Mirabel Xing

(she/her)

Psychotherapist & Social worker

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
New York City, United StatesAvailable online only

About me

Historically, humans thrived in close-knit communities, forming deep bonds and receiving diverse support. Today, life feels more isolating due to demanding jobs and scattered loved ones. Yet, our fundamental nature remains unchanged; we still yearn for meaningful connections, emotional support, and a deeper understanding of our human experience.

As a therapist, I cannot replace your community, but together, we will create an intentional space to explore your relationships with yourself and the world, fostering self-awareness. We will seek the peace, freedom, and vitality that transform everyday living into a fulfilling choice.

As an immigrant, Adult Third Culture Kid (ATCK), and former international student, I understand that each person’s identity and experiences are nuanced and multilayered. My careers as a journalist and teacher taught me that the narratives we choose or are given are key to understanding our experiences. These narratives may have helped you assimilate in a demanding world, but beneath the surface, there are parts of you longing to be acknowledged and embraced.

Whether you are in crisis or seeking a safe space to unload, experiment, and grow, I welcome you with open arms. It would be my privilege to walk this journey with you.

I speak:

ChineseEnglish

Location:

New York City, United States

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Couples therapySupport for couples working through problems and who want to gain insight into the relational dynamics that contribute to the problem.
EFT: Emotionally focused therapyRecommended for couples or individuals who want to strengthen emotional connections in relationships by exploring feelings and attachment.
IFS: Internal family systemsRecommended for those who want to explore and heal the different parts of themselves that might feel conflicted or overwhelmed.
Psychodynamic therapyRecommended for those looking to explore their emotions deeply and understand how past experiences shape their present life.

I am Internal Family Systems (IFS)-trained, and I integrate Western and Eastern philosophies, also drawing from modalities such as psychodynamic, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and existential psychotherapy.

Services

Intro Call

Free 20 min Online

Individual Session

US$150 1 hr Online

Couples Session

US$150 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
New York City, United StatesAvailable online only

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