Clarity for couples in conflict, direction for men at personal and professional crossroads. Reconnect and regain momentum. Book your free intro call today.
Whether in relationships or personal life: crises rarely stem from a lack of goodwill, but from ingrained patterns reaching their limits. I provide a structured, safe space to untangle stuck dynamics, gain emotional clarity, and regain agency.
My practice focuses on two core pillars:
Pillar 1: Relationship Coaching & Dynamics (EFT)
When conversations repeatedly spiral into the same accusations, frustration, or emotional withdrawal, rational problem-solving alone rarely helps. Drawing on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) principles, we address the underlying attachment and relational patterns:
Breaking conflict loops: Understanding what truly lies beneath anger, defensiveness, or withdrawal.
Rebuilding connection: Expressing emotional needs in a way that your partner can truly hear and take in.
Gaining clarity: Finding constructive paths forward — whether toward a revitalized partnership or a conscious, amicable realignment.
Pillar 2: Coaching for Men (Gestalt-Based)
Many men reach points where juggling professional demands, family commitments, and personal expectations leads to exhaustion, emotional numbness, or a loss of direction. Common themes in my practice include:
Role identity & fatherhood: Defining your own path as a partner and father — moving beyond outdated stereotypes and chronic accommodation.
Career transitions & high pressure: Navigating burnout, inner emptiness, or the need for a deliberate change of course.
Emotional presence & boundaries: Shifting from merely "functioning" into authentic self-contact and healthy assertiveness.
My Background
Before founding my consulting and coaching practice, I earned a degree in computer science (Diplom-Informatiker) and spent many years as an executive search consultant guiding tech specialists and leaders. I understand demanding, fast-paced work environments from firsthand experience.
My approach bridges this structured, analytical mindset with deep psychological process work: I completed a multi-year training program in Gestalt-based coaching (IKL / Rainer Pieritz) as well as specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT-Ausbildungszentrum Hannover).
My work is built on two evidence-based, experiential pillars: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) principles and Gestalt-based coaching.
I don’t offer generic blueprints or superficial advice. Real transformation happens when behavioral patterns aren't just understood intellectually, but felt, processed, and shifted in the present moment:
In the Here and Now: Rather than endlessly debating past events in the abstract, we look at how underlying dynamics surface right now in the room — through dialogue, tone, posture, and relational contact.
Interrupting Automatic Patterns: We uncover the unconscious protective and avoidance mechanisms that keep you stuck as an individual or prevent you from connecting with warmth and safety as a couple.
From Overthinking to Somatic Awareness: Analytical minds often try to solve emotional friction through pure logic. We bring somatic and emotional awareness back into the process, because sustainable decisions and true reconnection require both.
I meet you as an equal: grounded, direct, empathetic, and providing a steady container when emotions run high.
Practice Focus & Core Areas
In my private practice in Munich-Maxvorstadt and online, I regularly work with couples and individual clients (with a dedicated focus on men):
Relationship Coaching & Couples Dynamics: Guiding couples through acute crises, entrenched conflict-and-withdrawal cycles, and critical decisions about their shared future.
Coaching for Men: Supporting men at crucial personal and professional turning points — navigating role identity (partnership, fatherhood), separation and divorce, burnout, or deliberate realignment.
Corporate & Recruitment Background
Before dedicating myself fully to private practice, I worked for many years as an executive search consultant for tech specialists and leaders. I understand firsthand the realities of high-performance pressure, relentless expectations, career ambitions, and the subtle risk of losing touch with oneself.
This background allows me to meet clients from demanding professional environments at eye level — pragmatic, grounded, and without unnecessary theoretical detours.
Professional Psychological Training & Methods
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples: Advanced training at the EFT-Ausbildungszentrum Hannover (Christine Weiß & Hendrik Weiß). Specialized in attachment styles, relational dynamics, and working with core emotional needs in couples work.
Gestalt Therapy & Coaching: Multi-year comprehensive training as "Gestalttherapeut (IKL)" at the Institut für Konfliktmanagement und Lebensgestaltung, led by clinical psychologist Dipl.-Psych. Rainer Pieritz. Core focus: relational contact, somatic awareness, and process-oriented work in the here and now.
Academic Background
Experiential Deepening & Quality Assurance
The Hero's Journey (Heldenreise): Intensive experiential self-discovery process based on the work of Paul Rebillot.
Authentic Communication: Advanced seminars including Radical Honesty (direct self-expression and transparent relational boundaries).
Continuous professional supervision and peer intervision to ensure the highest standards in my coaching practice.
Legal Notice: Psychological counseling and coaching only; does not constitute medical psychotherapy under the German Heilpraktikergesetz and does not replace psychiatric/medical treatment.