, AustraliaAvailable in-person, online and via text
Last active
Experienced on It's ComplicatedAbout 2 years on It's Complicated
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Usually responds within 8 hours

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