It's Complicated

Pascal Sproedt

Coach & Relationship Coach

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Clarity for couples in conflict, direction for men at personal and professional crossroads. Reconnect and regain momentum. Book your free intro call today.

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Munich, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
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About me

Whether in relationships or personal life: crises rarely stem from a lack of goodwill, but from ingrained patterns reaching their limits. I provide a structured, safe space to untangle stuck dynamics, gain emotional clarity, and regain agency.

My practice focuses on two core pillars:

Pillar 1: Relationship Coaching & Dynamics (EFT)

When conversations repeatedly spiral into the same accusations, frustration, or emotional withdrawal, rational problem-solving alone rarely helps. Drawing on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) principles, we address the underlying attachment and relational patterns:

  • Breaking conflict loops: Understanding what truly lies beneath anger, defensiveness, or withdrawal.

  • Rebuilding connection: Expressing emotional needs in a way that your partner can truly hear and take in.

  • Gaining clarity: Finding constructive paths forward — whether toward a revitalized partnership or a conscious, amicable realignment.

Pillar 2: Coaching for Men (Gestalt-Based)

Many men reach points where juggling professional demands, family commitments, and personal expectations leads to exhaustion, emotional numbness, or a loss of direction. Common themes in my practice include:

  • Role identity & fatherhood: Defining your own path as a partner and father — moving beyond outdated stereotypes and chronic accommodation.

  • Career transitions & high pressure: Navigating burnout, inner emptiness, or the need for a deliberate change of course.

  • Emotional presence & boundaries: Shifting from merely "functioning" into authentic self-contact and healthy assertiveness.

My Background

Before founding my consulting and coaching practice, I earned a degree in computer science (Diplom-Informatiker) and spent many years as an executive search consultant guiding tech specialists and leaders. I understand demanding, fast-paced work environments from firsthand experience.

My approach bridges this structured, analytical mindset with deep psychological process work: I completed a multi-year training program in Gestalt-based coaching (IKL / Rainer Pieritz) as well as specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT-Ausbildungszentrum Hannover).

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Location:

Zentnerstraße 19, im Hof, 1. Stock, 80798 Munich, Germany

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Approach

Treatment Approaches
CoachingRecommended for those who want support and motivation to achieve personal or professional goals, often with a structured, goal-oriented approach.
Couples therapySupport for couples working through problems and who want to gain insight into the relational dynamics that contribute to the problem.
EFT: Emotionally focused therapyRecommended for couples or individuals who want to strengthen emotional connections in relationships by exploring feelings and attachment.
Gestalt therapyRecommended for those who want to focus on the present and take responsibility for their feelings and actions to promote personal growth.

My work is built on two evidence-based, experiential pillars: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) principles and Gestalt-based coaching.

I don’t offer generic blueprints or superficial advice. Real transformation happens when behavioral patterns aren't just understood intellectually, but felt, processed, and shifted in the present moment:

  • In the Here and Now: Rather than endlessly debating past events in the abstract, we look at how underlying dynamics surface right now in the room — through dialogue, tone, posture, and relational contact.

  • Interrupting Automatic Patterns: We uncover the unconscious protective and avoidance mechanisms that keep you stuck as an individual or prevent you from connecting with warmth and safety as a couple.

  • From Overthinking to Somatic Awareness: Analytical minds often try to solve emotional friction through pure logic. We bring somatic and emotional awareness back into the process, because sustainable decisions and true reconnection require both.

I meet you as an equal: grounded, direct, empathetic, and providing a steady container when emotions run high.

Experience

Practice Focus & Core Areas

In my private practice in Munich-Maxvorstadt and online, I regularly work with couples and individual clients (with a dedicated focus on men):

  • Relationship Coaching & Couples Dynamics: Guiding couples through acute crises, entrenched conflict-and-withdrawal cycles, and critical decisions about their shared future.

  • Coaching for Men: Supporting men at crucial personal and professional turning points — navigating role identity (partnership, fatherhood), separation and divorce, burnout, or deliberate realignment.

Corporate & Recruitment Background

Before dedicating myself fully to private practice, I worked for many years as an executive search consultant for tech specialists and leaders. I understand firsthand the realities of high-performance pressure, relentless expectations, career ambitions, and the subtle risk of losing touch with oneself.

This background allows me to meet clients from demanding professional environments at eye level — pragmatic, grounded, and without unnecessary theoretical detours.

Education

Professional Psychological Training & Methods

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples: Advanced training at the EFT-Ausbildungszentrum Hannover (Christine Weiß & Hendrik Weiß). Specialized in attachment styles, relational dynamics, and working with core emotional needs in couples work.

  • Gestalt Therapy & Coaching: Multi-year comprehensive training as "Gestalttherapeut (IKL)" at the Institut für Konfliktmanagement und Lebensgestaltung, led by clinical psychologist Dipl.-Psych. Rainer Pieritz. Core focus: relational contact, somatic awareness, and process-oriented work in the here and now.

Academic Background

  • University Degree in Computer Science (Diplom-Informatiker): Rigorous academic training. Informs my structured, clear, and analytical approach to navigating complex situations.

Experiential Deepening & Quality Assurance

  • The Hero's Journey (Heldenreise): Intensive experiential self-discovery process based on the work of Paul Rebillot.

  • Authentic Communication: Advanced seminars including Radical Honesty (direct self-expression and transparent relational boundaries).

  • Continuous professional supervision and peer intervision to ensure the highest standards in my coaching practice.

Legal Notice: Psychological counseling and coaching only; does not constitute medical psychotherapy under the German Heilpraktikergesetz and does not replace psychiatric/medical treatment.

Services

Intro Call

Free • 20 min • Online
DE: Unverbindliches Kennenlerngespräch per Video zum Klären Deines Anliegens und der Rahmenbedingungen. EN: Complimentary 20-minute video call to get to know each other, discuss your goals, and see if we're a good fit.

Individual Session

€120 • 1 hr • Online & In-person
DE: Gestaltbasiertes Einzelcoaching. Wir durchbrechen festgefahrene Muster und schaffen Klarheit bei beruflichen Umbrüchen, Leistungsdruck oder Rollenkonflikten. EN: Gestalt-based 1:1 Coaching Session. Breaking stuck patterns, navigating career transitions, and finding clarity under high pressure.

Couples Session

€180 • 1 hr 30 min • Online & In-person
DE: Paarsitzung auf Basis des Emotionsfokussierten Ansatz (EFT). Wir stoppen wiederkehrende Streit- und Rückzugsschleifen, verstehen emotionale Trigger und stärken die Verbindung nachhaltig. EN: Couples session based on Emotionally Focused (EFT) principles. Interrupting conflict loops, understanding emotional triggers, and rebuilding secure connection.

Insurances

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At a glance
Munich, GermanyAvailable in-person and online
Last active
Offers free 20 minute introductory callThis provider offers a free introductory call
Illustration of a smiling sun peeking over a cloud, symbolizing warmth and positivity for connecting with the therapist.
Usually responds within 24 hours
Next available: Oct 23